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[PotentialIsZero]

i have a situation i don't know how to resolve, and what i should do. My main question is: if a chick tells you she's going to call you back the next day, and ends up not calling you back, is there an amount of time i should wait to call back, or should i just not call back at all and hope she'll call me back.
See, the thing is that, i've lost A LOT of people from my life because they said they were going to call me back or something and never did, and me being the way i am and maybe not wanting to come off as desperate (which i really am, but i hide it well), i never called them again. The thing this time, is the fact that this chick now is awesome, she's about everything good i've ever wanted, and i dont want to pull the same shit i've done all along; plus she's got pierced nipples, i LOVE the pierced nips. i don't want to be a bother or anything to her, and be the one always calling her. So, should i wait a certain amount of days to call her back, even though she said she was going to call me, or should i just grudgingly let her go?

Theres just something about crazy girls thats just so F-ing hot.
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[sr71blackbird]

As long as she has those nipple rings, Id keep after her....just kidding, I think you could have left that part out and it still would have been a compelling question. What I have found is, with women, if you have a date with them, they expect a call the next day. Maybe you can avoid it by saying "I'll give you a call tomorrow", this way, the burden is on you as opposed to them. Sometimes I've found that they dont call you becuase they dont want to appear desperate either!


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This message was edited by sr71blackbird on 8-24-03 @ 10:19 AM

[Arienette]

i think you should call her. forget all the stupid dating etiquette and games. that stuff is a bunch of crap anyway. she should have called you back, but she didn't. while it may be a sign that she's not that interested, a million things could have happened that could explain why she hasn't called you. if you're as interested in her as you seem to be, don't let her go over something so stupid as a phone call. call her and see what happens. if it becomes a pattern of her not calling you back, then maybe you should end things. but it seems a little premature at this point.

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[Katylina]

A lot of people I know are notorious for not calling you back ::coughinkycough::. It's just that they get busy and do not realize they are hurting your feelings. Call her, and see how she responds. Then, if she doesn't call you back after that, find another girl with a clit ring instead ::coughinkycough::.

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[silera]

This isn't serious.



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[fluffernutter]

Oh the humanity!

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If you IGNORE the IDIOTS and don't respond, THEY WILL go away.

[Doogie]

This isn't serious


I was hoping for a nice testicular cancer story myself...

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[Jackie Sloan]

Call her once. If she answers and seems interested, ask her out. If you get voicemail and she doesn't respond...MOVE FORWARD, MOVE ON. If she's into it she'll call, if not...that speaks for itself.

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[mdr55]

CALL HER UP ALREADY and see how it goes. Talk to her straight out, and leave the games and rules at home.

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[high fly]

She may have lost your number or something. give her a day, then call when you know she'll be there.If she's not there, leave one, ONE message for her to call you.
If she doesn't, move on.
She may not be that great after all. Believe it or not, there are some, some hot chicks out there, even a few with the pierced nips, that are absolute hell to be with.

Try not to sound desperate.

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[Reephdweller]

Don't make the mistake of following supposed rules of ettiquette. Call her, especially if you feel about her the way you seem to.

Keep us posted.


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[FUNKMAN]

give her a ring...

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[shifkik]

Don't be Billy Staples about it. If she calls act like it was unexpected. If not, move on and don't dwell on what could or could not have been. Life is to short my nizzle.
Be cool or you'll spook all the cats and chicks!!

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[samnyc]

Why don't you pierce your own nips? That way you will always remember her and you don't have to worry about the phone game.

[Johnny Fontane]

Call her when you know she's not home, and leave a light and breezy message like "I can't live without you - and I won't let you live without me."

Chicks dig that.

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[FUNKMAN]

call and ask her if she likes Prince Albert in the can?


now that's hot.... ouuuucha

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i must've picked a bad time to be in love...

[PotentialIsZero]

i just called her and she kind of blew me off. Oh well, i should have expected such, i guess i have more karmic debt.
Normally i wouldn't have asked the question of you, but i've lost all social skill after the self-imposed isolation of 2+ years, i didn't know what i should do anymore. Now i know, i should have just gone back to my old ways, and let her go. Now i know, and now i go back intro the shadows.
By the way, all i meant by it being serious was that this wasn't some sort of joke shit, just that i needed advice.

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[FUNKMAN]

try not to make it so complicated. you met a girl you liked and you wanted to take her out, it's simple, no crime committed.

now you know where you stand and you move on. she should be flattered.

keep plugging away and something will land...

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[stickyfingers]

so what...so far you've said that she's awesome and has pierced nips...these are qualities that make for a strong relationship not...when you say that a girl says she's gonna call you back the next day does that mean that you just exchanged phone numbers with her for the first time...you hardly even know her. Don't sweat it.

But, you should lose this whole phobia of the phone. Uncomfortable phone conversations suck so just relax and call people. It doesn't have to be an hour conversation just something to say hey I'm here. I'll bet you are the same type of person that plans out a conversation before it actually happens. That will throw you off more than anything b/c it never goes how you plan it. This isn't a personal attack, I am speaking from experience. I used to be the same way. People have come to expect me not to call them back. I am wierd that way.

I would be interested to know why you went into 2+ years of isolation..and how it went

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[PotentialIsZero]

Well it was as i actually thought, i knew there was a reason and it was this, she had this friend (guy) that were really close but never did anything, but alas i come in the picture, and he discovers his love for her. Call me fucking Cupid on this one, i brought them together, yea me. Anyway, i posted the question with the original thought in my head, but was hoping for something different, there was no phone phobia, or etiquette involved, i just thought maybe my mind could have been wrong; but as Kerouac said, "first thought, best thought."
Mr. StickyFingers, actually isolation wasn't that bad, but as a lot of other things, it takes some time to get used to, at first it sucks, but when you get used to it, its not that bad, things like this situation don't arise often when your by yourself. And at this point, after so long, i have no skill in any of it anymore, so i can't really go out into the sunshine.
The part that pisses me off about all this though, is the fact that i had some great wooing going on, i was writing some great stuff, i wrote a hell of a beautiful poem, by accident. Now its there, haunting me.
Well, its time for me to go back into the darkness, and hide.

Tonight i walk these halls- studying the cracks in the walls-- to die internally, to die eternally.

[Johnny Fontane]

I hope her nipples get infected.

Hope that makes you feel better.

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[sr71blackbird]

Uh, dont think hiding away is an answer friend. If you have anything to give someone, why squirrel it away when there are plenty out there (without body piercings) who might want your kind of oddness. Its like those crystals that grow inside geodes. Pretty, but hidden in an ugly rock. When you hide yourself away, who are you punishing? The women or you? Whats more important? I fear your desire at isolation is a self imposed torture on your part because you feel inadequet for some imagined shortcoming. Ignore it and smash that geode's outer shell and expose those crystals to catch the eye of some passing fair maiden.
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[FUNKMAN]

get a Prince Albert and ask her if she likes it in the can, dammit?

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[detzvin]

Don't worry about this chick and her games! Besides, I think I dated her already, the whole "call me" episode seems vaguely familiar! Trust me though, Amanda's pierced nipple is Hot but her emotional pain is just to deep! You are lucky you got out when you did! I think I stopped talking about your situation after the first sentence. Hmmmm..........

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[high fly]

Shove a can of Prince Albert up her butt.

Don't sweat it. Stop moping around.
Hey, you got a good poem out of it, that's good.

Chix pick up on the lack of confidence, so do something you can be proud of, something that gives a sense of accomplishment.

You'll be fine.
Don't just sit there, move forward.
Ready?
Okay then, Troops! Forard HARCH!!!

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