On Love

[Gwen]

How can I be in a relationship and be very much in love, satisfied, happy, etc, but still have secret crushes?

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"Don't worry if the Sun don't Shine. You've seen it Before. You don't Need to Worry."

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

(Psssssst! Hey Gwen!! Over here!

It's ok! You're human! There's
nothing wrong with finding
appealing qualities in someone
of the opposite sex. You'd be
"dead" if you didn't find
other people attractive! Of
course, it's a totally
different story if you act on
your impulses. If you feel
totally compelled to flirt and
"act out" then maybe, and this
is only my opinion, it's time
to re-evaluate your feelings
toward your significant other.)

Love is not always easy! Good
luck!

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I wish I loved the human race; I wish I loved its silly face; I wish I liked the way it walks; I wish I liked the way it talks; And when I'm intoduced to one; I wish I thought, What jolly fun!

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[HordeKing1]

GWEN - I've been very happily married and in love for over 16 years. I'm also human, as is my wife. It's natural to look, wonder, and even to fantasize.

Crushes, etc are not problematic as long as they are not pervasive (occuring all the time and in place of the relationship).

If they are, then, as Alice pointed out, it's time to reevaluate the depth of your "meaningful relationship."

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