friends of the opposite sex

[Supervixen]

I was just wondering why I have
maybe one or two friends that
are girls and a good 98% of my
friends are guys...
is there some kind of
psychological reason for why I
dont get along with females?


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[Noellevious]

Maybe 'cause chicks are competitive biatches? I wish the sterotype wasn't true, but it is. I've had one best girlfriend for ten years and a few other very close ones, and with that, I'm more blessed than most. Guys are simply more laid back, and you can say things to them and act around them in a way that would insult the average female.

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[Lulu]

because women are lying, deceitful bitches, that will start bad mouthing you when you aren't there to defend yourself.

i only have a few women friends, and the rest are guys. i have a lot more in common with men.

[ChrisTheCop]

Let's not forget the fact that men will put up with alot more than women simply because they know they have to if they're gonna get in your pants. I don't wanna get all "when harry mey sally" here, but it's true!

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[HordeKing1]

ANNA - I find this very intersting because most of my closest friends are female. Long ago, I realized why this is. Women are much more likely to be comfortable talking about their feelings, and disclosing other important things. Men in general, seem to have a much more difficult time doing this.

Gender psychologists report that most intimate friendships are b/w women and women, then women and men, and lastly men and men. It's easier for men to relate to women than other men.

However, very often, (surprisingly often given the results of these studies) women have a high potential to be mean and nasty to other women. Note this is just a potential, not a certainty byt it would explain why you find it easier to get along with guys as opposed to women.

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[Christy]

I don't like chicks ... never have! Girls are bitches!!!

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[Gaia]

Maybe 'cause chicks are competitive biatches

Hahahaha!!! Man, Truer words have never been spoken. I'm sorry But I have had nothing but bad experiences with females every time I have let one into my life (very rare thing). I have ALWAYS had guys friends, even when I was small. I never trusted girls. I have a shitload of issues, and females being wankers is one of my big ones.

Horde King, I never really understood why I had so many issues when it came to females, so many different feelings, and levels of distrust, and hate. When I was a kid my father would say I was no good, and that all girls were trouble and were always up to no good. That my mom should have flushed the "Girls down the toilet", and that I was worthless. Now I have all these feelings about women, I hate myself and love myself at the same time. One minute I think I can do anything and the next minute I think exactly what my father would say. I know I need to go "see someone" for many different reasons, But I'm guessing all these feelings have to do with how the female image was presented when I was a child?

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[Aggie]

i totally agree. i have always known i did not like to have girls have friends. we can manipulative and backstabbing and i don't trust them either. every time i get really close to one i usually end up getting screwed in the end...whether they are after my man or just out to get what they want. guys are much easier to relate to and are willing to accept us more....but i don't think most guys know how evil girls can really be.

[Supervixen]

Thanks HK, I mean I thought it
was the reason everyone else is
saying- cause girls can just be
bitches, but I knew there had to
be soemthing more because my
psyche seems to LOOK for
somerthing wrong with these
females so I have a way to say
"O look, I cant be her friend
because..."


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[A.J.]

I have a lot of female friends. I'm a "big brother, non-threatening, nice guy".

Woo hoo.

[fatty]

how come all girls think this? if girls are such bitches than why are we friends with them? and by this rationale, all the girls on this board must think of each other as bitches, since they are all like this.

girls are no easier to get along with then guys, it is the same as in everything else. some winners, a whole lot of losers.

every girl says that other girls are the worst, but how come they are never the other girl? every girl thinks they are cool, but they don't know any other girl who is. there must be some other reason why girls hang out with guys. this other girls are bitches thing isn't enough. you know what? maybe they are but other guys are assholes. i know a lot more asshole guys than i do bitchy girls.

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[fatty]

one more point, i think it says a lot for a girl if she has a lot of girl friends. any girl can have a lot of guy friends, but a girl who has a lot of girl friends must be pretty cool if other girls can like her too.

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[Supervixen]

fatty is exactly saying my point.
What makes this like this? It just
really puzles me. My two best
friends are girls and ALL of my
aquantences (sp?) and other
friends are guys and it just has
always been like this- even with
different people, same gender
same roles. I just thought it was
odd.
aND its so easy to say that most
girls are bitches and thats why
you cant get along but its not fair
to say everyone u dont get along
with is wrong or a bitch or ect..
which is why there has to be
something more behind it.


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[HordeKing1]

Less self disclosure is expected of you from guys. You feel more secure b/c they know you to a lesser extent than the typical female/female friendship.

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