View Full Version : do girls only like "bad" boys?
El Mudo
09-26-2002, 12:22 PM
i think im a pretty nice guy, most people agree that i am. but why is it all these scumbag guys get all the hot chicks? do women really want to be with guys that treat them like garbage?
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fatty
09-26-2002, 12:31 PM
no it's a myth. girls like guys in 3 different categories.
1.good looking
2.rich
3.famous
if he happens to have any combination of these than he can be an asshole and girls will still like him, hence where the myth comes from.
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El Mudo
09-26-2002, 12:43 PM
you forgot black guys and really really weird spacey guys..
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I always cringe when I hear that girls only like "bad" boys, because it really isn't true, and it is dangerous because guys may even start acting "bad" because they think this.
I think the reason why a lot of "bad guys" get the chicks is because they are aggressive and in most cases have no qualms about going up and talking to a girl whereas the shy ones usually don't do this.
I think girls that have "issues" or "baggage" from childhood like having a non-existent dad or a boozing, drug addicted dad, may be attracted to "bad guys" thinking they can "work their issues out" in that relationship. Or they feel comfortable with a guy like this because they were like dad. I think as a lady matures into mid 20's and 30's, she has learned many lessons at that point and most know to stay away from these types of guys.
Nice guys, I believe, do win in the end because, in reality, most women stay with nice guys who treat them like human beings and don't stay with the bad guys.
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Hawiian shirt craig
09-26-2002, 02:49 PM
this marks the second time
coco and i agree. i'm not
rich, famous or
exceptionally good looking.
its been said that i look like
"wally cleaver" from leave it
to beaver. but hey, its all
about confidence and what
not. kow what i mean vern?
sitting at the end of the bar,
stareing into your beer
saying "man, that bastard
got another girl i had my
eye on" isn't going to get
you any where. you dont
live in a movie where
magically nice guys finish
first.
i am a nice guy and i've
finished last plenty of times,
u just gotta take it in stride!
if not you'll go nucking futs.
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THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T
HAVE NICE THINGS!!
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Death Metal Moe
09-26-2002, 07:41 PM
I'm not bad, I'm just drawn that way.
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TheGameHHH
09-26-2002, 07:53 PM
Jessica Rabbit is so hot <P>
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Jobberific
09-27-2002, 12:50 AM
Once when I was in one of my whiny "why do all the chicks go for bad boys?" bitch fests, I had a female friend say to me "Its not tht we like bab boys, we just hate pussys." I realized at that moment she was right. I also realized that I was residing firmly in the second catagory. So I went about not being a pussy and you know what I found out? The one thing chicks dig less that pussies are fatugly guys. So I'm assed out either way.
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"Its not tht we like bab boys, we just hate pussys."
That hit the nail right on the head!
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Then why is it that women like poets, guys in bands (who are not necessarily Triple H looking), scholars, doctors, etc. These guys are not always necessarily macho or rich.
Women are also attracted to romance and sentimental things.
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This message was edited by Coco on 9-27-02 @ 4:33 PM
my_mr_happy
09-27-2002, 12:36 PM
Most of the time I ave found that women don't really like "BAD" but exciting. they want unpredictable I thnk more then actual BAD.
Earth2RON
09-27-2002, 03:09 PM
you forgot black guys
ummmmm....im black and im a good guy....females just push me away when they starting to get closer to me!
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Contra
09-28-2002, 01:08 PM
well coco has a point with the childhood stuff, and the fact that they are looking for something exciting is true also. mostly though, girls like the challenge of distant guys. they want to find out why they are like that and "break down the wall" that they have up. unfortunatley assholes are distant guys who act like they don't care, so they get the girls going after them.
my senior year i turned into a "distant guy" to see if it would work, and it did! i had so many girls senior year i couldn't believe it! when you act like you don't care about them it makes them want to make you care. its a strange thing but its just the way it is.
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Death Metal Moe
09-29-2002, 02:05 PM
you forgot black guys
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Captain Obvious
10-02-2002, 07:53 PM
well it seems that every girl that has ever left me for another dude seems to pick out an asshole... or maybe I just think that cuz I want to cave their freakin heads in
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Teddy Troy
10-02-2002, 10:53 PM
This is just my personal observation. Ive found that most dudes who are classified as "nice" are pathetic, obsessive , smothering clowns, who got nothin better to do than worry about and bother what ever girl they happen to be interested in.
DroopyGirl
10-03-2002, 04:05 AM
ofcourse bad guys are great for a night or two, but it takes a nice guy to keep a girl.
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Death Metal Moe
10-03-2002, 08:10 AM
NO. There is A LOT of truth to this. I can't THINK how many times I sit there talking to a woman, and I think to myself, "Why do you put up with this guy? You don't deserve this."
But it's none of my business. If I said that, then I'd look like the guy that's trying to break them up to make my "BIG MOVE."
Very classy, ladies. Love isn't blind, it's RETARDED and a sadist.
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BrianTheBailBondsman
10-03-2002, 08:41 AM
O.K. commit a crime and go to jail... get 3 hots a cott and tv but the little old lady they mugged has to pay 500 a day for hospital and 4 a day to watch tve , i mean u can get all the crack cocaine and hookers u what but u cant even get a good cuban cigar, whats wrong with this country
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