Getting Someone To Cheat

[Reephdweller]

How do you feel about getting someone to cheat on their wife or husband? Let's say you aren't married but you meet someone who is, and both of you have an attraction to one another. If you sensed that you take things to the next level with this person would you? Or would the idea of getting a married person or a person in a serious relationship to have an affair be something you could never see yourself doing?

I have had this kind of situation pop up before and I've never actually done it, because I get a visual of their marriage crashing down, and kids affected and lives destroyed and shattered because of a quick fuck. Maybe I'm wrong in my thinking, but I'm just curious of how you feel about it.

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[Arienette]

i think the term "getting someone to cheat" is misleading... people don't do things like that unless they want to. i don't care how hot someone might be, if the person they are trying to get with isn't interested in cheating, they won't do it. i'm sure most married people at some point meet someone that they have a mutual sexual attraction with, yet most of these won't cheat.

in college, i had a somewhat older guy pursue me for a while. i was considering the possibility of getting with him when he told me that he was married. and i won't say that i didnt consider it. i felt badly for his wife, but it was he who had a responsibility to stay faithful to her, not me. however, before i had officially decided not to go through with it, i found out that he had two kids. that's when i decided never to speak to him again. and i never have.

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[Geppetto]

I have a pretty big problem with betrayal. I agree with Arienette that it is the married persons responsabilty to be faithful but to sleep with someones wife or husband shows that you have no respect for that person. It doesn't matter if you know them or not its selfish, what might be nothing more than a quick lay to you could screw up that other persons life.


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[FUNKMAN]

i think you'd have to be the lowest of the low, a real scumbag...

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[Heavy]

I get a visual of their marriage crashing down, and kids affected and lives destroyed and shattered because of a quick fuck

Thats gonna happen anyway so you might aswell gets what you can.

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[reeshy]

Reef,
I've been in that situation before. But before anything came of it, I thought about what I could be throwing away. I was the married party in this situation and I had a wonderful wife and family. A one night fling just wasn't worth it. My wife would never have found out about it but I would always know. I'm am so glad I made the right decision.

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[HordeKing1]

The married pary contracted to be faithful to his spouse. The person he or she desires made no such commitement. If a married person seeks extramarital sex it is a very good indicator that there are serious problems in the marriage.

If a married person and a single person have sex, the fault lies entirely on part of the married person.

However, that doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. Ask yourself, do you want to get involved w/a person who would betray his or her spouse? Do you want to be the catalyst for the dissolution of the marriage - even though it's likely to fail anyway do you want to be the direct cause?

I find it curious that when a married person (lets say umm, Frank Gifford) cheats on his wife with another person (lets say Kathy Lee) and they subsequently wed that either could be surprised when the other cheats on them.

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[HAMMERHEAD]

Look people, it all falls on the person in the relationship because if they can't stay faithful then it is not your fault your just trying to get layed.

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[Heavy]

Exactly

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[Raven]

I wish it was easy -- thought beer n fun would come hand & hand --- guess not

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[high fly]

...if they can't stay faithful then it is not your fault your [sic] just trying to get layed[sic].

You DO merit blame if you willingly do something that is destructive to others, whether or not it is their idea, no matter what your motive is.
Cheating is disgraceful and dishonorable.
Doing it, encouraging it, facilitating it-- these are all wrong.

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[jocefus]

if they do cheat w/ u, whose to say that she wont cheat on you....

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