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05-28-2002, 01:00 PM

Im the type of person to let it come to me. Hardly ever do I flirt with women, only when I see them flirting with me. You?

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Hoojibs

05-28-2002, 01:06 PM

It took me a while to be of the mindset to look for love, and not just wait around for love to come to me.

I mean rejection sucks, but if 9 girls our of 10 turn you down, isn't it worth it for that 1 who doesn't?

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sunndoggy8

05-28-2002, 01:12 PM

I think I do a little bit of each. Doing one more than the other seems to lead with more dissatisfaction I think...

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Aggie

05-28-2002, 01:14 PM

I personally love to flirt, but that doesn't mean I am looking for anything. When it comes to love, I don't like to rush or force anything. It just happens. The only time I've ever been in love, we were friends for awhile and it happened gradually. :) But if start getting too old I may have to go hunting...lmao. 

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Earth2RON

05-28-2002, 01:20 PM

when love is ready to comment to me it knows my address.i never ever go after a female no matter how much i want her im to shy and quite to chase one down.
But if start getting too old I may have to go hunting...lmao.
ill make a note of that to use at a later date!

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zathrus

05-28-2002, 01:53 PM

I'm the type of person to wait till i see love and then go after it in an indirect suttle way. Which usually ends up not being very suttle.

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Poison Ivy

05-28-2002, 01:59 PM

"I tried looking for love
But I guess it's true
You don't look for love
It's gonna look for you"

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Doogie

05-28-2002, 02:18 PM

If you are looking for love then you are of the school that believes in the concept of love at first site. That you will stumble upon that sepecial person...

I am of the school that believes that love is something that devlops. You eventually build a relationship which develops into love. You love the similarities, the differences. You learn to live with both the positive and the negative of that person. I believe that love develops, wether it takes days or years to develop...

I like that poem Ivy. Did you write that or was that written by someone??

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05-28-2002, 02:30 PM

let it look for you, dont look for it..cuase that is when your lonely and allow yourself to get hurt, so let it come to you

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DarkHippie

05-28-2002, 04:41 PM

my friend, looking for love is like chasing lightning. You can't catch it. it hits when and where its wants, and never strikes the same place twice.

all you can hope to do is put up a lightning rod and wait.

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Poison Ivy

05-28-2002, 05:56 PM

Not a poem...it's part of the lyrics
to "Object of my Affection" by
Shawn Colvin...the thread title
made me think of it...

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gameguy

05-28-2002, 06:12 PM

Im the type of person to let it come to me. Hardly ever do I flirt with women, only when I see them flirting with me.

Ditto

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erole

05-28-2002, 06:28 PM

using a bludgeoning tool and having a cave in the forest works. i guess that's looking 4 love

i do a little of both. i don't look for it, but i keep my eyes open.

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synthfiend

05-28-2002, 09:02 PM

I'm in complete sync with ag1247. I'm somewhat insecure when it comes to relationships. but if I see interest I'll act on it.

Justice, like Lightning should ever appear...to some men hope..to other men FEAR.

JustinR

05-28-2002, 09:36 PM

Im tired of searching for someone. I dont wish to get married yet, but i just want to date for fun.

Im tired of girls who are either immature, naive or both.

I believe many out there are extremely picky. They all want a certain "type".

I'm just not going to look anymore. I need to concentrate on other things.

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grlNIN

05-29-2002, 09:29 AM

i dont even like trying anymore, it all turns out the same way and the same way happens to be me becoming completely infatuated and consequently broken-hearted or the better one, being put into a hospital.lol. Both are completely true and very much pathetic on my behalf. So ill think ill sit this one out for awhile

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Jackie Sloan

05-29-2002, 09:48 AM

I love flirtin', but I'm always on the lookout for love. If I find someone special(no helmet please) then I'll stop flirtin' out of respect. Me wookin pa nub 24/7!

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scorpion

05-29-2002, 12:47 PM

Had enough and given up looking.

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JimboSHU

05-29-2002, 01:20 PM

let it come to me but it never arrives.

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Hardcorekid

05-29-2002, 01:24 PM

heh I wait for love to come to me...as stupid as it sounds Ihave a feeling that I am this hopeless romantic, waiting for Mrs. Right to come along...but it sucks being alone waiting too...and if the chick is a total psycho that dun help either in trying to go out and find love...makes me think that girls are mostly like that.

I dun see the problem...

nellie

05-31-2002, 04:47 AM

i used to look for love, then i stoped. i thought i was gonna be alone forever, so i gave up. but now, i know i was wrong.......

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Ralphy Ramone

05-31-2002, 05:26 AM

I just usually flash a pack of "Mentos"....you know the rest of the story.

Garfield

05-31-2002, 06:04 AM

i used to look for love, then i stoped. i thought i was gonna be alone forever, so i gave up. but now, i know i was wrong.......

Where I work I see couples come in all the time, my conclusion: No matter how unattractive you are or how annoying there is always someone out there to love you.
As far as letting love come to me, if you always pursue you never know what its like to be pursued. And girls dont like guys who try too hard anyway.

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Coco

06-05-2002, 12:10 PM

It may be smart to initiate a relationship (even though it may be difficult) because if you wait for love to find you, you may wind up with something you don't want because it "wasn't you're choosing".

I found that the relationship that lasted the longest (5 years) and that was the best, was one that I initiated the conversation. When others tried to fix me up, or when guys "pushed themselves" on me - these never lasted.

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Poopsyc

06-05-2002, 01:10 PM

In my experience, looking for anything will result in not finding what I was looking for. But if I forget about it and let it go, it will show up. I think the same goes for love. I don't think I know anyone who went looking for love and found it. These things just kind of happen if you let it.

Instead of looking for love, it would probably be better to try to understand what love is. That is what my mission is.

A.J.

06-05-2002, 01:17 PM

Im the type of person to let it come to me. Hardly ever do I flirt with women, only when I see them flirting with me. You?

Ditto.

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Supervixen

06-05-2002, 08:40 PM

I usually just chill and if it happens it happens but if
I see something I like, I go for it- I wouldnt waste a
chance

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