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Coach
10-28-2002, 01:17 PM
I am in a bit of a quandry. One of the girls on my team keeps making allusions to the fact that she wants to sleep with me. I think that it would be a bad idea and could possibly lead to the loss of my job, but all my friends say Go for it! If She's 18 then good! What do you all think??
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Patches
10-28-2002, 01:24 PM
I think it's wrong. You are her coach and hold a position of power over her, and she is vulnerable to you. Nevermind, that's kinda hot.
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TheGameHHH
10-28-2002, 01:25 PM
I need a little more info, how old are you? Where do you work, what kind of a school is it?
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canofsoup15
10-28-2002, 01:26 PM
You better make sure shes 18, u dont want to be another R. Kelly.
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furie
10-28-2002, 01:26 PM
yes, more info needed before we can make a judgement. We don't know you. draw us a picture.
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10-28-2002, 01:27 PM
go for it...........if you wanna be on tabloids across america and be shuned from most places.........
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10-28-2002, 01:27 PM
Who cares if she's not 18... go for it.
Just becareful cops aren't lurking.
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Coach
10-28-2002, 01:28 PM
I am 32 and it is a college setting
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DarkHippie
10-28-2002, 01:40 PM
it's not amoral, but it is unethical as a coach. If you are found out, you will certainly be reprimanded, and could lose your job.
that being said, i would probably go for it, because i am weak, and am led around by my dick, especially where college chicks are involved.
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it is a college setting
Bretty: didnt this happen at your school??
And no, its not amoral to sleep with her, but it might be immoral...
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TheGameHHH
10-28-2002, 02:48 PM
Bretty: didnt this happen at your school??
Yes, infact it did. The swim coach here put cameras in the girls locker room so he could watch them change.
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HordeKing1
10-28-2002, 03:38 PM
SWIMCOACH - It's not illegal, but it's grounds for dismissal. Almost all colleges prohibit any type of sexual relationship b/w teacher and student. The same applies to coach and player (or swimmer)
In addition to this, it is immoral b/c there is a major difference in the balance of power in the relationship. You're the coach. She's the swimmer. You're the authority figure. Perhaps a father figure as well, given the age difference.
It would be a BIG MISTAKE to sleep with this woman.
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Yerdaddy
10-28-2002, 05:03 PM
but there's nothing wrong with showing her the breast stroke
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Captain Rooster
10-28-2002, 05:09 PM
DO NOT!
'nuff said
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Yerdaddy
10-28-2002, 05:20 PM
mmmm...donut....
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TheMojoPin
10-28-2002, 10:36 PM
NO GOOD.
It's not illegal, but it's unethical. Stay away.
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Coach
10-29-2002, 12:47 PM
I am generally not the type to give in to my more basal instincts, so how then do I deal with her fairly obvious advances without making her like a piece of crap??
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Aggie
10-29-2002, 12:52 PM
you're on a roll yerdaddy, 2 threads in a row you've made me laugh out loud, can i hire you to entertain me?
Bretty
Awww, that's so cute. Bretty!
If you already have doubts, don't do it. Your mind is already made up it's wrong.
Just try not to be alone with her and the subject most likely won't come up. Don't be available for "office hours" or "extra practice".
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Michael Fury
10-29-2002, 01:02 PM
Depends on your school's vibe. My university swim coach regularly nailed a girl on his team. It was no secret, but they kept it on the down-low. Everyone was cool with it. If she's 18 & mature enough to make an adult decision, see what happens.
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HordeKing1
10-31-2002, 12:22 PM
Swimcoach - Just tell her that you'd feel uncomfortable dating a student and that the school has regulations prohibiting it. She'll get the message and won't be offended.
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Patches
10-31-2002, 12:25 PM
Or bang balls. Either way.
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SRFSTARVD
10-31-2002, 12:46 PM
If she is older than 12 then forget it
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BrianTheBailBondsman
10-31-2002, 01:32 PM
Does she wear one of those flimsy school issue suits? i love them.. in H.S. you could see all the cracks and crevises and nip!
Kick her off the team, get her expelled then Bang the hell out of her!
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