Pock marks made me ugly

[ToxicGarden]

I have an ugly face and it's really starting to hinder my social life & sex life. At my age a grown man should not have pock marks. I am tired of the snickering behind my back.
It looks like someone took a cheese grater to my face or something. All I want to do is travel the world and someday be a daddy, but with this moon surface face of mine I'm afraid this will never come to be. Maybe I should use sandpaper & just scrub down to bone? Please help.
I am tired of being ugly.
The End.

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[FUNKMAN]

sorry to hear it... i believe plastic surgeons or dermatologists have been able to do wonderful things for this condition. take a look into it

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This message was edited by FUNKMAN on 5-17-04 @ 7:28 PM

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

Tox,

Yes, go to a dermatologist. There are procedures like peels and scrubs they can offer.

Hang in there! And don't beat yourself up!

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[walking joint]

All I want to do is travel the world and someday be a daddy, but with this moon surface face of mine I'm afraid this will never come to be. Maybe I should use sandpaper & just scrub down to bone? Please help.


well i can't give you any advice on the travel part, as i've only left the east coast once...and i only went to Las Vegas.

my younger brother had chicken pox when he was 16 and got them bad. he had some bad scars for a while, but they went away. the only problem was that while he had them he got made fun of and in his head they didn't go away. he went for skin abrasions(i believe thats what they are called) and when he got back it looked exactly like someone sand papered his face. a few weeks later when all the scars went away his face was exactly as it was before he had it done...no marks, but he still saw something and went back a second time. he went as far as to grow his hair long to cover his face and for a few years we really only saw his nose. i'm saying this only because maybe it isn't as bad as you think. maybe people aren't really snickering behind your back and i would hate to see anyone go through what my brother did. he is now 26 and over the face thing, but has so many other hangups that it frustrates me. ask someone you really trust to give you an honest opinion and be prepared to hear the worst. but if they tell you something totally different than what you see, maybe it is psychological and you should look into talking to someone.

i'm sure there is that someone special out there for you...it may not be a Cindy Crawford, but someone. don't get down on yourself, because it won't help the matter. if it is a bad case maybe you should look into the plastic surgeon route, but only as a last resort. and again this is only my opinion...being the handsome man i am i've never had these thought so i don't know how else to help.

[reeshy]

I've got some pock marks from a bout of teenage acne years ago....I don't let it bother me....I do alright in the lady department.....It's the attitude and personality that will win all...and if that don't work....I just open my fly and let the six and a half pounds of love muscle flop out and let that do the persuading for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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[HBox]

I have the same problem, although not as bad. Although I had bad acne as a teenager and still get it occasionally thanks to the wonderful drugs I'm on, it's not from that. I had AWFUL AWFUL AWFUL AWFUL chicken pox as a teenager, so now I got a couple permanent craters on my face, and 4 huge red cellulite bumps on my back. I've got some red marks on my face from that that are just now starting to fade, only 6 years later. And, oh yeah, I'm very pale so that just accentuates everything.

But, frankly, I have much bigger problems to worry about.

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[sr71blackbird]

When you see some of the neanderthals that walk into a room with a pretty girl on their arm youll know that its not what you look like that attracts people to you, it is what you are that they like. Look at Mick Jagger, women fawn over him and he looks like he spent about a year under water. I use to get down on myself because Im balding and then I saw that some women are attracted to that. It is when you appear to overcome your physical limitations and still shine that attracts people. People will vote for Kerry and he looks like a prune. I use to work with this guy that had this lazy eye and pockmarks on his face but he was so damn funny and cool, everyone liked him and he had a hot wife, so you gotta get over how you look and concentrate on making yourself a magnet personality wise.

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[newport king]

try growing a beard? and as a dad, its cool and all but i just want to sleep. note the time of this post.

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[Mike Teacher]

When you see some of the neanderthals that walk into a room with a pretty girl on their arm youll know that its not what you look like that attracts people to you, it is what you are that they like.


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This isnt a Dis, and I'm doing it from memory, but Ron was talking about this very thing, and how, and he is Dead-On right, at least from my experience, and seeing a few thousand relationship interactions in my life:

"Its Condfidence. Chicks Dig Confident guys. I look like half a retard [i forget the exact self-dis], but I've had a chick on my arm since I was 14, and have ALWAYS had one, because of the confidence."

And I am a huge flirt. Fuck it; I pathologically Hetero and love women. And I'm also Shy As Hell. So Shy I cant stand the silence. So, like yesterday, I'm at a record store, and there's a chick, and so, exactly because I'm so shy and cant stand the silence when she's near me, I gotta make something up, and over sheer time and repitition, I found out: Its Not what you say at All, It's saying it with Confidence.

Even if its a Tony Soprano like 'Hey, Howya Doin' I think [ladies? Help!] like that. An acknowledgement, hey we're both in the same part of the store, and i'm not gonna pretend you dont exist [this is a viable option; i just dislike it], so I'm going to give a 'Hey' and say just matter-of-fact, and move on.

Like a Tractor Beam, baby!

Whirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......

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