Should I give a crap anymore ?

[Gmann]

Hey guys....lemme ask your advice on something. I have this friend.....and he's like mad close to me, and he likes this girl, they messed around once, but she had a boyfriend at the time, this was about 2 yrs she was with her boyfriend,now she's single and he wants to pursue her. Only thing is this girl is mad shady. And I try to tell him this....but his dopey ass wont listen to me. She cheated on her ex B.F. with him once.....and I know he wasnt the only guy she cheated with. I tried to warn him about her....told him to be careful....but like I said...he just nods his head...and yesses me to death. He even got mad at me cause I totally broke it down for him about how she was and shit. I feel fucked up for telling him this shit, I know it bothered him, but sometimes you have to do shit like that. I look out for my friends all the time....anything else I can do ....or should I just sit back and let what ever happens happen ?

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[sourkitty]

well, if u already broke it down for him...told him how she was...and he still dont listen, then there aint nothin u can do. He will learn from his mistakes. He will have to see how it is for himself, then u can always say.."i told u so". But maybe u will be wrong and they turn out perfect for each other. Maybe she changed, you never know. Dont push to hard, let bak and let things happen... they will happen how the way they are supposed to in the long run anyway

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[HordeKing1]

GMANN - You shared your opinions with your friend. If he chooses to heed them he will, otherwise he won't. It's up to him.

I suggest that you do not discuss it with him further, unless he initiates the conversation, because it will cause major strain in your friendship. (As demonstrated by his anger at you when you "broke it down for him.")

There is nothing further you can do at this point other than be available to him if he wants to talk.

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[fatty]

you might as well try to drink the ocean with a spoon than to argue with a love. just let him be.

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[Aggie]

I think you have done all you can. It may suck watching him get hurt (if that does happen) but he's a big boy. You gave him all the info he needed to make an informed decision. Just let him learn his life lessons and just be ther for him if it doesn't turn out right. And NEVER say "I told you say". I hate when people do that, especially if they are your friends. He will remember you tried to warn him and hopefully heed your advice more in the future.

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[Cybersoldier]

If he know her past about cheating then its he's choice to pursue a relationship. just be ready to say "I told you so" if she does cheat on your friend

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[sunndoggy8]

I'm in agreement with everyone who said to just let him be...people need to learn about stuff on their own most of the time to understand it...it'll be a good learning experience whether it works out or not, so i guess you just gotta let it be and deal with what happens later...but you are his friend, so don't necessarily get too happy when/if you're proven right.

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[AngelAmy]

gmann your friend is a great guy and he deserves someone that will make him happy and someone that he can make happy, i know its hard but it might be time for him go out and find someone else....its not going to be easy but i think he deserves better than this

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