What do you hate most about break ups?

[Fezzie Fetish]

A guy that I had been with for a long time, just recently broke up with me. It really kills because I loved him a lot but didn't show it all the time. Now it is really hard because I try not to think of him but then a song comes on the radio and reminds me of him. I friggin hate it! I also hate when I want to joke around about something that was between me and him and no one else gets it.

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Wee wee wee boring...

[Jennitalia]

the actual break up itself is the hardest. i'm too much of a pussy to cut the cord

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

the actual break up itself is the hardest. i'm too much of a pussy to cut the cord



Me too.

The guilt of hurting the other person sucks too.

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[A.J.]

When I've gotten dumped it's been the sense of failure -- that you weren't good enough for her. That'll put a damper on the self-esteem.

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[sexy bastard]

the thing i harte most about breakups is that your ex stalks you liek a mad woman calling your house calling your cell leving messages saying that she knows what you are wearing cause she sees you...and then the paranoia that settles in that you feel uncomfy going out cause she might be following.

sorry had to get personal in what I am goingthru.
but i agree with Jenn its cutting the cord


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[LatinSpiceXoX]

The hardest part is closure.. If you don't know Why they 'need space', how are you supposed to Leave them alone??

How are you supposed to be strong when all the songs on the radio remind you of him/her and make you sob?

One day I changed the station, found Howard Stern... when he was done, found Don&Mike, after that, O&A.. I'm glad RON & FEZ made it to MID Days.. I've become such a HUGE fan.. look at me now! lol

Anyway.. Talk radio has helped with getting over heart-break... Listening to both sides of issues... Learning from others... But couples should really tell it to each other.. be honest and say 'This is why WE can't be'.. blah blah..

P.S. Doug tried to talk to me again...just wished him a Happy Belated B-day, and had him on his way!..
THANK YOU TALK RADIO!!

.. oh geez.. was that cheesy or what?!

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[RandomNY]

I hate all the cliche "Break-up" lines...
If I hear how great a guy I am... or it's not you blah blah blah one more time .. my head is going to explode.. :)

Give me a little honesty..

you can't stand my hair.. hate the way I live my life..
The size of my junk.. whatever..

something...



I listen to much less WNEW than I used to!!!!

[PanterA]

What do you hate most about break ups?leaving someone you now hate....with all your dirty secrets.

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[Hawiian shirt craig]

the morning after, when you
wake up alone... and you
realize its over. then, more
so in my case, when you
have to pretend to be
freinds b/c you really love
her (not IN love). but you
can't tell her that ne more.

isn't it great when your ex
introduces you to her new
guy? its like a kick in the
stomach with the flameing-
spiked army boot of death.

oh, and jen and fuzzy about
cutting the chord, thats
pretty tuff but if i want to end
it i'm pretty good at it.
usually thats not the case.


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[jocefus]

the hardest part is loving someone for 7 years and then they leave you for your best friend.

[Contra]

i agree the "non-explination" really upsets me. that happened in my last relationship and 3 explinations later she still hasn't told me the truth (and yes i do know the truth because we have the same best friend). that and the songs on the radio too, that sucks!

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[NurseMira]

The hardest part about a break up is having to go back to condoms again.

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[EffMeBoobs]

The hardest part is trying to make
new friends because you lost all
of yours with the relationship, or
you lost your friends because
you dissed them for your man or
woman.


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[Jackie Sloan]

I always find it difficult to trust a new person that much again, breakups are so painful. The reason why it's so tough is exactly what Pantera said. Now you have to hope your ex doesn't use anything against you.

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[BrianTheBailBondsman]

leaving someone you now hate....with all your dirty secrets.
EXACTLY Bobby P..

now she knows all the sexual secrets and how i like to wear my moms ... ahhh oh what? Yes Me too I hate breaking up.

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[silera]

Finding someone new to fuck.


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[DarkHippie]

the sad part

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[FMJeff]

seeing your ex with the new guy...

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[Steels]

disposing her body...

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[Geppetto]

I think the worst feeling has to be that you can make the other person feel the way you feel, they just lost that feeling. Its like they don't belive in you anymore.

[Gmann]

I have to agree with Pantera....someone you now cant stand knows some intimate shit about you. Plus I cant stand all your mutual friends going "have you spoken to her lately? " or "you 2 should still try and be friends ?". I mean...I understand they mean well, but I dont get into your shit done get into mine!!!

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[scorpion]

The restraining orders?

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Now I'm starvin

[Hosp]

The immediate lack of sex.

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[Patches]

Digging the hole. You never know who will come along. Next thing you know, you're out there all night digging holes.

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[Yerdaddy]

getting shot at by the farmer

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[Doogie]

The part where you will no longer wake up to that person...that you need to pick up and start again. Although you will feel emotionally void on the inside and yearn for days of yesteryear when joy was at its peak, and smiles were at there best. When you remember there was an order to things and how those things are now gone like dust in the wind. When you dont even know who you are anymore...that is what sucks most about breakups

Although to the last thing I wrote about not knowing yourself, I alwyas remember this quote: "When the wind no longer calls to you, perhaps it is time to remember your name"-Elegos A'Kla

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[hyperspace]

trying to get the new one to wear leather and spank you.

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[Michael Fury]

Losing touch with her family. With every woman I've dated seriously, I've always hit it off well with her folks. But after we've split up, I can no longer contact them. I can, but I don't. Rule #1: when it's over, it's over.








See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.

[SRFSTARVD]

when you finally hook up with someone else and she Just happens to be at the same bar and for some reason you feel guilty even if she dumped you. Its wierd.

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[DJEvelEd]

I'm trying to break up with my girl now. She works out of state(world's oldest profession)so I can't see her with the other men she's with. I picture her with these other men in my mind and it drives me nutty. Especially 2 at a time. I hope I get over her but I think my brain has gone through the chemical change that we call "love". That makes it harder because I get irrational. I guess y'all were right; you can't turn a hooker into a housewife. My heart still hurts though.

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[Tall_James]

Getting your stuff back.

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[my_mr_happy]

the worst of all for me is when you have the next day to give back all of the stuff and get yours.. forced contact...

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[newport king]

the worst part is when you finally decide to tell them and you know this person is still in love with you and dont even know whats coming but you've already made up your mind you are getting out of this and trying to search for an opening line, and watching the look on their face and the tear in their eye...and like nursemira said going back to condoms...that REALLY sucks

another newport king joint

[ron pennington]

the worst part of breaking up is when you can only remember the good times when there gone. thinking about all the laughs and the sex and the passion. then all the bitching and fighting seems minimal.

come get your $2

[Brick Jesus]

Her telling me that she needs space, so she goes out, hooks up with some guys, tells you how great you are, says she still loves you and then tells you how she wants to get back together, but then plans "The Vacation" with her friends which I don't even want to think about.

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[ShelleBink]

I hate when a few months later you see them and decide to "give it another shot"

yes, i suck at relationships. always.

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[grlNIN]

What do you hate most about break ups?


the drunken stupor that is my life for the following 24 hours

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[Rev]

when they dont get it, and keep on asking "but why?"

Quite possibly the only time I feel the statement "because i said so!" is appropriate!!!

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[CreepyGyrl]

like the month following.
1. tears
2. anger
3. depression
4. fear
5. picking your self up off the ground after stumbling to it in what seems like a big blurr...

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[Thebazile78]

I hate the awkward moments when you've made the decision and there's nothing left to say to each other. . . when just the other day, you couldn't stop talking to each other.

I also hate the "goodbye fuck" because it reminds you that it will be an awful long time before you find someone who can screw like that again.

I also really hate the dishonest bits that come up when you're trying to guard each other's feelings - like the "let's be friends" line.

I went through a lot of self-doubt in the breakup I experienced, you know, the feeling that you're not good enough for anyone ever again. I decided to become a hermit, but I was even more miserable.

Breakups also affect me physically - I have asthma attacks when I see the current ex - and I could do without that, too.



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[Cybersoldier]

The break up itself, and not getting the reason why you broke up (the real reason why)

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[erole]

nothing. it's sorta fun.

[LilLibra]

I remember that the hardest part for me after my first heartbreak was ignoring the little habits we'd picked up during our relationship. Like, there would be a certain time every night he'd call me and after we broke up, that time would pass without the phone call. Or maybe passing by a place we always hung out at together. It just was a constant reminder that it was over and that realization sucks. <P>


"I'm in a class all by myself... and its f*ckin' lonely."

[LilLibra]

Breakups also affect me physically - I have asthma attacks when I see the current ex - and I could do without that, too.

Aw, that's terrible. Its gotta be anxiety.


"I'm in a class all by myself... and its f*ckin' lonely."

[Thebazile78]

Aw, that's terrible. Its gotta be anxiety.

I agree. I just avoid him now, which is pretty easy, considering we don't ever have to see each other. . . unless my PC at work breaks.




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[Friday]

I can agree with Michael - it is hard to lose not only your ex but also their family and friends who have become a part of your life as well.

And the little inside jokes and habits that only the two of you "get". Those are tough to get past once you are alone.

This is my first real Holiday without my ex-fiance - and it is strange.

Great now I am depressed....Thanks alot!!

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