What do you do when he up and leaves?

[MsBettyBoop]

Hi I'm new here, and maybe starting trouble...well I hope I am anyway.

So what do you do when a boyfriend you really love and trust just up and leaves?
I mean completely disappears. No call, no note, nothing said.
Oh! And he's perfectly fine. He just moves out of state without saying a word. You go out for 6 months and then you get dropped like a piece of shit.
I know I want to hurt the miserable son of a bitch in the worst way...any ideas?
I will NOT be forgiving, so no one use that option. I'm just to pissed off for that bull shit.
I'd go to the bar or club to pick up a guy or something, put on my low cut, get in my black lace ups, and fuck a hunk til he passes out, but how do you trust anyone after this?

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[TheGameHHH]

No man up and leaves me.....I be like, "boy, you best not be goin behind my back and f*cking one of dem skanky hoes you know, or I'll cut you dick off". That's how to keep em.

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[DarkHippie]

I'd go to the bar or club to pick up a guy or something, put on my low cut, get in my black lace ups, and fuck a hunk til he passes out, but how do you trust anyone after this?
what does trust have to do with revenge? (not that i'm condoning revenge, of course)

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[MsBettyBoop]

I'm sure he is fucking his father, and if I had the chance, the "Bobbit" idea could have came to mind.
You know what? I have to clarify because I am still a little emotional about all of this.
Revenge is good, and as sweet as strawberries dipped in chocolate! I should have said something more on the lines of looking to get into another relationship, and not so much busting a nut for sport.
How can I trust another guy when something like this happens? Everything is all dasies and sunshine and all of a sudden I get hit by Mack truck.

[Tall_James]

Call his parents and say "When is he going to start providing for our child?"

Sell all of his stuff in a "Revenge Auction" on eBay.


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[grlNIN]

I'd go to the bar or club to pick up a guy or something, put on my low cut, get in my black lace ups, and fuck a hunk til he passes out, but how do you trust anyone after this?




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[Def Dave in SC]

So what do you do when a boyfriend you really love and trust just up and leaves?



You can always call me, baby


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[Iamnotatool]

Betty,

Fuck away to your heart, or nana's content. Find yourself still feeling alone, then pissed that you did what you did. Just be yourself, there are other assholes (guys) like me out there for you...

Scott

Please don't hold my huge nutbag against me, or I'll hold it against you that you have flapjack tits...

[Def Dave in SC]

Yeah, but he has a huge nutbag, so watch out


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[MsBettyBoop]

I suppose I am an equal nut bag employer. Large, small, a variety of shapes and colors. As long as the guy it is connected to isn't a load of shit for brains.

[silera]

My first boyfriend, of 4 yrs, got himself a new girlfriend while I was away at school and didn't bother to tell me about it so I found out when I came home for summer break and went over to visit.

My ex husband, of 4 yrs, got deported.

My ex- boyfriend, of 4 yrs, decided we were moving out of the country, and when I said no, left without me.

I figure, that I'll trust completely up to the 3 yr and 10 month mark with my current boyfriend at which point I will attach my vagina to his penis and ride out the 4 yr mark literally.



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[FUNKMAN]

not getting on your case...

i have this way of thinking that you should have had some inclinations or should have picked up on some signs that it was not meant to be...

not saying that it is your fault... can you look back and see something that you didn't at the time...




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[Arienette]

ugh, that's awful! luckily, i've never had this happen to me personally. and you have every right to be really, REALLY pissed off. go out and fuck away, although i'm sure you realize that it's not really going to make you feel better. but sometimes you just need to do that stuff to get past something like this. the guy's an asshole. it's pretty clear that you know that. the most important thing, i think, is just to try to figure out what happened, and why you ended up with such a moron in the first place. you dont want to end up with a guy like that again. good luck

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[Iamnotatool]

I suppose I am an equal nut bag employer. Large, small, a variety of shapes and colors. As long as the guy it is connected to isn't a load of shit for brains.




My nutbag's size shouldn't matter, as my connected brains are ok for now...I just like that you employ nutbags, as so many women leave them out. ;)

Please don't hold my huge nutbag against me, or I'll hold it against you that you have flapjack tits...

[MsBettyBoop]

silera, you must have one tough shell after all of that. Good luck on the next couple months, I hope it all goes well. It seems you deserve it.
I'll be honest I never looked for anything in particular while I went out with him. He's just a seemingly innocent and honest person. Very approachable. I guess I put some blind trust going into it from the begining.
In retrospect, I suppose he was maybe implusive. My only explanation for his actions is that implusiveness.
My jackass radar has gotten that much stronger because of this.
Now that I found out where he is, and that I vented, I'll be able to put some closure on this. Although a screw binge might be in order, I don't think I'm going to do it. Call me slightly old fashioned, but I need a heart to go with the dick.

[silera]

silera, you must have one tough shell after all of that.

Think of it this way, I lived before them and I'll live after.

Obviously, relationships require two people to survive and two people to destroy.

It's better to accept that something is over and continue living than harp on what was.


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[Iamnotatool]

Although a screw binge might be in order, I don't think I'm going to do it. Call me slightly old fashioned, but I need a heart to go with the dick.



Old fashioined....


A heartless dick can only get you so far, and a dickless heart, well, thats just lesbianism...

Please don't hold my huge nutbag against me, or I'll hold it against you that you have flapjack tits...

[Jackie Sloan]

You should celebrate, summer's coming up and you're single again.

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[West Side Claire]

I figure, that I'll trust completely up to the 3 yr and 10 month mark with my current boyfriend at which point I will attach my vagina to his penis and ride out the 4 yr mark literally.


hee hee, priceless...truly priceless.

[silera]

Being single sucks hairy sweaty balls.


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[mikeyboy]

Fuck (his) father in the shower then have a
snack.

Is it Friday already?



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[ShelleBink]

What do you do when he up and leaves?

stalk.

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[Johnny Fontane]

fuck a hunk


Sounds like a candy bar to me, or maybe a new flavor of Ben & Jerry's.

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[jamesdiggy]

Being single sucks hairy sweaty balls.
Stop peeking in my window!

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[silera]

Stop peeking in my window!

I was surprised at how flexible you were.

You're gonna make a lucky girl really happy one day!!!


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[jamesdiggy]

I was surprised at how flexible you were.
Must of been all those years of Tap at Arthur Murray.

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[fatty]

Being single sucks hairy sweaty balls.


that's the first thing silera has ever said that surprised me. what's wrong with being single?

i'm a girlfriend kind of guy, i like to flirt i guess but i'm at my best when all my love goes to one woman. i love everything about having a girlfriend, but mostly the trust and happiness of knowing i'm in love and nothing else matters...

but being single is the money. you can do whatever you want without answering to anyone at all times. adn i think you might say that well if you're with someone you can be totally open and honest with than you can do whatever you want anyways.

but that's only true to a point. i told my girlfriend everythign and she is my best friend adn i loved being with her. but there was still some things i couldn't do or be completely comfortable while doing because she was there. it was nothing against her, but it's easier to go all out when you have no one there worrying about you (like a girlfriend or wife does) and there are truly no consequences.

i love having a girl but that doesn't make being single awful.

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[silera]

I was single for 9 mos. No sex. No phone calls just to say hi. No cuddling. It sucks.

There's not one thing I wouldn't tell my boyfriend. There's not one thing he wouldn't tell me. That's not the case for everyone, I know.

I don't like looking. I like being with one person.



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[erole]

oh my god! are you nuts jen? instead of doing this
here, i'll spare everyone me trashing you. expect an
e-mail within the minute.

[MsBettyBoop]

Chickenshit?

[Iamnotatool]

Don't look now, but I think our 'hypotheticals' just got unhypothetical...

I for one look forward to the next chapter in, Betty Boop vs. Erole...

Please don't hold my huge nutbag against me, or I'll hold it against you that you have flapjack tits...

[IrishAlkey]

Looks like I have something to look forward to in three years...

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[TeRRoR]

i usually put the leaves in bags and put them down by the curb for pickup...

USUALLY...

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[sexy bastard]

go lesbian

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This message was edited by sexy bastard on 4-2-03 @ 2:09 AM

[vintense]

Same kinda thing happened to me Betty, I dated this girl for 2 years and then the day before Thanksgiving she dumped me in traffic on the way to my sisters house. Just like that I was single for the first time in a long time and I just had to make it to that next morning. It took a while to regain that trust level but it will happen, don't force it or you will be let down. It is a natural progression of developing individual measures of happiness that can not be achieved in one nite by picking up a hot chick in Hoboken or some guy at a bar, unless of course that guy is me-in which case that is perfectly OK!