What to do now..

[squishy]

Hi, Im new.

So here's my problem.

I recently broke up with my fianc‚ of 4 years. She was living with me and I had to throw her out of my house. I found out she was cheating on me with my best friend from high school in a close relationship for over a year now.

I thought it wasn't true at first but after listening to what some of my friends said about it all, I quickly realized it was all true.

Can I just say something? For over a year now I have had major vibes about her and her lack of effort into our relationship. I suspected her of haivng something with someone but I wasnt sure. I didnt want to act on just speculation and it took her telling someone to finally make me drum up the curage to kick her out.

I did it, but whats fucked up about this whole thing, is that She moved back home and has people sourrounded by her. She has her man she can fall asleep next to but now here I sit alone, Going to bed alone, living alone. It just hurts so much.

I guess I should just move on now, I'm not going to take her back at this point. It just sucks because she was my best friend, and I do care about her as a friend. I wish that could be sacerfised. I wish i could just talk to her about it and everything. I wish i could just invite her over to the home and just sit there and watch tv or a movie and just b.s. again. Thats what I miss. She was a good "person" even though she is scum for doing this.

SO what should I do now? Any ideas?

[fatty]

1st thing is stay away from her. if she did this no matter how cool she is you have to stay away. DO NOT call her, i made that mistake and calling only makes things worse. you want to just talk about things and find out why it happened but trust me, it doesn't matter why. no reason would be good enough anyway, the fact she did it is enough to move on.

i say just start hanging with you guy friends again. rememeber, you don't need anyone to make your life good. if you can't live without her that's a good sign you need to find out how to live by yourself.

it's going to suck but good luck. like i always say rent the movie swingers, it will make you feel better.

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[fiestygal]

hey there...I am new as well...listen i got a few words for your delemma...SMACK THE BEE-OTCH UPSIDE HER HEAD...this is a similar matter that a family friend went through...they were going out for like 6 yrs and then they got engaged...he found out she was cheating the whole time they were together by reading an email that she had gotten from the douche she was cheating with...well my family friend was devestated...HE was soooo in love with her...they bought a town house together but then she moved out...he has now got a beautiful gf BUT i think he is afraid to commit because of what happened to him and i dont blame him...hes been goin out with his new gf dor about like 2 1/2+ yrs now and they live together....now when ever people in the family see this BITCH we give her the coldest looks ever.....PAYBACK is a BITCH and your EX will get hers in the end.....

[TheGameHHH]

What goes around comes around squishy, don't worry about that, hang in there man <P>


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[Earth2RON]

welcome aboard squishy!dont worry bout that chick just let her ass be,and move on with your life.im so glad that i dont have any guys that i can call a best friend.people with no heart always fukk someone that is close to you,just to show how much of a worthless person they are.
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This message was edited by Earth2RON on 7-1-02 @ 3:25 PM

[Now Im Starvin]

Squishy that's a shitty situation. I've never been through something like that, but I bet it must really suck. Lose both thier numbers and change yours. This bitch seems like she's so cold-hearted that she might want to play mind games with you and continue to make you feel like crap. Cut off all ways that she could get in touch with you and it will take a while, but soon enough you'll realize your better off without her. Keep your head up.

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[silera]

What to do now..

Drink.

Masturbate.

Sleep.

Repeat.

In that order.


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[squishy]

what sucks the most is that she's moved back home and has support and is not alone. i am here with my sick cat and my lazy cat and like lonly. I know people have given me alot of support and told me i should move on she's not worth it but one thing that plagues me is that she was my best friend and thats what i miss the most. the best friend portion of our relationship.

She was too easy to talk to and i could tell her everything. and now i have no one to talk to anymore.

[A.J.]

Drink.

Masturbate.

Sleep.

Repeat.

In that order.




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This message was edited by AJinDC on 7-2-02 @ 2:13 PM

[Michael Fury]

That sucks, dude. It's unfair when the other person is all set up, surrounded by others while you feeling severely bummed. By yourself. My advice is to forget her the best that you can. Any future contact will just dredge up old feelings again. Use this grieving period to learn more about yourself & you'll be a better man on the other end. Also, take care of yourself. When you're feeling sad & alone, the tendency is to drink too much, smoke too much, numb the emotional pain. Don't go overboard. You want to be strong & show that cunt you're beyond her.

Also, why don't you smash that "best" friend of yours in the face?




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[DJEvelEd]

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[squishy]

sex isnt that important to me to warrant buying it. I didnt want to marry her for the sex. I wanted her for the love and affection