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DaniGirl
05-20-2002, 09:06 AM
I have a problem that I just can't figure out. I get pleasure out of putting people down and starting trouble (as you can see). I talk to my therapist about this but she hasn't helped me to see why I do this. Can you maybe tell me why?
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Jennitalia
05-20-2002, 09:12 AM
cuz you're a bitch? :)
(joke)
Hey, it takes one to know one
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Jackie Sloan
05-20-2002, 09:17 AM
because it's fun...you probably learned it at an early age in the home or from someone close to you or your family...maybe it's one of the ways you deal with perceived problem(s)...and it's fun
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DaniGirl
05-20-2002, 09:22 AM
Hey, it takes one to know one
I love to hear that from a fellow bitch :)
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Anakin Skywalker
05-20-2002, 09:34 AM
you have been presuaded to the dark side, dani!
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hyperspace
05-20-2002, 09:51 AM
Some women make alot of money doing that...Mistress Dani sounds good to me!!
PSSTT!! HIS REAL NAME'S MOSLEY!!!
DaniGirl
05-20-2002, 09:53 AM
Mistress Dani sounds good to me!!
I could make mad money dressed up in leather in a dungeon beating men with my whip. *moan*
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Jonkeu
05-20-2002, 09:57 AM
HOT..
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DarkHippie
05-20-2002, 10:50 AM
how about mistress dani, dressed up as one of the carebears from your sig pic? Now that's hot!! ;)
I know its a bit new agey (very), but "the celestine prophecy" has a great theory on why people feel the need to hurt the feelings of others. If you have time you should pick it up. the plot's a bit weak, but the theories inside are extraordinary
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DaniGirl
05-20-2002, 10:59 AM
how about mistress dani, dressed up as one of the carebears from your sig pic? Now that's hot!!
I think that would be almost criminal :)
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DarkHippie
05-20-2002, 11:56 AM
oh god! beat me, Tenderheart Bear!! whip my body Love-a-Lot Bear!! I'm yours to command, Sunshine Bear!!
I'm a dirty dirty white boy ;)
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Earth2RON
05-20-2002, 12:07 PM
i use to love the carebears i dont know why its not on tv anymore.i use to love when they did the carebear cheer thingy when they all lined up and their powers came together:)
*i am down with the FAQ*
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Aggie
05-20-2002, 12:49 PM
i use to love the carebears
Awww, you used to like the CareBears...how sweet! :)
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Mmmm, I'm in need of some good Jamaican lovin'!!!
Sister of the FAQ princess and down with it too!
i use to love when they did the carebear cheer thingy when they all lined up and their powers came together
No no, its the carebear STARE! 3-2-1-STARE! I'll let it slide only cause you're so smooth.
And Dani- I've been meaning to tell you this for a while: THAT SIG ROCKS MY WORLD.
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DaniGirl
05-20-2002, 01:39 PM
THAT SIG ROCKS MY WORLD
LOL. Thanks. Afro Ken is pretty rockin as well. :)
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Noellevious
05-20-2002, 02:55 PM
I get pleasure out of putting people down and starting trouble (as you can see).
Low self esteem? Insecurity? Boredom? You're not alone, I'm a sweetheart but the above are pastimes of mine too. :)
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HordeKing1
05-20-2002, 03:17 PM
DANI - The easy answer is that your behavior satisfies a need in you. In other words, you put people down b/c it makes you feel good.
The reason behind this is much more difficult to figure out. It's likely that it was a learned behavior. At one point insulting someone made you feel good and you adapted that strategy to try to boost your self esteem.
It's not satisfactory at all for your shrink to avoid discussing this. Insist that you talk about this important facet of your personality.
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Earth2RON
05-20-2002, 03:32 PM
thank you for making the correction GWEN i owe you one.you name it and ill see if i can steal it for ya:)
*i am down with the FAQ*
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Supervixen
05-20-2002, 03:39 PM
I enjoy causing trouble too- its just a matter of ripping people down off their pedestals. I cant stand people who act all fake and cool and like they think what they are. I think they deserve to be ripped apart and brought down to where the rest of us are.
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JerryTaker
05-20-2002, 04:05 PM
I cant stand people who act all fake and cool and like they think what they are. I think they deserve to be ripped apart and brought down to where the rest of us are.
That was inspiring. I feel like I've been putting myself on too much of a high horse lately, and I promise to knock myself down more in the future.... :-)
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Supervixen
05-20-2002, 07:57 PM
lol im sorry.. im lethal today- in a very foul mood.
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Christy
05-20-2002, 08:29 PM
I have a problem that I just can't figure out. I get pleasure out of putting people down and starting trouble (as you can see). I talk to my therapist about this but she hasn't helped me to see why I do this. Can you maybe tell me why?
She puts me down everytime I talk to her on the phone! ;-) LOL
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DaniGirl
05-21-2002, 07:48 AM
She puts me down everytime I talk to her on the phone!
Bitch! lol :)
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Jonkeu
05-21-2002, 07:50 AM
I like to cause people anger and frustration when it comes to people online. I love watching people get their chops busted and I love causing conflict and drama. Arent I fun?
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hyperspace
05-21-2002, 08:18 AM
i have low self esteem never thought i was cool and all of you are making me feel confidant!! Dani check out www.maxfisch.com mabey you will find some work!!
PSSTT!! HIS REAL NAME'S MOSLEY!!!
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