My boyfriend called me his ex-girlfriends "pet name" on Valentine's Day

[Jasmines Song]

They have been broken up for about eight months. Out of all the God damned days to call me by his ex's pet name, he picks today.

I just had to hang up the phone. I didn't even want to argue. But he knows why I was upset.

She has done nothing but cause drama in our relationship and he has done nothing but try to stick up for her because she was a "good person" for about five minutes in the 6+ year relationship they had. Finally, she has moved on with her life and this happens.

FUCK THAT.

FUCK VALENTINES DAY.

FUCK EVERYONE.

...except for the people who took the time to read this post. Thanks :-)

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[Jennitalia]

that's fucked up.
things slip out sometimes, but it sounds like he has some unresolved issues with her.


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[GaryWyze]

<font color=purple>You're blowing this way out of proportion.

He's used to associating that term of affection with feelings of affection, and doesn't have to be any more compliacted than that.

You said yourself that they were together for 6+ years, it's not like he can simply erase them from his brain. Would you really wanna be with somebody who could?

I say give him a pass on this one and make the most of *your* Valentine's Day together.

[JiZ]

So, you're saying there's a chance?





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This message was edited by JiZ on 2-14-03 @ 2:03 PM

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You really shouldn't care.

Summoning up "care" is so draining.







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[Jasmines Song]

I am not really going overboard here. Yes, I am pissed but I am not stabbing teddy bears. He treats me good. He really does. I know deep down he slipped. But, I needed to vent. I guess it wouldn't be so bad if I didn't detest her.

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[IrishAlkey]

To make things worse, JiZ just said you have a big box.

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[Jasmines Song]

I just needed to make it known that I was upset. Being that he continued to talk to me after he called me by the name, made me feel that he can pull one over on me...as if I were "stupid". I would have been fine if he recognized his slip and made a light joke of it or something. But being that when I asked him to repeat what he called me he only replied with a guilty-toned "Nothing". When I quickly said I wanted to get off the phone he didn't even argue it.

I am not stupid. I rememeber everything.

As far as my big box goes...it's on the rag so I am even more pissed now.

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This message was edited by Jasmines Song on 2-14-03 @ 3:17 PM

[The Vig]

It was a Freudian slip....atleast he didnt scream out here name when you guys are in the heat of passion...then that would be f'd up!!

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[chuckydee]

Maybe you should just invite the "x" over and both of you could play w/ his dink for valentines day

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[Heavy]

Maybe on Valentines day, this guy that cares so much about you and takes good care of you, doesnt need you jumping down his throat after every little thing. Maybe you should get of his back and let him breath just for one day in your relationship.

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[Jasmines Song]

When did I say I jumped down his throat? I said that I didn't even start an argument. So, get your shit straight. But, I have every right to be upset considering the past.

Now you're the one who is making this bigger than it is.

By the way, he apologized on his own about it and it was done and over with.

So....slow your role.

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This message was edited by Jasmines Song on 2-14-03 @ 4:41 PM

[Tall_James]

By the way, he apologized on his own about it and it was done and over with.

So....slow your role.
So alls well that ends well. Until the next time. We men are known to screw up occationally. If he was sincere in his apology I hope you are sincere in your forgiveness.

But if he does it again, bitch slap him.

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[LionHeart]

Jasmine tonight you're going to go out and have a good time. If you let this bother you, then he's done his job and that'll make him feel good. Go out with some single friends, have fun and don't think about what he did. Trust me.......

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[TheBrain007]

Fucking A! That's terrible. But I say, give him 1 chance. It's a common screw-up, although what a day for it to happen, I agree.


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This message was edited by TheBrain007 on 2-14-03 @ 5:35 PM

[rmw]

Well Jasmines, the good news is that he didn't run off and make things worse by posting it on a message board. Oh, wait, ...er, uhm, mmm...

[grlNIN]

kill him

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[satan-2]

kill him

um, so how many guys have you killed?

god is an absentee LANDLORD!!!

later

[grlNIN]

um, so how many guys have you killed?



so far 3......wanna be next?

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[Heavy]

I was joking

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[Arienette]

that is messed up. not the end of the world, of course, but no one wants to hear that, especially if there's all that crap from the past with her. but it sounds to me like you have a pretty good attitute about the whole thing. you have a right to get upset, but you didnt go crazy and let it go. good for you

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[IrishAlkey]

Jasmine tonight you're going to go out and have a good time. If you let this bother you, then he's done his job and that'll make him feel good. Go out with some single friends, have fun and don't think about what he did. Trust me.......


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[Contra]

isnt anyone else interested to know WHAT THE FUCK THE PET NAME WAS?!?!?!?

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[TheGameHHH]

oh my god thank you contra for finally asking that question. For two days now I have
been sitting here waiting for her to answer this question. what was the fucking name


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[Jasmines Song]

LOL....

I would love to say the name but I can't. It's pretty unique and I know the PSYCHO-ex reads the board. I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction. Being she doesn't know my board name, I'm safe for now, if I post the pet name...she'll know who I am. The last thing I want is for her to get off on this.

Sorry guys.

It's a stupid name anyway.



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[grlNIN]

i sitll say kill him.....

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[silera]

I think Jasmine's Song is Earth 2 Silera.



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[Jasmines Song]

I think Jasmine's Song is Earth 2 Silera.




Giiirrrrrrrrl,

I bet I have stories that would blow your mind. I wonder why this girl isn't in an insane asylum yet...

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[East Side Dave]

...I called my pet my girlfriend's name on Valentine's Day. I was drunk.


...neither of them are currently speaking to me.

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[HordeKing1]

JASMINE - It seems that both you and your bf have unresolved issues revolving around his ex. You resent the amount of time he spends with her and the way he is so quick to defend her. It seems that there is a bit more going on than just ex's being friends - not that they're having an affair - it's just unusual for a guy to stay so connected to his ex, when he knows his gf has major problems with her.

The slip itself (calling you his pet name for her) in and of itself isn't necessarily anything more than a major screw up. Chances are that he cared for his ex, and he cares for you. he emotions he feels are similar, so for a moment, he went to the name associated in his mind with this emotion. However, coupled with your resentment of their relationship and his seeming unwillingness to do anything about it, and consider your feelings, you don't need an appology. You need to sit down and talk it out.

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[silera]

I bet I have stories that would blow your mind.

My favorite story involves an 80 mile an hour high speed chase through the back roads of the Dominican Republic.

Fun times indeed.


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This message was edited by HordeKing1 on 2-17-03 @ 10:10 PM