View Full Version : First time with new girl - where's the line
whoopsy
03-15-2003, 08:29 PM
I've heard from a lot of girls that certain things are out of bounds for their first time they have sex with someone new. For instance, NO doggie (it's too impersonal), NO spanking, NO toys. I can survive without the toys, I might be bold enough to spank first time if I thought she'd respond to it, but isn't the the "no doggie" policy a little over the top. Are these girls just too conservative or is this what most women think....
DarkHippie
03-16-2003, 10:36 AM
no cleveland steamer.
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reeshy
03-16-2003, 11:01 AM
I also think that the "Rusty Trombone" might be taboo at least for the first time!!!
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stickyfingers
03-17-2003, 07:42 AM
first date-no tongue.................
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FiveB247
03-17-2003, 07:43 AM
The reverse could be true also though. At first, be awful and disgusting...and the sky's the limit afterwards..haha I'd be downgrading to the pervuse instead of continuing with vile acts...haha
DarkHippie
03-17-2003, 07:46 AM
noice joke grenade, Sticky. i almost overlooked the last part.
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high fly
03-18-2003, 03:10 PM
Whoopsy, I think you've got a little growing to do.
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Dewey
03-18-2003, 03:16 PM
No pile driver, no bukkake the first time.
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Death Metal Moe
03-18-2003, 03:27 PM
No crying.
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DarkHippie
03-18-2003, 04:38 PM
no blowjobs on the toilet
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03-18-2003, 04:41 PM
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CaptClown
03-18-2003, 04:50 PM
No donkey-punching.
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travis151
03-18-2003, 04:55 PM
NO Doggie to personal ?!? What kind of girls you banging?
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golfcourseguy
03-18-2003, 05:21 PM
No ppv simulcast
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silera
03-18-2003, 05:30 PM
No fisting.
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JustJon
03-18-2003, 06:14 PM
No erotic asphyxiation. Either I'm going to strangle her or fuck her, but not both at the same time.
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whoopsy
03-18-2003, 07:38 PM
Whoopsy, I think you've got a little growing to do.
- high fly -
I actually asked in all seriousness. This came out of a dinner I had with two girls at work. They were both adamant that doggie was "too degrading and impersonal" for the first time. What threw me was that they were completely serious and I would not label these girls as conservative or up-tight. Thought some of the girls on the board could let me know if they were talking out of their asses (maybe trying to come off as innocent) or if the typical woman thinks this way. Who knows, maybe I find out for sure in the upcoming weeks and post whether or not it was bullshit.
erole
03-18-2003, 07:59 PM
no hamsters
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Dewey
03-18-2003, 10:19 PM
Personally, I think yelling "Who's yo Daddy now, bitch?" is a little uncool the first time.
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stickyfingers
03-19-2003, 05:39 AM
No fisting.
That girl's been on a bunch of first dates
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FMJeff
03-19-2003, 09:48 AM
I'm going to put this out there and say facials and creampies probably not a good first time activity.
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jocefus
03-19-2003, 12:30 PM
thinking no yellow discipline or anal
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kc7586
03-19-2003, 02:00 PM
no hamsters
or gerbals or any type of rodent
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Thebazile78
03-19-2003, 03:36 PM
Hmmm. . . I think it all depends on the girl.
I usually opt for something on the side of 'romantic' to ease into a sexual relationship and let the kinky stuff out later.
Some women can only get off a certain way (it's a mental thing, not a physical thing in most cases) and you're best sticking to something she's comfortable with rather than going in for the "let's just do this thing" styles, unless you're paying for it.
Then you'll get anything you want. . .and quite possibly a few things you don't. . .
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grlNIN
03-20-2003, 10:15 AM
no T fucking, thats just impolite
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Dewey
03-20-2003, 01:00 PM
No fisting.
I disagree. But I would stop at the wrist, the first time.
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Dewey
03-20-2003, 01:01 PM
No filming it, or insisting that your friends be able to bang her too, the first time.
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Raven
03-20-2003, 09:31 PM
I think the line is at Anal -- wait for the 2nd date
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Dewey
03-21-2003, 07:01 AM
And if you do get your friends involved, no double P, the first time. That's just disrespectful, unless she absolutely insists on it.
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stump12
03-21-2003, 07:28 PM
How about your friends just watch the first time?
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Anakin Skywalker
03-21-2003, 07:55 PM
Fuck that! If she blinks twice, the rules dont apply!
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Geppetto
04-03-2003, 05:26 PM
no T fucking, thats just impolite
opps! my bad
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jafter
04-03-2003, 05:41 PM
No dirty sanchezes.
Seriously it depends on the situation and depends on the girl. Talk to her see what she likes, what she doesn't like. DO IT TACTFULLY "Don't be a goof"
Ask her what her turn ons and offs are.
Tell her what you like and don't like.
Do this and you will know where the line is with this girl.
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