losing virginity

[sexy bastard]

I have a question I have to ask.
I just had my best friends sister ask me if I would be the man to take her virginity, now this is now the 6th time i have been asked this in my life, all from close friends now I dont know, she says its because guys are always trying to get in her pants and just want to have sex with her and she is learning its alot of mind games, so she wants me to be her first cause she says she knows I wont play mind games, I will be gentle and I would not be just doing it to have sex.
Now I dont know, I have only done that once because my friend was really close with me and I knew that she was ready for it..not physically but emotionally.
Now I thought for women losing their virginity was something that is suppose to be very special, and that is why they hold on to it. But why is she asking me to be her first I dont understand. and do you think I should or shouldnt?

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[zathrus]

sexy..as your friend, i'm telling you no. this is not a good idea. she has put you in an wierd place. you have to consider her request, your friendship with her and your best friend and the fact that she may regret this later and feel that even though she asked you, that you took advantage of her. what would (i presume here) her brother think of the situation. All in all the choice is up to you, but as a woman i don't think that this would be a good idea.

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[A.J.]

Of course you should be flattered to be asked such a thing but best friend's sisters are off-limits.

[fatty]

i say pop that shit. she'll sleep with a bunch more guys but she'll always remember you. put a notch over your bed for every virgin you bang, it'll make you smile every time you look at it.

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[zathrus]

fatty
this is his best friends sister... don't you guys have some kind of code against sleeping with a friends sister?

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[Christy]

You should be very flattered! WOW!

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[zathrus]

i agree that he should be flattered, but is deflowering this girl with possible losing his best friend?

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[Jennitalia]

it must be hard to live the life of a sexy bastard ;)


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[fatty]

fatty
this is his best friends sister... don't you guys have some kind of code against sleeping with a friends sister?

i'm just teaing zathrus, i dont' really think that way. he shouldn't do it. 1st of all it's her virginity and 2nd it's your boy's sister. it's nice in theory but there is too much baggage. try to only stick with girls you love, there's almost never any regrets that way

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[Earth2RON]

sexy bastard.....dont do it never have sex with your best friends sister,if it was just a friend then you coudl do it but hes your left hand,so just tell her no and let her know why you wont do it that should ease the pain.

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[IRISjr]

WOW.
my real good friend's sister is in love with me. This is probly illigal but let me copy/paste here b-day email to me!!!
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OMG, i totally 4got that 2day wuz ur birthday! Happy, Happy, Happy, Happy Birthday! I love u soooo much! U r soooo adorable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[insert friends sisters name here]
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Hey, at least I didn't show her name. :)
But the problem is.
She is an insane (literaly) 6th grader.
And I'm a 8th grader who is too sexy for his pants.
She wasn't asking me to get in her pants. But just to go out. And my friend is not being a brother, and is saying sure. But still... no way.
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This message was edited by IRISjr on 3-26-02 @ 3:56 PM

[furie]

if it were anyone else, i'd say you were gay for even asking. but since it's a friend's sister, don't do it.



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[sexy bastard]

ok so let me see here
1. cause its my best friends sister i should not do it
2 if it was anyone else do it
3. i should be flattered...which i am
4. furie I dont mind your comment you can call me gay just dont call me Al Dukes.
5. Yes Jenn the life of a sexy bastard is a hard one
lol
See i was concerned more on the emotional attachment more then the friend ship between her brother and me........I mean there is a emotional situation in her mind I guess...right?

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[zathrus]

i guess there could be an emotional attachemnt, but it is still not a good idea. hope that we helped.

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[vinmobb]

i actually dident have sex with a girl once because she was a virgin.first its boring their all insecure with themselves. second what if she realizes she has feelings for you afterwords just because you were her first. let her learn the hard way.(no pun intended) <P>

[Earth2RON]

I mean there is a emotional situation in her mind I guess...right? i dont know how long you guys have known each other,but that can also be a facter for why she wants you to have the honors of taking her virginity.she sees you all the time,and she might know all that their is to know about you when.just dont touch her let her dowb easy dawg. <P>

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[lleeder]

Don't do it unless you would have banged her if she wasn't a virgin.

[HordeKing1]

SEXY - I would first ask your friend's sister directly why she wants you to be the one to be her first sex partner. (Note, I don't use the term "take her virginity." Hopefully, nothing is being taken, it is being given).

Her ascertations of wanting you b/c she knows you would be gentle and not just want to have sex doesn't ring true. I think there's something deeper going on here which you have to delve into.

You must also ascertain what sleeping with her would mean to you. Firstly, I'll assume she's not a minor and you of legal age, b/c that constitutes statutory rape even if consent is given.

How would having sex affect your future interactions with her? How would it affect the relationship you have with your friend? If you have any unease about it, I'd recomend not doing it. There are very few things worht losing a friendship over and this is not one of them. The situation would be different if you loved each other, but even then I'd recomend discussing it with your friend before considering dating or having sex with his sister.

If you feel you can't talk to your friend about these issues, it's a pretty good indication that the entire scenerio makes you uncomfortable. Follow your heart.

The first sexual experience is special to both men and women - men care a great deal about it too. As as often been quoted "you never forget your first."

I can assure you, that if you don't have sex with her, she will eventually meet another guy whom she wants to have sex with and with whom she has more of an emotional attachment.

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[sexy bastard]

oklet me first respond to lleeders comment.....The difference between having sex with her whether she is a virgin or not is different...when in my opinion you have already had sex you can have regular sex but as your first time i believe its suppose to be special, hersituation is this she has gone out with alot of jerks...i mean guys who playthe mind games to get in her pants and she is afraid of losing it to one of these guys and then getting hurt...I mean my first time was notspecial and neither was my second time, and she knows me and alot of my ex girlfriends and she knows how i am and she wants it to be special..I believe she is doing this more on spite from her last boyfriend and dont believe she is ready for it emotionally that is.
but i dont know i am more of a no...but also a part of me sympathasizes with her and leans towards a yes.
still dont know keep giving advice everyone please

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[Hoojibs]

My best friend has a sister and I wouldn't for one major reason. Mainly because I know and he knows he can kick the living shit out of me. That's enough to make me turn her down.

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[zathrus]

sexb:
i still think that you shouldn't do it. it's just going to cause more problems than it would be worth.

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[sexy bastard]

yeah your right i thinknow i am not able to do it anyway to much crap in my life right now

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[Cybersoldier]

Without any question you go for it, but it your best friend's sister so don't go for it.

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[sexy bastard]

well i decided not to do it for 2 reasons
1. respect to her brother
2. i talked to her and she seems to be only wanting to do it just to get it over with so she doesnt get hurt by guys, i am sorry if she wanted to do it with me i am flattered either way but it seems more of just a vendictive thing to say she did not lose it to a asshole..you know and in that case i dont think she is ready for it...not the way to lose it in my opinion

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