Older men?

[Noellevious]

I was wondering if any of the RF ladies have had relationships or experiences with older men and if there was a huge age difference or just a couple of years. Was it positive or negative? If it's been a while since, would you do it all again?
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This message was edited by Noellevious on 4-9-02 @ 11:36 PM

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

I dated someone who was 17 years older than me. Ironically, I would up taking care of him!

Age is superfluous. If you click with someone, then you click with them.

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[Christy]

I've recently gotten over a crush that I had on an older man. I am 21, and he is in his mid-to-late 30's. I spoke to Horde King about this and he taught me about "life stages." My needs/wants would not be the same as this older man's. I'm still learning about life, and he may be looking to settle down and raise a family.

So speak to the Horde King if you need some advice ... he is a great guy!

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[Supervixen]

when i was 16 I dated a guy who
was 36. He told me he was 26, i
later found out he was married,
and a drug dealer. BIG FUCKEN
MISTAKE- stay away- as tempting
as it is at first, trust me, they
have something terribly wrong
with them if they cant find
woman there own age. just trust
me on this one


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[TooCute]

I live with my boyfriend who is 35
- 10 years older than me. Okay
so if you are 16, someone 20
years older than you is a big
deal. But it's all about you and
your life and him and his life and
what you want and what he
wants and if it works, fabulous.
Just make sure that when it
comes down to it, you don't ever
setttle. Can you imagine
spending the rest of your life with
someone you don't think is
perfect? I'd rather be alone.
Everyone deserves everything
that they want in a relationship,
so make sure you're getting it.


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[Arienette]

i'd like to agree on the whole "life stages" thing. the only time age differences really become a problem is when the people are at really different places in their lives. like, i've dated men somewhat older than me (like 10 years or a little more) and it was fine becasue our lives and experiences left us more or less in the same place. on the other hand, i dated someone who was 18 when i was 12 and, while the age difference was a lot less, it was awful because we couldn't understand each other in any meaningful way.

but in the end, the point (as fuzzybutt said) is that if you click, you click. if there is a real connection there, age really doesn't matter.

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[AngelAmy]

my current b/f is 26 im 18

my last one was 21 when i was 17, that wasnt that bad

ive had crushes on guys that are in their early thirties and given the chance i would date them, my mom would probably kill me

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[Jackie Sloan]

Once again(I do try NOT to do this) I completely agree with Mrs Fuzzybutt...the age difference is LESS important than most of the other factors


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[Jennitalia]

i agree with the age phase thing, as well as being able to click with a person.
the oldest guy i dated was 4 years older than i was. we were so much alike and had so much in common it was scary. the reason we broke up was "life phase" related, otherwise, i wouldve married him in a second.

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[Kewlkat]

Hell ya!!!!!!!!!!! Older men=moore gooder!!

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[FollowThisLogic]

For some reason, I get the feeling there's something I should know....

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This message was edited by FollowThisLogic on 4-10-02 @ 6:53 PM

[Noellevious]

For some reason, I get the feeling there's something I should know....

Thread killing bastard.

Thanks ladies, 'specially mama Fuzzybutt whose reply I was waiting for. :)

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This message was edited by Noellevious on 4-10-02 @ 7:34 PM

[FollowThisLogic]

I didn't kill it! I brought it back to life! ;)

[biased answer]I think a few years' difference is fine, especially if the feelings are there, but if the difference is really big (and the younger you are, the bigger the difference FEELS), I think it probably wouldn't work out. A 14-year-old couldn't possibly have much in common with a 30-year-old... I'm sure there are examples where such relationships have worked, but I would bet they're REALLY rare.[/biased-but-turned-out-to-be-serious-anyway answer]

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[Gvac]

Noellevious, I thought we agreed not to go "public" with our illicit love affair!


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[Noellevious]

Noellevious, I thought we agreed not to go "public" with our illicit love affair!

DAMMIT, GVAC! You blew it! Rooster thought this thread was about *him!* ::Sigh::

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[Tazz]

my current b/f is 26 im 18


That's just gross. What is his problem? Can't he just find someone his own age?

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[erinmoran]

Whats his problem?


He doesnt have a problem....hes a man. The younger the chick is the more pussah....they give away.

That 26 yr old is a lucky dude...*nudge *nudge...*wink *wink

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[DarkHippie]

hey, 17 is legal in NY . .. right . . . . RIGHT????

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[ROMEO]

Age does'nt matter I feel, after your say 18-21. Before that I don't think it's right for a guy whos in his 30s to be going out with a girl in her teens, thats just stealing some very important years and life experience's from her that she'll never be able to get back. And if you do stay together she may resent you for what she missed. The ages should be closer if your younger , after your in your 20s then maybe ages should'nt matter as much.
And alot of times it's not that age in years matter as much as age in life matters. I know some guys that are in their 30s and still living with mom & dad,go out to bars and clubs every weekend and blah blah blah. Anyway guys like that still are'nt grown up enough to be with someone their own age. Because what is their age really, life age. <P>

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[opm * chick]

yeah I think I get along better with older guys when it comes to relationships.

I'm 16 and dating a 20 year old guy (he just turned 20 so it's not that bad) and it doesn't feel weird at all.

I think I've always gone for the older boys because they know how to treat a girl right.

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[grlNIN]

so far my game includes:

15 to a 20 y.old
16 to a 19 y.old
17 to a 24-22-19 y.old
and im sure theres more to come....

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[HordeKing1]

The age factor is relevant as, by and large, it determines what life stage a person is in, and thus where their interests, focus and problems lie.

A person in late adolescence and a person in middle adulthood are so far off the map in regard to commonality that the relationship has little chance of succeeding.

Of course, the maturity (or lack thereof) of the people involved has a lot to do with the success of an age-disparate relationship.

Finally, a person who has not sucessfully resolved the psychosocial crisis of earlier life stages may find themselves easily able to relate to someone much younger than them - and they to he.

However, in the absence of successful primary adaptive ego qualities resulting from successful resolution of the life stage conflicts, negative qualities, called core pathologies result.

This pathology can hold back the normal resolution of the life stage crisis in the partner.

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[opm * chick]

bravo!

that's all very true. I just go out with, and hang out with, guys older than me because I guess I'm mature for my age. And no I'm not stupid and realize that a lot of guys date younger girls because they know they're easier to talk into doing things than older girls (who have more experience and maybe more respect for themselves because of it) are. I make it clear to them that I won't give it up and if they totally respect + understand me, well then they're good bf material.

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[JustJon]

For some reason, I get the feeling there's something I should know....
FTL, I thought we agreed not to go "public" with our illicit love affair!

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[Christy]

Celine Dion and her husband are 25 years apart and they "seem" so happy ...

Oh well ...

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[cheezeemee]

Coming from a guy that's been with an older I have no problem with the age gap. Just as long as it's temporary. I don't want to wake up one day and find myself in Jurrasic Park. Ifyanowaddameen!! <P>

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[FollowThisLogic]

FTL, I thought we agreed not to go "public" with our illicit love affair!
Geez Jon... <b><i>I</b></i> was being vague...

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[DreamWeaver]

The oldest guy I ever dated was 7 years older than me. He was extremely immature, didn't have a house, a lisence(he would get it back in 2015), a bank account and he had an extremely bad drinking problem...LOSER! Needless to say that didn't work out for obvious reasons.

My roomate's ex is 19 years older(he's 42, she's 23). They recently broke up because he started to get all religious on her,telling her she shouldnt be drinking and she goes out too much..blah blah. She was acting like your average 23 year old and he was acting like her father. ANyway..they knew they would never get married so they broke up...Although he's still over the house 3 times a week....I dont get it.

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[DroopyGirl]

I'm 18 and my ex is 26.. and he is dating a 15 year old now.. THAT's what I call disgusting

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[nellie]

i don't think age matters, i think that if you love some one and that person loves you back the same the rest will eventually fall into place (w/ work to keep the relationship going of course)

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[erinmoran]

Celine Dion and her husband are 25 years apart and they "seem" so happy ...


considering that she was so young when they met......its ridiculous. if i was her brother when they started goin out i wouldnt be able to look at her. Just because hes her producer......they have to bang each other????!

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[fiestygal]

i would prefer to go out with an older man...i feel men should ALWAYS be older than the lady....the first guy i made out with was 37.....but i have a range id be willing to date...

Range: men 1 day older than me - 35yrd old

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[Aggie]

Uh, how old were you when you made out with a 37 year old? If you were a teenager I think that's kina yucky. I only think dating older men is cool when you're in your mid 20's. Other than that I'd be kind of suspicious why they weren't with any women closer to their age. (Unless it was a real love/connection b/t the people)

My mom told me to marry someone younger b/c men seem to die first and women end up being left alone for like 10 or 15 years. I wonder if that theory is true? lol


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[ShelleBink]

i've always dated older guys... whether it be 10 months older, or uhh.. MUCH older.

i'm just attracted to it i guess... and it helps when they're cuties too :P

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[buttplug]

age is all mind over matter if she dosen;t mind it dosen;t matter.

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[Poopsyc]

I think age only matters when you are dealing with teenagers but once you hit 21 the age number doesn't count anymore. It's the maturity level that you are at that makes a difference. I am 22 and currently dating a 30 year old. This is the widest age difference I have ever been in a relationship with I am amazed as to how compatible we are. People get to a point in life where age shouldn't matter anymore and that is up to the person to decide.

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