Why would my boyfriend look at porno of young girl

[no_purpose]

I recently discovered my boyfriend had been looking a young girls having sex with each other, I'm talking about children, these girls looked 12-14 years old. He is 37, I'm 34. I know it is normal for men to look at porn on the internet, movies and such, and I really didn't have a big problem, until I saw the number of web pages he viewed. In one day he visited at least 25-50 porn sites of women and young girls. I have a niece who will be 13 in a couple of years and he has 6 nieces from ages 15-5, I am concerned and feel ashamed to even talk to him about what he had did. I don't think I can ever forgive him? Really wanted advice from men, if I am wrong or over-reacted, tell my why?

[WindowSill]

Yeah um...I believe those web sites are considered illegal and your boyfriend could go to jail on pedifialia(sp?) charges if he were to get caught...no I dont think you are overreacting...

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[ChickenHawk]

25-50 porno sites is nothing to worry about. When surfing for porn, between pop-ups and bad links, your history is gonna look like that. I know from personal experience.

However, the fact that they were 12-14, simply means your boyfriend is a kid toucher.


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[no_purpose]

Thank you, now tell me how I approach him with what I saw, the most disturbing site he visited was called , I think, April.com, ever heard of this? Other sites "teens, blonde and legal" they sure didn't look of legal age to me. It has made me sick not mad, just sick and disgusted to the point I can not look at him, I thought I could face him to talk about it this morning after he came home from work, but I had to leave. He asked what he had done, I could not respond for crying, then he asked "did you see something on my computer?" I said yes and left, please help me, I feel I have no purpose in his life now and want to feel he would not hurt his neices or other young girls.

[canofsoup15]

Yeah the amount of porn isn't a question here, it's easy to get that much history from even visiting 5 actual sites.

You should first check to make sure that these girls are that young because if they are it could be a serious offense. I don't think they could be that young (websites often have a tendency to lie), but if you are sure then you should talk to someone. If not talk to him, at least notify authorities.

I think it is important that you talk to him, slowly and in a controlled environment. Just don't let things go out of hand and you both do something you might regret.

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[no_purpose]

I don't think these were pop-ups, his media player appeared and these videos were played. These leads me to believe that he downloaded them and watched, could I be wrong?
He also watched as a woman was recorded having sex with a person she obviously did not know, she was willing, but she cried through the whole thing.

[ChickenHawk]

Wait a second, "young & legal"? Screw that... if they were 18, it's all good. Don't worry 'bout it.


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[canofsoup15]

Porn like that is not uncommon on the internet, again, I wouldn't worry too much about the type of porn. Just the fact that he is looking at the porn, and how that might affect the relationship.

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[DESERTEAGLE.50]

I He also watched as a woman was recorded having sex with a person she obviously did not know, she was willing, but she cried through the whole thing.



Well, that part is just sexy.
The other stuff is bad, bad news.

I find it odd that when he came home and you were upset the only thing he could think of was you seeing something on his computer.

That leads me to believe the videos might be as illegal as you fear.

If true, and even though he doesnt deserve it, you should give him an opportunity to torch that comp before you leave his ass.

Or, double check that shit, report it, and his ass will be leaving you.

To me, that kind of shit would be a deal breaker.

But I must say, on the other hand, there is porn out there these days where the girls are definitely 18, but they are made to look and act really young.

Reputable and legal porn sites will always have info on their compliance w/ legal regulations and some such. Look for that first.



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[no_purpose]

Not at all, I am very attractive, confident woman, whose loves sex. Just not with little boys. I want a man not a little boy and would not enjoy watching a child having sex.

I would have no problem at all find another boyfriend, this I know. Many in fact, many are waiting in line. BUT,

I love my boyfriend. I am not jealous of his viewing preference, but rather very worried and disgusted. You obviously share is taste in little girls, what kind of sick
freak are you?

[Tenbatsuzen]

I love my boyfriend. I am not jealous of his viewing preference, but rather very worried and disgusted. You obviously share is taste in little girls, what kind of sick
freak are you?



You're playing with fire, troll whore. I'd advise you change your course of action immediately.



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[no_purpose]

just answer the question? troll whore, can't you come up with something a little more dramatic, you have me shaking in my chair, HA!

[Tenbatsuzen]

just answer the question? troll whore, can't you come up with something a little more dramatic, you have me shaking in my chair, HA!



Let's analyze.

- first post is a deeply personal problem

- you post it in the wrong forum

- the way it's posted sounds distinctly like spam or a website plug.

- now you're instigating.

Here's the problem: Your boyfriend is not satisfied with you. He probably finds you ugly and needs to close his eyes while fucking you because he doesn't want to look at your cottage cheese ass and gap-toothed mouth. He'd rather fantasize about some hot young teen.

Your posts are a call for attention, probably because you are such an ugly cunt and you REALLY need to ask someone who gives a rat's ass, because personally, if you're as annoying in real life as you are in the span of five posts on a goddamn message board, the guy you're with would probably be a porn addict as well to get away from your fucking inane blather.

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[Tenbatsuzen]

You know what this thread needs? Hot teen girls to counter balance the annoying whore.

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[furie]

oh come on. she's almost 18.


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[furie]

i'm curious why no_purpose chose to sign up to this board today and ask this question. why this board? is your pedophilac boyfriend a R&F fan?


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[WindowSill]

And uh...just how old does your boyfriend like em?
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[WindowSill]

And furie has a good point...whats your deal lady?

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coward :)


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coward :)



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[furie]

i take it back.


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[WindowSill]

coward :)



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Comedy gone TOO far...

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[Tenbatsuzen]

i take it back.



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[furie]

no_purpose, questions? comments?


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[Tenbatsuzen]

no_purpose, questions? comments?



The lesson to be learned:

If you're going to troll the board, it may not be a good idea to mess with the guy who's a little off-balance to begin with.



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If you're going to troll the board, it may not be a good idea to mess with the guy who's a little off-balance to begin with.[/quote]

I wouldnt say you're off balance- Id say you're a prick. She has a problem and just asked for some advice. Lay off.

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[keithy_19]

I personally find it disgusting, with little girls having sex.

Just a question, if someone my age watches two teenagers have sex, is it still kiddy porn to me?

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[Tenbatsuzen]

She has a problem and just asked for some advice. Lay off.



Dude, are you kidding me? The beginning of this thread is wrapped in so much troll bullshit it's mindboggling. Why the hell would someone's first post - within a day of joining the board - be about this? Why post it HERE? Too many things don't add up.

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[canofsoup15]

Attention Whores? Thats my line damnit.

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[no_purpose]

Sorry about posting to the wrong place, wasn't trying to annoy anyone. I have obviously touched on a subject that has many sides.

My point was the fact a man of 37 years of age is watching children having sex. If some of you find this okay then you are intitled to your opinion, as well as, I am mine to find it sick and disgusting.

I thought just maybe I might get some insight and understanding of why this would occur, but was very, very mistaken.

I will not post again, not because I am scared (ie troll whore; what joke), but because this sight is a waste of my time and effort.

Thanks to those of you who tried to help.

Fuck you! to those who have no stimulating, intellectual comments.

[keithy_19]

Um...toots...You didn't post int he right place for intellectual and stimulating comments...

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[furie]

Fuck you! to those who have no stimulating, intellectual comments.



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[sr71blackbird]

I am willing to give the girl the benefit of doubt here. But I also do not like attacks like this on someone. I say give her a chance and just answer her as you would a "regular" and dont read too much into it.

If I were you, Id just ask him why he is looking at that stuff and let him know it really bothers you and unless he actively looks into getting help, that your out of there, because you will always have a doubt about him when you have a young girl over or something.

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[Tenbatsuzen]

OK, here's the standard answer for EVERY SINGLE FUCKING PERSON WHO NEEDS TO POST THEIR IDIOTIC SHOCK-VALUE PROBLEMS AND THINKS THEY CAN SHOCK THE WORLD.

IF YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH SOMETHING THAT SOMEONE DOES, DON'T FUCKING BRING IT UP ON A MESSAGEBOARD, TALK TO THE PERSON IN QUESTION.

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[Duke]

god leaver her alone she just wants some advice

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[sr71blackbird]

I agree its a little foolish and a bit odd to suddenly become a member and make one post about something personal. I can see why some might see it as suspicious too. But that being said, the name calling and personal attacks like this really do rub me the wrong way, maybe it's a part of me that old fashioned and feels a need to defend a woman who's honor is being discredited. (Im sitting here trying to think the name of that word that sums up that tendency of men who do this, but my minds going blank) Chivalry? I dont know.
Anyway, what Im trying to say is we, as a "board" should really try and welcome new people and give them a chance. She didnt really say anything that gave me the impression that her guy might be on here or anything. Maybe she had no other way of getting a read on what she should do and turned to us in desperation, who knows?

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[Tenbatsuzen]

Although I did offer incidenary advice that she wasn't being sexy enough for her partner, she was the one who accused me of liking kiddie porn. I warned her. She ignored the warning.



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[clsmlm]

I got to agree very strange first post. I first got the idea maybe it's a guy who likes being a kid toucher and wanted some people to say it's okay. and for that website she mention saying it was underage crap, anyone check that out to see if she's really just spamming. I'm not going to check it out because incase it really is a bad site. I'm too scared. and a fact a man with a computer will soon find porn, and then most men get bored with it and just leave it

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[TheMojoPin]

Tenbats, it IS a weird first topic for a new member, but try and wait until they actually "prove" for sure they're a troll before you jump all over them.

If they really do turn out to be trolling or spamming, enjoy...but let's shoot for the benfit of the doubt when they first show up.

People can come here and start talking about almost anything they want...nobody HAS to introduce themselves or say "hello."

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[silera]

I'm so glad this complete stranger brought this subject up.

I am also dating a 37 year old man, and am SO insecure about our relationship that I check on his internet activities and found that he TOO has been looking at child porn on the internet.

I assure you that I am not a fat hog with fucking bunt and no future, and am probably the best thing that ever happened to him, but I need your help. You, STRANGERS, that I know nothing of, and will never meet. Please tell me that I am right and he is a pig and I am better off without him.

PLEASE, IM me personally and privately and offer to console me so that I can get over this heartbreak.

Thank you.



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[sr71blackbird]

I can see a guy of any age appreciating a young lady as attractive and sexy, but I think if he is looking at girls in their early teens, that there is a problem with his fascination. I have noticed in the malls that girls around 12 years old are dressing up like sluts and wearing make up and shit and it bothers me that their parents allow it and that they are choosing to find that look appealing. That thread Jon made about the rubber band sex bracelets seems to illustrate the same point. Why are parents trying get their kids to mature faster than nature intends by forcing their innocence to be terminated by allowing this behavior? I think there are a great number of parents out there that are not really acting as adults themselves and arent really fit to be parents. They look at their children as peers. I see women walking around with their young girls and they are talking and giggling like they are the same age! I see men who dress up and act like little boys. I believe on Ron and Fez they discussed this once, how in the 40's and 50's photos of men and women at baseball games, the men had fedora's on and wore suits to the games, women in dresses and hats, but now grown men are dressed up like players, with face paint and going nuts like a kid. I think there is a natural part of adults that wants to stay forever young, but we have lost the class we once had as a culture and I think it will only hurt the kids. Kids look to adults for guidence on how to act. They see us acting like kids and treating them as peers, and they have no respect for adults, nothing to aim for and emulate. Its sad. Its also no wonder why these other cultures see us as deviant and wish us harm.

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Before you do anything, the first thing you have to do is talk to your boyfriend. Communication in relationships is essential. It seems you have more issues then his interest in pornography. I would try to find out of these girls are 18 and over as well. If you think about guys obessions with teen girls, i.e. Olsen twins, you may see where the interests are rooted.

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[schmega]

where's all this hostility coming from? are we not BUDDAYS!?!


no, apparently not. you can gather a lot about people from what they write, but in the end, a lot of us are still strangers to each other, and the internet fosters that. this is a serious problem no_purpose has here, real or not. a public message board is as good a place as any to get advice, simply from the sampling of people it offers. this board's as good as any when it comes to smart and funny posters. but its also got way to much cynicism that turns caustic sometimes.

no_purpose, you better find out if those are children he's watching. and if they are, get him help before he does something awful.

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[Tenbatsuzen]

To clarify, I found the porn site that was being referred. It's not april.com, but something similar. And although the girls are extremely young LOOKING, the 2257 is there, which means they are legal.

Personally, I want my porn looking like porn, so I like huge fake tits... and this site ain't my cup of tea.



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