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nellie

05-09-2002, 04:47 AM

i'm a bit confused now. there's part of me that's says i want to be with women and only women; and there's another part of me that says i want to be with both. what's a queer chick to do?

This message was edited by nellie on 5-9-02 @ 8:54 AM

DarkHippie

05-09-2002, 05:23 AM

don't worry about it. just follow your bliss. You don't have to be completely sure of what you are. In fact, having a little bit of uncertainty about yourself is part of the fun

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zathrus

05-09-2002, 05:26 AM

go with what or whoever makes
you happy

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Christy

05-09-2002, 07:14 AM

Awwww ... you're too adorable! ;-) Whatever makes you happy!

Plus, I know you want me ... you don't have to hide it anymore! :-)

Oh no, wait! We're "twins" ... we can't have sex together! LOL ;-)

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nellie

05-09-2002, 07:26 AM

mew......

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JerryTaker

05-09-2002, 07:31 AM

I agree with Hippie, don't worry about labeling yourself, do whatever you feel to be right. I don't think you can be thrown out of any clubs for venturing outside.... :-)

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DarkHippie

05-09-2002, 09:15 AM

I don't think you can be thrown out of any clubs for venturing outside.... Jerry, that's a perfect metaphor! especially since the only club you have to dance in is "club nellie" :)

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support your local 420: union of brotherhood

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now you wear you skin like iron, your breath's as hard as kerosene-- townes van zant "the ballad of poncho and lefty"

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Christy

05-09-2002, 09:31 AM

i like grlnin, but i like this guy i talk to as well...he's sweet, and cool, and i want to get to know him better too......

Have group sex ... 2 girls for every boy! LOL

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ROMEO

05-09-2002, 05:45 PM

::dreaming:::

2 girls for every boy,,oh yeah. thats my kinda girl.

nellie you do what makes you happy,just take it slow.

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gone

05-09-2002, 07:40 PM

im confused.... wouldnt what you just said be like the definition of being bi-sexual....

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cheezeemee

05-09-2002, 07:48 PM

what's a queer chick to do?

Get a mullet?
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nellie

05-10-2002, 04:35 AM

never ever ever!!!!!!!!!!!

This message was edited by nellie on 5-10-02 @ 9:01 AM

HordeKing1

05-10-2002, 07:36 AM

NELLIE - It's completely normal to have ambivelent sexual preferences, especially at your age.

There is no right or wrong way to approach this. You have to trust your feelings and when you do have sex, or fool around with either sex, make sure you're doing it b/c you want to. You may find that you're more attracted to the personality of the person, than their genetalia.

Finally, although psychologists and gay researchers call this field "Queer Studies," I always found the term offensive b/c the word implies that these feelings are not normal. They are.

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Tall_James

05-14-2002, 07:28 PM

Just be honest to yourself and to whoever you may be with.

Just be safe.

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nellie

05-15-2002, 04:45 AM

i've kinda come to this conclusion for myself and that is love the person and not the gender.

meow!

DarkHippie

05-15-2002, 06:40 AM

woo hoo! nellie's on the market!

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support your local 420: union of brotherhood

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now you wear you skin like iron, your breath's as hard as kerosene-- townes van zant "the ballad of poncho and lefty"

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zathrus

05-15-2002, 06:45 AM

christy
admit it you know you want me..TWINS!!!! We're twins?? Maybe the drunk twins.. :)

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hyperspace

05-17-2002, 01:14 PM

Nellie wait another 6 months or so for my fitness program to really kick in and i'll change your mind!!

PSSTT!! HIS REAL NAME'S MOSLEY!!!

Aggie

05-17-2002, 01:39 PM

Get a mullet
Cheezeeme-that shit was funny!

Nellie-Just like everyone said, do what makes you happy. There's no rule that says you can't like both!

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Aggie

05-17-2002, 01:39 PM