Can Anyone please explain the term BAGGAGE

[fiestygal]

what does it mean...what entails baggage?

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[Death Metal Moe]

When you're talking about baggage with a person, I think it means emotional things they bring into a relationship with them that need to be delt with like past abuse, rejection issues and other trauma. Or maybe life situations like dealing with kids or elderly parents, or a nasty crystal meth habit.

So they pile on their problems with whatever things may need to be delt with between you both.

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[stickyfingers]

agreed

anything they bring into the relationship that could have a negative effect or cause problems with a new partner is probably a good recipe for baggage. it usually stems from past relationships.....could be kids, financial problems, divorce, family problems, etc.....what moe said





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[Death Metal Moe]

Wow, I got it right. I'm a regular .......... guy who knows stuff .......... yeah .................

If I brought my Baggage into WNEW, could Black Earl toss it around?

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[FUNKMAN]

baggage is bad but you really do not want to have any "skeletons in the closet"...

bagitch is bad too...

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[Death Metal Moe]

Are those gay skeletons?

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[FUNKMAN]

Are those gay skeletons?



not if you don't let them out...

if you do then be prepared to get boned...

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[Death Metal Moe]

They don't have the guts to try that with me.

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[ChrisTheCop]

If I brought my baggage to wnew, would black earl toss it around?
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[fiestygal]

so would the responses equate to when someone says "DONT DATE A GUY/GIRL WITH BAGGAGE"? see thats what i dont get...i guess i got on this issue becuase me and some friends were talking about my friend's ex's ...an dthe term baggage came up....

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[wilee]

When the term "Baggage" is used, it means something that they're bringing in to the relationship. If this baggage is something like trust issues, or family issues, it could damage the current relationship.

The problem is that the person isn't exactly starting with a fresh slate, and if they transfer them into the current relationship (as unwarranted as they may be), then it creates problems where they need not be.

Communication can help to identify issues that stem from current relationships and what's being brought in as baggage, and hopefully the person recognizes that he/she is hanging on to issues that he/she shouldn't.


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[DreamWeaver]

You don't want to date someone with baggage. All it will do is cause you unnecessary drama in your life. A good example of someone with baggage is a chick that has a psycho stalker. He constantly causes problems for the chick and the new guy she's dating.....Who needs that? Starting fresh with someone that doesn't have any issues or old boyfriends hanging around is a more ideal situation.

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[Contra]

yeah i always heard that "baggage" was emotional problems, and "damaged goods" was if they had kids. is this still the way it is?

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[mikeyboy]

DON'T date a person with baggage.
DO date a person with luggage. It makes traveling
easier.


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