crushes ruin friendships

[AngelAmy]

im not saying it happens all the time, but more likely than not when you are friends with someone and your feelings are more than friends it usually ruins what you have

i have a perfect example:

i have liked this guy for about 5 months now and i have so much fun with him and just talking to him. i am so comfortable just to be myself around him, i am never shy around him and that never happens. i am usually always shy around guys at least the first time we meet but it wasnt like that with us. right off the bat i felt comfortable with him.

as the days went by i got to liking him more and more and more. but the feelings werwent really the same from him and it has been hard for me to deal with. i tried to just ignore it and still just flirt like we always do. every day that went by it got harder and harder to deal with. every day we would flirt with eachother and i would mean most of it. it got to the point where it was hard for me to talk to him because i was so upset that we could never be together like i wanted to. we wouldmake plans only for them to get fucked up some how. it just got me more and more upset day by day.

so finally i took some action and i blocked him from my life. its a shame that such a good friendship between two people has to end because of a stupid crush. i am going to miss talking with him but i had to do it because if i didnt id just wind up getting more hurt in the end.

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[fiestygal]

oh my god!!! like the same thing happened to me BUT instead of cutting him off from my life i chose to keep him in it...see there was this guy - RYAN- and he is sooo super i would have to say the perfect guy ever- well we got our communication skills F*ed up and i was devastated BUT i had to come to a very very difficult decision whether to cutt him off or keep him AS A FRIEND- YUCKY I HATE THAT TERM- when you REALLY likesomeone- So i chose to keep him- i would rather have him in my life than not at all...Ryan allowed me to IN A WAY change as a person..I am not as selfish and I try to see things now from a different point of view.
I think i am a sucker for ANY GUY who is remotely nice to me- the dork i am - BUT i feel they each have something beautiful to offer to someone- not physically speaking- BUT emotionally and spiritually NO MATTER what religion or background they have....I am such the SUCKER for a real sensitive ALL around nice guy- I think Girls today just want the assholes(pardon my language)....BRING BACK THE KNIGHTS AND SHINING ARMORS and chivalry!!!!.....SORRY ABOUT MY TANGENT...lol

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[ShelleBink]

u still have a hetero life partner in me.

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[CYYYFYYY]

STOP BLOCKING ME!!!!!!!!!!


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[DarkHippie]

u still have a hetero life partner in me.
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[Poopsyc]

Although crushes can ruin friendships, it can also take it to the next level. You shouldn't cut people out of you life cause you like them, you should cut the people you don't like out of your life. People come and go but friends last forever.

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