How important is sex...

[Justice4all]

I would like to get your opinion in this matter. I have had debates with friends about how important sexual compatibility is in a relationship. I say sex is not the most important thing when in a relationship but it IS important. (Amoung the top three things I would say). I think if someone is not compatible that way then they have a chance to fail more then succeed. Either that or one partner will stray from the other.
What do you say?

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[IrishAlkey]

Ask my other half.

She's the one who wants to fuck all the time.

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[silera]

I'd rather fuck than talk.


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[Jackie Sloan]

This question is rhetorical right? I mean, you don't really expect men to rate anything (maybe money) over sex?

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[Jennitalia]

i agree with justice. you definitely need to be compatitible, but there also has to be a deep connection, as well (for me, anyway).

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[sexy bastard]

i strongly agree with justice and jenn on this matter

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[silera]

i strongly agree with justice and jenn on this matter

I second that emotion.


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[TheMojoPin]

What's sex? I like to hold hands.

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[A.J.]

What's sex?


I think it refers to gender.

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[Michael Fury]

Here's what I think is important:

You have laughs together;
You care for each other;
Your concerns are her concerns; and .. .
You have great sex.







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[TheMojoPin]

I think it refers to gender.

Oh, well then, that's not important at all. I says, "if it moves, poke it". That's what I says, I do...

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

Here's what I think is important:

You have laughs together:
You care for each other:
Your concerns are her concerns: and .. .
You have great sex.



I couldn't have said it better myself.

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[irishkb]

no sex equals, let's just be friends.. why ruin the great relationship we have...

Here's what I think is important:

You have laughs together:
You care for each other:
Your concerns are her concerns: and .. .
You have great sex.



you sir are correct sir

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[HordeKing1]

JUSTICE4ALL - The most important things in a relationship are respect for your partner and the ability to listen to him/her and to communicate your thoughts and feelings to him/her.

Sex is an important part of relationships. It's a crucial part. But while relationships can exist without sex, they cannot exist without respect and communication.

The three predictors for a long-term marriage by the way are"

1. Communication
2. Earnings parity
3. Good sex life

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[TheGameHHH]

es muy importante

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[LatinSpiceXoX]

Oh God I wanna suck a dick so bad!

Okay, now back to the topic...
I am, in fact, a female and I prefer men.


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[sexy bastard]

Oh God I wanna suck a dick so bad!

woohoo *unzipping pants*

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[RonMwangaguhunga]

For a man sex is the most important thing. For a woman it is pretty darn imprtant too.

[undressa]

I think it is very important, but so is all that other crap I also think sometimes it takes time to work up to great sex, you have to be comforatble with one another to get freaky, amd I right?

[HordeKing1]

I've been married nearly 18 years. The sex just gets better and better.

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[Friday]

There really needs to be a great connection sexually. The other things are just as important, but if you get home and DON'T want to F the shit out of your other half
then there will be major problems down the line.... and I speak from experience!

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[The Chairman]

I agree with Jus and Jen and HK as well.

My experience also has shown that there is an inverse relationship between how much someone talks about sex and how good they are at it, i.e. it's the quiet ones that are the best.

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[ShelleBink]

for me, all i needed in a relationship was sex, now that i kinda wised up... i like having someone there who isn't expecting sex, but just wants <i>me</i> .. the good, the bad, and the ugly ((tho he doesn't think the "ugly" occurs at all))

i feel warm and fuzzy now.

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

The best sex is when you're in love.

That's just me. I need to feel "connected" to the person to enjoy sex.

Someone once said that the most important sex organ is the one between your ears. For me, it's just so much more satisfying when I'm with that one special person.

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[Justice4all]

And having said THAT Fuzzy....perfect. (and I agree)

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[spoon]

2. Earnings parity

I found that note very interesting. HK, can you expand on the research for this area? Thanks


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[spoon]

Looks as though I need a little spice in my life. Those are cravings I could fulfill.

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[HordeKing1]

Spoon - See, Anselmi, D. & Law, A. (1998) Questions of Gender: Perspectives and Paradoxes. Boston: Mcgraw Hill.

It's really an absolutely essential text on gender issues offering many perspectives but with a sharp slant towards feminist theories (as is my personal inclination as well).

Basically, the gist is that the more equal a couple is in a relationship, the more likely they are to treat each other respectfully and have a good marriage. This equality extends to equality in communicative expression, earnings and sexual compatability.

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[furly]

i just got out of a relationship a few months back.my ex never wanted sex and when we did have sex she wasn't too into it.i loved her but as i look back now,i'm better off.now i can find someone with a better sexual appetite!

fredy hahn

[fatylvr20]

From what everyone's saying...this is pretty damn important. I do agree that i pretty much want to feel that "connection" with my other half when the time comes...and when my other half comes...now taking applications ladies. :)

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[Jennitalia]

right now i couldnt care less about sex.

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[fiestygal]

well sinc ei am the BIG V i guess to me its not a biggie- unless you are talking about other forms like oral, foreplay, etc...its nice to do..FUCK ITS FUN!!! but i also dont mind just BEING ya know just cuddling or whatever...call me corney but what do i know

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[Justice4all]

right now i couldnt care less about sex.

And in other news....Hell Freezes over...now let's go to sports..
"Thanks Tom...it was pandamonium today in New England as b+Boston finally won the World Series...let's go live....."

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[Jennitalia]

tom, you try too hard to be funny, and it just ain't working, hon

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[fiestygal]

tom, you try too hard to be funny, and it just ain't working, hon


he doesnt try ...he IS funny

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