Dating Dilemma

[Coco]

I came across this story in a magazine I was reading, and was wondering what people here would do in this situation.

What if you finally got the job of your dreams - right pay, right area, right company, etc.... The kind of job others would dream about and one that was close to impossible to get. (Maybe 500 applied and 1 got it.)

On the job, you met the man/girl of your dreams. But they told you there was absolutely NO WAY they would date someone at work because they also valued their job and didn't want anything to jeopardize it. Now, remember, this person, absolutely WILL NOT change their minds about this.

What would you do? Give up the job or the person of your dreams?

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[Contra]

keep the job, they are harder to find then "person of your dreams". theres plenty of them out there.

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[FelixDasGato]

Keep the job, get them fired, date, make babies, enjoy.

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[faccia]

job.. you'll find someone else..

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[Coco]

keep the job, they are harder to find then "person of your dreams". theres plenty of them out there.


I don't know about the validity of this. Finding the person of your dreams, in a lot of cases, is very difficult too.

Keep the job, get them fired, date, make babies, enjoy

Now, remember, you can't change their job situation (getting them fired),and they already decided that they absolutely will not date anyone at work.
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This message was edited by Coco on 12-11-02 @ 5:28 PM

[Orallo]

I'd do both, keep the job and the chick. If you keep it low key the company doesn't have to know...

IF this is the person of your dreams, and you get married and the company finds out and fires you, hire a good attorney and SUE!

Its that simple. The company CANNOT tell you what to do with your personal life.

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[Michael Fury]

A real Cosmo situation. Accept the job, date the woman, and USE HER as a spy to gather confidential information & further promote your career. Office affairs burn out in 6 months anyway, so grab some benefit while you can.






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[dassal3399]

i would try to do both...that's just the way i am

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[Hawiian shirt craig]

i would do the obvious...
show her my junk... what
woman can resist?? ok
that was a joke. Knowing
me, i'd convince her that
dating a coworker is ok,
and we'd be happy. Just
keep it on the down low at
first. then again i seriously
have one of those faces
people jsut belive and can't
be mad at. sheesh!


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[LatinSpiceXoX]

Girl, you can find the 'person of your dreams' 3 times in a year.

I'd keep the job and dress extra sexy to work, tease his ass, flirt with everyone else but him, and make sure he regrets his decision.... maybe that'll get him to change his mind.... or drive him crazy in the meantime.


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[SoLost22]

keep the job and the dream girl as a friend with benefits

"God looks after drunks, fools, and the United States."

[Jackie Sloan]

Keep the job, then go for LatinSpiceXoX. Wooooooo!!

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[Devils Advocate]

Keep the job, wait for the company to spin off a subsidiary and get transferred to the same position in the new sub, then date the girl since you no longer work for the same company.

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[ShelleBink]

job. i've found out jobs are more reliable, less stressful, and all that other happy horseshit.

then again, i like my job. i have people who laugh when they drop their cell phones in toilets.

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[jaxoncoherent]

Keep the job and on down time do lots of masterbation

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[hyperspace]

me..i cum across magazines all the time. still have no job though.

[Reephdweller]

I'd definitely try to work it to see if I could manage both. If push came to shove, I'd probably take the love at this point. It's funny, a few years ago I'd have taken the job.

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