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sexy bastard

04-15-2002, 09:58 PM

Today i had a very very very bad personal day it was alot of concern, anger and hostile and yet i am in a very peppy mood. what has happened is my friend who happens to be my ex girlfriend is going out with another guy, i am very happy for her cause we both just want each other to be happy but his friends were bad mouthing me in front of her...i dont know these guys but they were saying lots of lies, its obvious that someone in that picture does not want her to be my friend..she believes me but is concerned in who is saying those lies...i myself feel bad for her cause now she has just started in a relationship where she does not trust this guy...and that is not good, but she wanted to know who has started these lies and rumors of the group and she knows i want to know...well right before i went to work there were 5 guys waiting for me, nothing happened but a couple threats (very childish i must say) and all i said was i have no problem with any of you i only have a problem with the person who started these lies... and they should have the decensy to approach me with facts and say it to my face...well make a long story short lets just say they made some more threats at me, and yet i am in a very good and peppy mood why is that?

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This message was edited by sexy bastard on 4-16-02 @ 3:04 AM

cheezeemee

04-16-2002, 03:57 AM

right before i went to work there were 5 guys waiting for me,

I got your back sexy!

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sexy bastard

04-16-2002, 04:21 AM

thanks cheezy but i dont plan on any viloence i think i made my point by asking for who ever the person is that did this to just fess up and tell me what facts they have...again i dont plan on this getting into any violent scenario
thank you though i appreciate it

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This message was edited by sexy bastard on 4-16-02 @ 8:23 AM

cheezeemee

04-16-2002, 05:07 AM

thank you though i appreciate it

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Too bad. I was hoping to scrap someone.

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furie

04-16-2002, 06:36 AM

and yet i am in a very good and peppy mood why is that?

i guest those pills are good

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sexy bastard

04-16-2002, 07:30 AM

i just ended my friendhsip with her she was very confused she did not believe the stries that were being said but she cares for him so much even though he has asshole friends, and well i always wanted her to be happy so i just ended the friendship and it hurts like hell, hurts real bad actually,
not every day you lose a friend for their own good you know

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Aggie

04-16-2002, 07:37 AM

that's really sad, but it sounds like you just want the best for her and that's hard to find in a freind sometimes. maybe you felt happy because you know you did all you could in the situation. you addressed that lies were being told, discussed it with her and held your ground when they tried to rattle you. you did the right thing and did all you can do so you should feel glad! :)

HordeKing1

04-16-2002, 11:58 AM

SEXY - I have the feeling that you are talking about board members. It's a shame when people feel compelled to gossip about others and hurt them in this way.

It sounds like you and your ex are freindly, which is nice, and that her new bf is coming b/w you via his friends.

She's really caught between a rock and a hard place. If she believes you, she alienates her new bf. If she doesn't believe you she alienates you.

If she has bad feelings about the new bf or his friends or the relationship in general, she should trust her feelings and end the relationship.

I'm sure both of you would like to know who started all these rumors, but unless someone confesses, the odds of finding out are unlikely.

The 5 guys who threatened you have committed criminal acts for which they may be charged.

There can be several reasons for your "peppyness" including the amount of attention you've recieved from your ex because of these incidents. Negative attention (from the jerks who threatened you) is still attention and it can make people feel good. The fact that this situation revolves around you is also ego affirming and may cause you to be energized. On the other hand, you may be energized by the rage and hurt you've experienced from this whole mess.

As you see it's quite complex, with many possible reasons for your mood.

If any of the people who threatened Sexy, or spread rumors about him reads this, I strongly urge you to appologize to him. Sexy, if you are contacted in this regard, recognize that by comming forward they have taken a great step towards resolving this and you should try to forgive them.

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sexy bastard

04-16-2002, 04:17 PM

just to clarify horde king, this has absolutely nothing to do with the board.
but i thank you for your opinion though

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ChrisTheCop

04-16-2002, 07:17 PM

Bastard, ,if it has to do with you, it has to do with the board. You know that! I'm with Cheezee on this one. Invite these "bullies" to the next board outing. Woohoo!

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sexy bastard

04-16-2002, 08:41 PM

thank you i appreciate the support but maybe i am wrong i thought horde king was saying that i was talking about board members were the problem...i jsut wanted to clarify that it is not board members.....its a shame though i feel bad for ending the friendship today we were good friends and i see she likes this guy an with his buddies spreading rumors and bad mouthing me in front of her is disrespectful and wrong and i just want her to be happy and think this guy might make her happy so i am man enough to walk away for her happiness and it hurts like hell

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cheezeemee

04-16-2002, 08:50 PM

I'm with Cheezee on this one. Invite these "bullies" to the next board outing. Woohoo!

Let's do this!

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HordeKing1

04-17-2002, 06:09 AM

SEXY - I'm relieved that this does not involve any board members.

Please keep me up to date and let me know if I can help in any way.

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Jennitalia

04-17-2002, 07:15 AM

sexy b, you did the right thing. hopefully she'll see the light and realize what assholes they are

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sexy bastard

04-17-2002, 07:56 PM

thank you jenn iappreciate it, i thought i did the right thing its just hard when you want someone to be happy and the expense of your own happiness...and horde i will keep you up todate
thanks

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