i need advice.....

[Earth2RON]

im a very quiet,and shy person when i want to be,and i dont have much of a social life.im thinking that i fear opening up to much to someone knowing that i might get hurt in the end.

what can i do in order to go out and live life like to the fullest?

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[erinmoran]

1- bang the first chick you meet
2- pretend you worship satan
3-say yes to booze
4-scream and yell gibberish in public places

Works for me:)

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[Ninja Lesbian]

I find that booze and others people pity works for me. It's gotten me laid more than times than i like to admit. Wow, it's hard to believe that i guy with your confidence can't get girls...did that sound too offense, i can't tell anymore


Who wants jello!!!

[Earth2RON]

1- bang the first chick you meet 2- pretend you worship satan 3-say yes to booze 4-scream and yell gibberish in public places


i dont drink and i dont have sex,and i cant worship satan hes a devil.

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[Jennitalia]

just go out, try to just be yourself and dont worry so much about what people may or may not think of you. if you're afraid of opening up to people try asking them questions about themselves and get to know them. and as you get more comfortable with them, the more confident you may be in opening up

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[JustinR]

*writing down notes* drink...more...booze..

That might work.

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[Earth2RON]

jennitalia...i dont really care much about what people think of me,because i know who i am,and im always myself.

i just need to have one female to come up to me,and put a boot to my as*.

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[Christy]

i dont drink and i dont have sex,and i cant worship satan hes a devil.



A man with morals and values ... thank goodness!

Oh wait ... is this Fitz ... Mr. Adorable!

I fear opening up too much to. I always regret what I say because I feel that the person { who I put my trust in } will go and use that information against me. That has to do with my self-esteem issues.

I wish for you to find that girl who will kick your ass, and be happy together. You seem like a great guy!

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[Earth2RON]

Oh wait ... is this Fitz ... Mr. Adorable :) <P>
we should go to therpy together...christy <P>

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[HordeKing1]

You link being quiet and shy and not having an active social life. You explain your shyness as a fear of opening up to much.

It's true that a person who knows us well can hurt us more than someone we barely know. It's also true that you can protect yourself from being hurt to this extent by turtling into a shell and not being social.

However, as you know, we are social animals and need companionship.

If you're not meeting women on your own, ask your friend's gf to set you up with one of their friends. Double dating might help overcome some of the shyness as well.

The potential for being hurt is there, but the rewards are great and ultimately make it worthwhile.

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[Earth2RON]

thank you very much horde king ive been waiting for your words.:)

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[HordeKing1]

Sorry it took so long.

On Thursday I gave a paper and lecture on the allocation of stereotypical female gender roles in heterosexual, gay and lesbian couples.

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[Earth2RON]

i was just playing i know you are a very important man when you are not on the board posting away.

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[Christy]

we should go to therpy together...christy


LOL I would be balling like a baby ... they would reach my "inner-child" ... and that would not be good! ;-)

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