Evilpete
05-18-2004, 07:35 PM
Here's my story about long-distance relationships:
I met this girl form Ohio online over 1 1/2 years ago. At first it wasn't a big deal, more just a friendly thing. After a few months things started getting more serious. Everyday we'd talk either on IM or the phone, and no matter what bullshit I was going through, just hearing her voice made me feel better. Now, I wanted to go out to see her for the longest time, but things kept coming up (personal health problems, no money to go to see her due to major expences, etc.) One of the major reasons at one point as I chose to commit my time to helpung out my aunt with Parkinsons Disease and cousins since my uncle was in the hospital for the last 2 months of his life. I drove my aunt to and from the hospital and to do her errands. now I CHOSE to do this and told this chick why I couldn't see her at the time, and she thought I was a good thing for me to do and understood.
Now fast forward to 2 weeks ago. I finally have some money to go out and see her. I was about to tell her I'm all ready to drive out and be with her and tell her all the feelings I have for her and how special she made me feel, then she drops a bomb on me: she started seeing someone for the past month.....she says she started seeing someone since she was fed up waiting for me to see her, and she upset I didn't ask her to come to NYC and see me. I didn't because I felt I should be the one to go and see her first.
So now I have no chick, and I feel all alone. Last night I thought about all the reason's this is my fault. I should ahve seen here when I had the chance or asked here to come out and see me. I also regret not telling her how special she was to me earlier, I thought she knew how I felt by the way I talked to her, sent her gifts, etc. But what I told her was somethng I should have told her months ago. After I got off the phone with her, I realized all this is my fault and haven't felt good since.
Why am I saying this here? I don't know....maybe I just wanted to vent. Maybe I want some people to learn from my mistake and tell that special someone how special they make you feel everyday and make time to be with them come hell or highwater. Maybe I'm even saying this to get pity from some of the females on the board here.
Man I need a beer or a hug
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I met this girl form Ohio online over 1 1/2 years ago. At first it wasn't a big deal, more just a friendly thing. After a few months things started getting more serious. Everyday we'd talk either on IM or the phone, and no matter what bullshit I was going through, just hearing her voice made me feel better. Now, I wanted to go out to see her for the longest time, but things kept coming up (personal health problems, no money to go to see her due to major expences, etc.) One of the major reasons at one point as I chose to commit my time to helpung out my aunt with Parkinsons Disease and cousins since my uncle was in the hospital for the last 2 months of his life. I drove my aunt to and from the hospital and to do her errands. now I CHOSE to do this and told this chick why I couldn't see her at the time, and she thought I was a good thing for me to do and understood.
Now fast forward to 2 weeks ago. I finally have some money to go out and see her. I was about to tell her I'm all ready to drive out and be with her and tell her all the feelings I have for her and how special she made me feel, then she drops a bomb on me: she started seeing someone for the past month.....she says she started seeing someone since she was fed up waiting for me to see her, and she upset I didn't ask her to come to NYC and see me. I didn't because I felt I should be the one to go and see her first.
So now I have no chick, and I feel all alone. Last night I thought about all the reason's this is my fault. I should ahve seen here when I had the chance or asked here to come out and see me. I also regret not telling her how special she was to me earlier, I thought she knew how I felt by the way I talked to her, sent her gifts, etc. But what I told her was somethng I should have told her months ago. After I got off the phone with her, I realized all this is my fault and haven't felt good since.
Why am I saying this here? I don't know....maybe I just wanted to vent. Maybe I want some people to learn from my mistake and tell that special someone how special they make you feel everyday and make time to be with them come hell or highwater. Maybe I'm even saying this to get pity from some of the females on the board here.
Man I need a beer or a hug
<img src="http://members.aol.com/evilpete66/images/hooliesig.jpg">
<marquee><b> IM me at Evilpete66 or I will be force to perform a "Tony Danza" on 'yo ass!!!