What To Do?

[reeshy]

I lost my second wife 4 years ago to cancer. It took me quite awhile to get over it. Even my daughter told me I have to get over it and move on. So I did ... or so I thought I did.
About a year ago, I ran into my my first wife after all these years. She told me that she had recently gotten divorced from her second husband. One thing led to another and well...you know...but I mean it was just for fun. I tried to keep everything light. I tried to tell her that it was nothing serious.
Now, she's starting to subtly hint that things should get a little (or alot) more serious between us. To be honest, I don't know what I want. I mean, after all this time, some things have changed and others have not. There is still a certain tension between us but damn...she still looks great and to be honest, she makes me feel like I did when we first met and makes me feel like a man who is needed. But the feelings remain that I can't trust her because she's only looking for something familar and comfortable...and to be honest, so am I.
So anyway, I'm really confused and need the advise of all you experts out there that know about relationships better than I do!!!

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[FUNKMAN]

if it feels right, continue
it it gets to feel wrong, stop

just don't lose respect for each other...

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[IrishAlkey]

Only you know what's best for you.

It sounds like she makes you feel good.

Silera makes me feel like there's no other road worth traveling on... if you find that feeling... follow it.

-Pat

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[erole]

familiar and comfortable is a good thing as long is it comes with all the other feelings too.
my parents look like they might be getting back together. My dad re-married and is now divorced...it seems like they are both different people since they wee married, which I think is a good thing.
As long as you two learned some new things about yourselves while you were apart, and the reasons for the first break up are dealt with, talked about, and successfully put behind you...seems cool to me.
Just go through the motions if you go through with it...date for a while.

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