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nellie
04-08-2002, 07:29 AM
I'm thinking about moving to California a.s.a.p, but I don't know if I should. I've always wanted to go out west, but now that I've met Lea, the idea is more up in the air. Should I g with my feelings for Lea and stick around NY to see if anything developes between he and I, or should I go to Cal because that was my plan to begin with(before I met Lea)?

i am the inner child..... quiet, sensitive, and shy
Earth2RON
04-08-2002, 09:57 AM
nellie....
your life comes before his so go with your heart

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Jackie Sloan
04-08-2002, 10:03 AM
California is beautiful...hope it works out for ya


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cheezeemee
04-08-2002, 06:27 PM
If he loves you he'll go with you.

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HordeKing1
04-08-2002, 06:44 PM
NELLIE - You indicate that you have feelings for Lea but not whether he has feelings for you. In fact you question moving just to "see if anything develops." It doesn't sound like the relationship is strong to warrent changing your plans.

If you already had a serious relationship, the situation would be very different.

If you choose to go to California as planned, you can always keep in touch with Lea via mail, e-mail and phone. If anything develops, you can reassess your plans.



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nellie
04-09-2002, 10:56 AM
he has said that he has feelings for me.
i talked about transfering to california after wcc, and all he could was say that i would like it there;it was like he didn't care...

i am the inner child..... quiet, sensitive, and shy
HordeKing1
04-09-2002, 08:50 PM
His response is all the information you need. If he doesn't care, the relationship will not progress.

Stick with your original plans and go to California. It's his loss not yours.

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ADF
04-10-2002, 05:55 AM
California's great; I lived there for several years. If I wasn't engaged to a girl who won't move out of Jersey, I'd live there myself.

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nellie
04-10-2002, 12:21 PM
your life comes before his so go with your heart

half of me says stay the other half says go. i love him dearly, but i want to get out of my house. i think part of the reason i want to get out to cali is because i'm afraid of going into a relationship, and getting hurt.

i am the inner child..... quiet, sensitive, and shy
HordeKing1
04-10-2002, 12:35 PM
NELLIE - Many fear relationships. It makes more sense to fear BAD relationships. Since this guy didn't even act like he cared when you told him you were thinking of moving, it appears to me that he is not particularly interested in a relationship. Moreover, if he was interested and just not expressive, do you really want to get into a relationship with a guy who will not disclose his feelings to you?



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nellie
04-10-2002, 07:42 PM
after he said i'd like it there, he started bitching about he smallest things, like the flowers. his attitude did change. he was more upbeat before i started to talk about my possibly transfering to california.

i am the inner child..... quiet, sensitive, and shy
nellie
04-11-2002, 12:28 PM
i'm gonna stick around for awhile :)

i am the inner child..... quiet, sensitive, and shy
HordeKing1
04-11-2002, 07:31 PM
NELLIE - I hope it works out for you guys. Bear in mind you do have an easy escape hatch if the need arises - simply follow your original plans and move as originally planned.

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