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FMJeff
12-18-2002, 07:44 PM
im just curious...
like ive seen ex's around and its astonishing sometimes to see someone you've slept with over and over again over long periods of time and none of that history matters when you're face to face...
i mean...ive seen girls who have gone down on me and visa versa over months and months and its as if it never happened...people ive dated, shared memories with...its like blank stare you might as well be a stranger look on their face...either that or coldness...
ladies...what goes through your minds when this happens? what do you think when you see someone you've been intimate with romantically?
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Steels
12-18-2002, 07:53 PM
They are acting. They want to make it seem like you mean nothing to them anymore. Usually it is actually the latter.
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FMJeff
12-18-2002, 08:46 PM
They are acting. They want to make it seem like you mean nothing to them anymore. Usually it is actually the latter.
that be nice if it were true
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12-18-2002, 09:00 PM
Girls are weird like that. I am the same way. If I see someone that I have slept with, I can care less. It's over.
I don't know why but if I see a guy who I have been with, it might as well be a complete stranger.
I just keep replaying the reason why we broke up in my head. I see that I got nothing from him and I move on...
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Dewey
12-19-2002, 03:09 AM
I'm sorry to hear you have that experience, Jeff. Every woman I've ever been with, if I run into her, we end up doing it again. Its like they are insatiable. Kind of embarrassing, really.
Maybe you should think about taking up another form of recreation. Knitting, I hear, is very relaxing.
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DreamWeaver
12-19-2002, 04:27 AM
Usually when I see people I've been romantically involved with, for a moment I think back to those times and say, "Ugh what was I thinking??" Or "am I crazy?? He does have a small dick."
For the most part though I am friendly with my exs.
or I just hide.
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Arienette
12-19-2002, 04:39 AM
i think it depends a lot on the relationship that you had with this person.. i mean, when i've run into someone that i hooked up with once or something, it's more just uncomfortable than anything else... when it's someone that you used to be with more long term and involved, it's a lot harder. i dont know about other people, but it upsets me when that sort of thing happens. it's just so strange because you were so close with that person at one point, and now you're essentially strangers. you can't forget all the things you knew, and how you felt, but you just dont feel it like that anymore. and i always have to wonder what they're thinking, whether they've thought of me since we broke up, and things of that sort. i think it's perfectly normal to feel awkward and have all those kinds of feelings... how could you not?
jeff, chances are that when you run into a girl you had something of even a little substance with, she's thinking all of these things. if she seems detached or like she doesnt really care, she's probably putting on an act... it's very hard to know how to conduct yourself in that situation, especially when it happens entirely unexpected
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Jennitalia
12-19-2002, 05:44 AM
there are only 3that would still have an effect on me, but one of them is dead, so i dont have to worry about running into him anytime soon.
the others i usually think, "ewww...i cant believe i let him stick his dick in my mouth/tookie" - mostly cuz i just see them as a friend only. a couple because they actually ick me out
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12-22-2002, 06:26 PM
or I just hide.
BINGO. That's exactly what I do. Unless I'm drunk. Then there's trouble.
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12-22-2002, 07:16 PM
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