Is this really what girls want???

[TomPoo]

last night I am on the phone with a girl friend of mine. And we are talking about this guy she just recently dumped and why she dumped him.

So I make a the comment "Jesus... there is just no f'n pleasing you"

So she replies, "see that is why you will never have a girlfriend"

and I sked, "How do you figure??"

She says, "You just don't get it. Every girl ultimately wants a guy she can control and when a girl starts dating a guy she evaluates in the first couple dates how long it will take to do that"

I say, "so basicly how long to make him pussy whipped?"

She says, "Some what. More like just training him... like a dog"

I say, "that is pretty fucked up"

she says, "yup... girls are evil... but we know what we want, and we know what will make us happy."

so I ask, "so you coudn't 'train' this guy???"

she says, "well... I could but it was going to take too much time and effort, and really, he wasn't worth it."

I ask, "And you think I will never have a GF??"

she says, "no... your to rebellious right now, and your too into your 'independance' cause of the last girl who burned you. However, I am fairly confident that you will meet a girl and fall for her, and become a very well trained little boyfriend for her"

I say "So basicly if I ever want to be with a girl for the long term - at some point I am going to have to accept being pussy whipped"

and she says "sorry Tommy, it is just the way it is. Your better off just accepting it now. But don't worry, I will make sure you end up with a good girl - I wouldn't let some stupid bitch do that to ya"


So is this true???? Is this what evil plan all girls have in store!?!?!??!


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[jestah]

Sadly enough, I think that it is. For a while there, I thought that it was just me who thought this.

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Hamish: Is your father a ghost or do you converse with the Almighty?
Stephen: In order to find his equal, an Irishman is forced to talk to God... Yes, Father...The Almighty says don't change the subject; just answer the fucking question.

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

No way! The majority of women want to have an "equal" relationship with their partner.

Who'd want to be someone who's whipped?

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[Jennitalia]

no offense to your friend, but WHAT A TWAT!


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EAT MY SMURFY TOOKIE!

[jestah]

Can you point me in their direction, or them in mine?




Stephen: Alright Father, I'll ask him...If I risk my neck for you, will I get a chance to kill Englishmen?
Hamish: Is your father a ghost or do you converse with the Almighty?
Stephen: In order to find his equal, an Irishman is forced to talk to God... Yes, Father...The Almighty says don't change the subject; just answer the fucking question.

[fatty]

that's bullshit. a girl hates if she's in total control. a girl needs to know she's protected and that just won't happen if she's with a guy who's a pussy and won't stand up for himself.

my girlfriend is my best friend and we are complete equals. except i always control the remote, i mean it's my fucking room. but other than that that girl if fucking out of her mind. she is the exception not the rule.

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[Aggie]

Unfortunatley Tom, there are manipulative control freaks out there and she sounds like one of them. The fact that she has thought that all out and wants to train men like dogs is scary. Fatty had it right (as usual :)) women don't like guys they can control even if they do at first, it gets old REAL quick. And it is the exception, not the rule. Disregard her thoughts, be yourself and you will find a sweet girl.

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[sourkitty]

i dont like how that gurl thinks she can talk for the entire gurl population. She makes us look like complete bitches. Well n e way...im not gonna talk for the entire population, but i will talk for myself....

I like a guy who is pretty much equal with me in control. There are times where i can be like "baby come over and do this for me.. or do that for me..etc" And there also could be times where he says that to me and i will do it. But i dont want to yell jump and he asked how high...thats not a healthy relationship. There has to be respect between the 2 of us. If there isnt respect on both ends, then they will start to cheat on each other..etc. No1 should be whipped..it should be favors done out of love.

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[F1Gm3nT]

actually had a gf like that for 6 months... almost killed her seriosly. the took advantage of the nice guy in me untill the final month I just stood up and shut her down in every request... also a lil "go fuck yourself"
thrown in to the mix but yeah

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[phixion]

yea thats not true
girls have no idea what they want
cuz as soon as they get what they want they change their mind!!!!!!!

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[Arienette]

that's some bullshit.

to be honest, it depends on the guy. there are some guys that a girl might want to dominate. and there are some guys that a girl would want to be dominated by. neither of these are anything that will really work out or last. like fuzzybutt said, we're looking for something in an equal partnership, or somethign close. i wouldn't want to stay with a guy who wanted to be my puppy... for long

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[FMJeff]

So is this true???? Is this what evil plan all girls have in store!?!?!??!


No, that's what she wants, and I wouldn't be suprised if she was confused about what she really wanted from a man. I would imagine her concept of "training" is simply navigating the dynamics of human behavior until she finds a level of comfort, and that she doesn't want to work that hard/long to find it. You can't be genuinally interested in someone AND have the machavellian alterior motive of wanting to train them/have power over them. Anyone looking for that kind of relationship is just power hungry and probably incapable of having a mutually beneficial one anyway.

Try not to listen to too much relationship advice from other people. There is never a common ground, everyone has thier own level of understanding of how things work...take what works for YOU and apply it to your own.

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This message was edited by FoundryMusicJeff on 8-1-02 @ 3:47 PM

[TomPoo]

well these responses have given me hope for ethe future.

thankyou :)

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There is nothing more exhilerating than pointing out the shortcomings of others, is there?

[Arienette]

well these responses have given me hope for ethe future.yeah, i wouldnt worry too much tommy.. especially with that whole mini golf thing going for you...

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i want a lover i don't have to love
i want a boy who's so drunk he doesn't talk

[Noellevious]

Eh, maybe that's what a little girl type woman wants...the type of woman who isn't secure enough in herself to be on equal footing with a partner. Guys who give in are booooring. And when I do want a guy to bend a little, I know I have what it takes to get what I want, but God forbid I don't have to work just a lil bit for it. Guys aren't the only ones who like a challenge.


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This message was edited by Noellevious on 8-1-02 @ 3:45 PM

[Coco]

You're friend has a surprise coming to her - you can't change anyone unless THEY WANT to change. Did you notice that she said that "it would take too much time and effort" to change that one particular guy?

I mean, I am sure there are MINOR things you can change about people - like who does what chores, etc., but as far as trying to change someone's personality or their likes or dislikes - it isn't going to happen. This girl is not living in reality!



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This message was edited by Coco on 8-1-02 @ 4:11 PM

[spare_me_your_lines]

Your friend sounds immature. Not all women are manipulative and evil. Men who date your friend are fools. She sounds like a user. Take my advice... DON"T LISTEN TO HER. There are some decent women out there.

[zathrus]

ok, there are a few girls who do
want a man that they can
completely control. But, most of
us want someone that is our
equal and that will support and
protect us. The closest that i
come to controlling a man is that i
want him to make me feel that i
am the most important person in
his life. Next to his mother, as
long as he is not a mama's boy.


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[Aggie]

i want him to make me feel that i am the most important person in his life. Next to his mother, as long as he is not a mama's boy.

I totally agree with you there Zath! I want a guy that loves his mom, but not one that can't be his own man!

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[Katylina]

I just want sex.

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[Jennitalia]

I just want sex.


who doesnt??

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[fiestygal]

HOLY GEEZ!!! no offense but YOUR FRIEND IS A BITCH! A girl like that doesn't deserve to know what love is if she is gonna change what fate gave her...as a girl she shames me.....ewww.....

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[Doogie]

Taurus... a sleeping giant... can take and take and take... upto a certain point and then you are fucked


Amen to that Figgie, It doesnt take me to long now to decide and figure out if a girl is a control freak or just wants to be loved. To the former (the control freak), I just say "this isnt gonna work anymore". And leave it at that...I had that one that burned me, and at the end I shouted f*** off you stupid T***, I am free of your control you sick manipulative bitch." This same girl once claimed after I took a break from her that she "had a stalker, and was pregnant". I dispelled those myths fast, by doing some private investigation on my own...

Screw manipulative girls, they get what they deserve. I just wanna love and be loved, thats it...

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[Earth2RON]

the only female that would be allowed to control me is my future wife to be...who ever that will be!

i dont take shyt from nobody,and i damn sure aint gonna have know chick having me whipped!

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[Gaia]

What The Fuck Chuck????

That's Just messed up!!!!!
Evil is among us ...........

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[jamesdiggy]

I dated a Psychotherapist once, ONCE! She would try to control things and spin my inane non sequiturs into some deep hidden meaning. Bleech! I don't want to be controlled, I'd like to be romanced and have my dimples complimented.

I don't like pits, pits, pits, in my juice, juice, juice!

[Cybersoldier]

It seems like the more women are likebe donimate trying to pussy whip guy than woman who want an equal realtionship

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[DroopyGirl]

I would absolutely hate it when a guy would follow me around like a little puppy.. I just lose my interest if I don't have to do anything for the relationship.

And your friend is kinda mean for saying that you'll never get a girlfriend if you stay like that..

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[Coco]

If you really want to talk real truth here - there are just as many controlling guys out there. Believe me, I have gone out with some of them. I had to leave to save my own sanity!

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[Jennitalia]

i need a lover who won't drive me crazy.

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i'll sit on your face and tell you i love you, too.

[sweet201]

No offense, Tom, but your friend sounds like a real cunt. Maybe she was just having a bad day, but I don't know if I'd want to be friends with someone like that... I know if one of my guy friends told me that men just want a woman they can control and make their little slaves, I would promptly tell him to eat a dick up and kick his ass out the door. Boo-yaaa! :P

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[sexy bastard]

your friend is totally wrong tom, seriously not right at all what she said. i wonder if she has a boyfriend lol she soudns like a challenge...tel lher to call me (evil grin)

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[jennysmurf]

I'm wondering two things:

1. Why was a spammer trying to bump this particular thread?

2. Did tompoo ever find love?

[hanso]

I'm wondering two things:

1. Why was a spammer trying to bump this particular thread?

2. Did tompoo ever find love?

Was it a cream product?

[Dude!]

I'm wondering two things:

1. Why was a spammer trying to bump this particular thread?

2. Did tompoo ever find love?

and how could it be
that DroopyGirl's last activity
was on 12-31-1969

[jennysmurf]

and how could it be
that DroopyGirl's last activity
was on 12-31-1969

Who knows? Things be cray around here.

[sailor]

and how could it be
that DroopyGirl's last activity
was on 12-31-1969

When we migrated over from the old site, that appeared to be a default date.

[jennysmurf]

When we migrated over from the old site, that appeared to be a default date.

Smarty pants.

[sailor]

Smarty pants.

Just old. Pre-blueberry. It's also why a lot of older quoting is formatted badly.

[jennysmurf]

Just old. Pre-blueberry. It's also why a lot of older quoting is formatted badly.

I wondered about that. I look through lots of old threads, and the quoting be cray up in there.

[sailor]

I wondered about that. I look through lots of old threads, and the quoting be cray up in there.

You used to quote a reply and all the prior quotes would be kept. Was fun, but got silly. You can multi-quote now, but not nested (unless you move tags around).

[spoon]

such an odd default date...why not simply the date carried over or the last day of the old version here?

no big deal, just seemingly an easy as hell fix

not for big four square mayor of the white plains staples it isn't