How to you teach yourself to just not care?

[sunndoggy8]

I'm an extremely analytical person, and have found myself to be someone that overanalyzes a lot of things....but especially with the romantic relationships that I have. What would you suggest would help in terms of changing my thinking...it's one thing to just say, don't overanalyze things, but how do you actulaly put those words into affect?

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[AngelAmy]

ya know what, i do the same thing. i sit there and deeply analyze each thing going on. sometimes i think too much into whats going on instead of just seeing where things go

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[Doogie]

Just do as Thoreau said: "Simplify, simplify, simplify".
Making things complex, makes things difficult. Just think simply and things will come easy...You must first crawl before you can walk...

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[sourkitty]

u cant teach urself not to care...but there r sum things to get ur mind off of it. Just like go out and keep urself busy..it will giv u less time to sit and think ...and think... and think bout the same old shit.

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[Earth2RON]

u cant teach urself not to care
yes you can,i just block out what doesnt belong in my life!

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[sexy bastard]

its very hard to do it cause of who you are.

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[TomPoo]

just watch a continuous block of Seinfeld re-runs.



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[HordeKing1]

SUNNY - In my opinion the world needs people who care more, and it would be a real shame if you opted to try to care less.

Empathy and caring are things that can never be taught or learned. It comes from within.

EDIT: Overanalysis is something that many deep people do. Right now, you're using it to second guess yourself (b/c of the romantic nature of the analysis) but in the future, it will give you a much broader understanding of motivations and behaviors.


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This message was edited by HordeKing1 on 8-5-02 @ 3:10 PM

[Cybersoldier]

take every bit your humanity and then keep so far in the back of your head than your work and success is the only thing that keeps for functioning.

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thanks earth2ron

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[Coco]

Sunndoggy8: I don't think what you are doing is so wrong. I mean, a lot of girls would be flattered a guy was thinking of them so much. Maybe, as you move more into the relationship, and you get to know and understand her more, you will relax more.

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