View Full Version : HELP! this boy won't leave me alone!
my friend, who since moved away, introduced me to this guy. first we only talked on the phone, with my other friend on the line, then through the net. the day before my friend moved away, we all went to the movies. (me, the friend, others from school, the boy, and his friend)
well, to make a long story short, the boy keeps bothering me. i keep blocking him, and he gets a new screenname. i block that one, and he keeps emailing me. i no longer want to have any contact with him at all. what should i do? i've tried everything?
Sounds a bit drastic, but change your email address? If you contact AOL (your ISP, no?) they should be able to help you.
The funny thing is that I added you to my buddy list but then forgot who Rf5325 was. Now I know and knowing's half the battle.. GI Joe.
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thankyou! i'll try that.
The funny thing is that I added you to my buddy list but then forgot who Rf5325 was.
oh, thanks. well, i like being under the radar. i added you to my buddy list too. but, i shant forget you! :) i'm good like that, my friend.
brodieman
04-14-2002, 07:44 PM
find out where he lives, go there and give him a good, swift kick in the nuts, that'll get the message through
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cheezeemee
04-14-2002, 07:49 PM
Go cyber incognito:
Get a new screen name and only give it to those you trust.
As far as actually dealing with this kid on a daily basis just make friends with the biggest kid in school (free lunches,burn him a cd) and let nature take it's course. I almost forgot learn karate!
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sexy bastard
04-14-2002, 11:07 PM
i agree unfortunately if you put him on ignore and he still harrases you, you should change your screen name, now since you went to the movies with this guy does he know where you live?
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Sheeplovr
04-15-2002, 08:44 AM
are is innisals rfm
number 333 its the way to be
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ChrisTheCop
04-15-2002, 08:58 AM
What alot of people don't realize is that what he's doing may actually be a crime. This is not just simple harrasment, its AGGRAVATED harassment. Aggravated by the fact that he's using an electronic device to harass you (computer, phone, etc). My suggestion is that you let him know absolutely that you want to sever all ties. No hints, no maybe we shoulds...a definative end to your relationship. If that doesnt work, notify aol for the computer end. They can watch him for you. If he still harasses you, you can actually get an order of protection against him at your local criminal court. Once he's served, if he violates the order, he gets arrested. That usually works. If you live in the Bronx, I'll serve it myself! (Anything for a fellow board member). Good luck!
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Jackie Sloan
04-15-2002, 09:16 AM
Chris the cop is right...but I like Brodiemans' way better!
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Earth2RON
04-15-2002, 09:26 AM
what should i do?
just get a new screenname.have your father use your name when he im's you on your old one that should make for some great family fun...lol
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thanks guys. you were a real hepl. so i got a new screen name. i'll give it to you guys since i trust you all enough not to give it to him. its RonFez Lulu. thanks agian! :)
HordeKing1
04-15-2002, 05:58 PM
LULU - You say he's harrasing you online. AOL will definitely help you with that - they ban users for harrasment with some regularity.
Legally, harassing e-mail, may not in itself be sufficient grounds for an order of protection. It depends on the content and the degree of perceived threat.
Save every e-mail or aim message he sends you and print them out. You will want to present them to the police (or forward them to AOL) if necessary.
EDIT - Make certain that you tell him explicitly that he may no longer contact you. Print out a copy of this as well.
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42nd-delay
04-16-2002, 06:39 AM
I know in Instant Messenger, you can restrict it so that the only people who can contact you are those on your buddy list. That may be another option if he keeps buggin you.
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NewYorkDragons80
04-16-2002, 03:52 PM
Lulu, did you make it perfectly clear that you are not interested at all? He might still not have gotten the message even if you do change screen names unless you tell him it's because he's such a knucklehead.
If you have really gotten the message across, then you need to get in touch with AOL.
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i would like to thank all of you for your help. and i have made it perfectly clear that i no longer want any contact with him. and he hasn't tried to speak with me since. and no, he doesn't know where i live. thank god he doesn't. but my brother will be going to his school in 2 years. i just hope my brother doesn't bring him home. thanks agian! :)
ChrisTheCop
04-16-2002, 07:25 PM
Save every e-mail or aim message he sends you and print them out. You will want to present them to the police (or forward them to AOL) if necessary.
That's a very good idea. But there's no need to bring them to the cops, just direct to your local criminal court. We can't/won't do anything about this type of harassment until you get that court order. How's the new screen name workin out?
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sexy bastard
04-16-2002, 08:47 PM
you know that would be bad if he your brother brought him home
lol
but not as bad as if your brother bringing him home if you know what i mean *wink*
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RF Godfather
04-17-2002, 03:23 AM
Ha Ha is all I can say to a certain comment.
Very funny. *one hand clapping*
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