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[Gvac]

Just a few days ago, HordeKing spoke at length about the varying degrees of pain that people are feeling about the recent attacks on America. Some people are remarkably resilient, others a bit slower to heal, and some are so devastated, they must seek physical and/or mental treatment to relieve the agony.

I'm still not sure where I fit into the whole mix (I'm hoping I'm somewhere in the middle), but we can't forget about those in the latter category. These are, for the most part, human beings with hearts so pure and beautiful, they cannot comprehend the evil they witnessed just a week ago. They have been left psychologically and emotionally scarred and damaged, and if you have been praying for the victims lately, I ask that you count these people among them the next time you do.

I've got someone very dear to me who falls into this category, and despite the pain and turmoil she is going through, she goes out of her way to keep me smiling and laughing. I hope that in some small way that brings her some happiness, no matter how fleeting. She is in my thoughts constantly, and I ask all of you to keep her and others like her in yours, too. Thanks a lot.

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This message was edited by gvac on 9-19-01 @ 7:14 AM

[Captain Rooster]

Well GVAC

We will keep you, your friend and all of the country in our prayers, and thoughts.

On piece of advice that I can give to all of the members is - face your fear. We acn't REINFORCE behavior that will cripple us in our everyday lives. For example - Not going to work because you work in a large building, not going to the city because of the attack, not going to ballgames because there are large groups of people. If we give into these fears we are telling our psyche that avoidance of the situation is the only way to live. The fact is - we will cease to be a member of society and this country if we hide from the fears. We can't do this alone. Help your neighbor out when they are afraid. Lead by example and show the world that we will not be afraid.

Read: PSALM 27

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[Girlfezzie]

My heart and good wishes go out to her. I have a major anxiety problem in addition to severe depression.Because of these past weeks events I have had difficulty in sleeping,eating and my panic attacks have gotten worse. I am going to be on medication soon. That will hopefully help. Maybe counseling and medicine will help your friend out. I completely understand her and empathize(sp) with her. She needs to heal on her own time and no one elses.

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[HordeKing1]

GVAC - I feel for your friend. She and others like her are close to my heart.

I have to disagree with Lt. Rooster. "Facing your fear," may work for some people at some times. Right now, there are many, many people who are just not ready for this.

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[HordeKing1]

GIRLFEZZIE - You're not alone. Many people with prexisting conditions have suffered increases in symptomatology.

Utilize whatever support structures you have; your friends, family, shrink, and religious leader if you're into that.

Remember though your reactions are not unusual.

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[Gvac]

Girlfezzie, you sound a lot like my friend; you're in pain and yet you're more worried about others. You must be a pretty special person, too. I hope you start on the road to recovery soon, we need more people like you around! Any time you want to vent or just have someone to talk to, feel free to contact me. My IM name and e-mail are both posted in my profile.

Thanks a ton, Rooster, for offering prayers to my friend and I. It means a lot to me that you would take the time to think of us. You're one of the good ones.

Same goes for you, HK. I know prayers aren't your thing, and that's fine. Saying that you can empathize and that my friend is close to your heart is comforting, and very, very touching.

And finally, I want to say a special thanks to JustJon. You are an amazing guy, and all class. Believe me when I say you are greatly appreciated.

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[Girlfezzie]

Thank you Gvac and Hordeking. I am in the process of finding a therapist but so far no luck. I have no insurance and my money is tight.So I have to remain by myself. I try very hard to open up to my buddies. But I can't. I feel that I am burdening them. Everytime I feel overwhelmed( which is many times) I freeze up and cant make that call or write that e-mail.My parents dont understand and tell me that all this is in "my head".I have to be honest here and tell you that I am really suffering and I hope it eases up.Thank you for caring.

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[Gvac]

I have to remain by myself. I try very hard to open up to my buddies. But I can't. I feel that I am burdening them.

No one that cares for you would ever consider your feelings and emotions a burden, Girlfezzie. Please believe me. Most likely, they feel hurt that you won't open up to them.

I wish I knew some way to convince you that you would feel a lot better if you would share your pain, Girlfezzie. Don't let it eat at you without a release; you've got to get it out. Tell you what - open up an e-mail to me gvac.mindspring.com

Pour your heart out. Write down every bit of anguish and pain you are feeling. Then, when you're done, if you want, send it along. If not, delete it. Either way, you're gonna feel a lot better. And I swear by all that I hold dear, I would love to hear from you, and would never, ever consider it a burden in any way.

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[HordeKing1]

GIRLFEZZIE - How will you be able to go on medication for your anxiety and depression if you can't see a therapist?

Most therapists, will charge on a sliding scale according to your ability to pay.

If you can open up to your freinds it will be helpful, but not a substitute for therapy and/or medication. Don't hesitate to call on your friends for support. That's what they're there for. Friends don't feel "burdened" by helping a friend.

You wrote, "My parents dont understand and tell me that all this is in "my head". It amazes me how many people tell me this. The reason is rooted in a problem with the parents, not in you. Parents like this tend to think that their kids are simply narcissitic extensions of themselves and thus "cannot" have anything "wrong" with them.

GIRLFEZZIE, if you want or need to talk, e-mail me.


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[Pootertoot]

I think I know this woman as well, and I wholeheartedly agree that she is a wonderful person with a beautiful heart, an empath beyond anything I've ever seen before. I only wish that she could turn this around somehow. In the meantime, this is for her...

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gvac, my good man, I know what category you fall in in the varying degrees of emotion: Drunk.

I think that's pretty much true for any situation. THREE MONTHS!!!

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[Girlfezzie]

Thank you both of you ( damn I have a tendancy to always say thank you or I am sorry..lol) I have already seen a Psychiatrist.She will been able to give me a prescription and I am going back to see her next week.But they havent signed me a therapist yet.Right now I am struggling to pay the medication. I can only have one or the other.I just have too many issues to write all down but I will take note that if I need someone to talk to. I can contact either or both of you. Thanks

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[Girlfezzie]

Awwwww. How sweet. Thanks pooter. I LOVE animals especially Puppies.

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[HordeKing1]

GIRLFEZZIE - Pharmacutical companies give medications (yes for free) to many people who cannot afford them.

The prescribing dr, should call and get a form from the company, fill out his or her part, give it to you to complete and then send it in.

Through this process, a few people who would not otherwise have been able to afford medication were successful in obtaining them.

And there is no need to say sorry or thank you.

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