Should I let him go?

[M1bMenina]

I have known this guy named John. We have been best friends for 5 years now. In the beginning it was just a simple crush .... but then i realized that i really liked him to be boyfriend material. I ended up gettin with someone that he knew and he got really mad about it. I asked him questions like whether he liked me and he said yes. Everyone tells me that he likes me but that he is afraid to tell me how he really feels. I really don't know what to believe. I don't know if he really likes me, if he is playing games with my head or if getting with that guy that he knew was what changed everything between us. I didn't want to ruin the friendship so i told him i was over him (Not entirely). What should i do?:(

[irishkb]

What should i do?


Not lie to yourself. was this other guy just a hook up or are you dating him. if it was just a hook up then forget it and concentrate on the good friend. does he know you like him cause that can be the largest problem.. if he doesn't then he might be thinking the samething that you are. if you tell him how you feel and he does not like you it could ruin the friendship.. i say you sit down talk with him and be totally honest with him about it all. you don't want to have to deal with the regret of not telling him how you truly felt.. it may not go the way the you want but atleast you can say you tried or it can turn out great and you could get a boyfriend you really like.. good luck

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[Coco]

didn't want to ruin the friendship so i told him i was over him (Not entirely).


I would say decide on what guy you like the most and stick with him. If you go back and forth between these two guys you will probably lose both relationships.

Also, I think it is strange that in 5 years you both wouldn't know your feelings for one another and be honest about it.

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[Dan]

He only likes you now because
you are with someone else. The
second you are available, he'll
lose interest. Stick with the bird
in the hand.


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[TheBrain007]

Talk to him. NOW. Tell him how you feel. If he immediatly responds and tell you how he feels, then go for it. If he doesn't, like dodges the issue, changes the subject, or even twitches in the wrong way, then it wasn't meant to be. Bottom line: If he doesn't immediately respond to your feelings, then he never will and is one of the 80% of men that just can't listen to a woman. I'm being generous with he 80%. I know, cause I am a guy. <P>

TheBrain007

[Adolf]

so what happened :popcorn: