Getting Help

[keithy_19]

I've been thinking, I should really probably talk to someone. My doctor said I would possibly benefit by going to see a shrink. I just don't know how to do it. This may seem like the boy who cried wolf, but I think I really should. I don't like waking up thinking about if I'm going to be able to walk the next morning. I'm not looking for sympathy or anything, so if you want to disregard this,, fine. But if you have any helful info, I would be very grateful. It's kinda hard for me to ask my mom and dad, or tell them what I'mf eeling(i know its like that for every teen, but still...)Thanks.

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[BoondockSaint]

Well, I think because of your age you're going to have to tell your parents. I don't know your parents or how they will react, but therapy is expensive but should be covered under the insurance policy your parents have.

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[Mike Teacher]

Never a bad idea to seek advise and talk to someone. You may want to google and look for some places with 800 Numbers that can give you all sorts of info, maybe start with talking to someone on the phone.

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And at your age, I'd be more worried if you Didn't feel like you feel. I know you have individual circumstances, but it's a tough age anyway, so hang in there, bro.

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[JohnnyCash]

Talking to someone is a good idea if you fell like you need some help. Talk to your folks and tell them how you feel. It shouldnt be hard for you. Any parent that sees their kid going through hard times would want to help them in any way they can.

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[bigbaldirish]

i don't think anybody would like to know that one day they won't be able to walk, and the fact that you deal with it without help is a great thing.
but not the best.
why don't you see the school shrink first, that's what they are there for.
they'll be able to deem if it's it whiny teenager years ( we all had em, it's not a knock on you buddy) or if it's treatable, and will tell you if you should go to the psychiatrist or psychologist.

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[mdr55]

Did you get into an accident???

[TheMojoPin]

Just gotta parrot what's been said so far...talk to your parents about this ASAP! Like it's been mentioned, they'll need to factor in the costs and see what the deal is with your family's insurance...plus, they'll have a better idea than you as to who to seek out. Also, I'm surprised your doctor didn't refer you to anyone specific. You might want to try asking him if you see him again.

Keith, hang in there. People make take shots at you in here, but this is serious stuff. You've got our support, budday.

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[Recyclerz]

Also, I'm surprised your doctor didn't refer you to anyone specific. You might want to try asking him if you see him again.


I vote for this. Make your doctor do his/her job. You are owed this. If you don't like the therapist you're referred to, then worry about finding one on your own.

Good luck.



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[Jack_Doff]

Sorry to hear you are down Keith. You were sounding better and I hoped it was going to be more permanent, but it's important to remember that there are many peaks and valleys and if you feel down, there's a chance that tomorrow could be better. Talking to a professional, in my opinion, would be great for you. From your post, it seems like you might not be comfortable talking to your parents about everything (still true for me at 27), so having another adult to talk to, who won't judge, would be great. You should ask your doctor for suggestions, but what's really important is that you find someone who you click with and feel comfortable with. Try a bunch. Many medical plans these days cover mental health as well as physical. And you seem to want to do it, which is the first step in these situations. Good luck, let us know how it turns out.

[high fly]

Keith,
Nothing wrong with just talking to a mental health pro.
You might just hear a thing or two that are all you need to set things in perspective and help you find some answers.
Like with a car - sometimes you take it into a mechanic and the thing is making some horrible noise and come to find out it's something really minor.
And, if you need a lil' more work, then hey, good thing you went in and got it taken care of.

You've got to get past that kinda funny self conscious feeling about seeing a shrink and just go on in there.

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[keithy_19]

I know people who go, and they say(as well as what I see)it works wonders for them.

I wanna try to work things out myself...I've been trying for awhile but I'm going to try extra hard the next few weeks before school.

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[reeshy]

Keithy,

I know a little about your medical situation....you probably have medical insurance..if your Dr.adviced Psychiatric intervention..go for it...I've had therapy before and it really helped.....feel better!!!!

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[keithy_19]

Thank you Reeshy, it means a lot. :)

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

I agree with Reeshy, go for it. It will make you feel better.

My bit of advice-- if you don't like the person, don't stay with them. It will avail you nothing. You need to like the person you see in order for it to work. Don't feel bad if you don't like them; dump 'em and move on.

And congrats on the girlfriend. Take it easy, take it slow. Relax and have fun!

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[keithy_19]

Thanks.

As I stated in another thread, I broke up with her. But I found out this other girl likes me, so whatever.

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[Lumber]

Thanks.

As I stated in another thread, I broke up with her. But I found out this other girl likes me, so whatever.

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[fiestygal]

i am not trying to brush this off lightly but everyone goes thru something like this in their life

dont feel like you are "weird" or "different"- meaning dont be ashamed


its really good that you want to seek counsling- some people would just fight it and be in denile

at least you wanna take initiative

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[Jennitalia]

you really should talk to your parents about it and find a psychologist. there's nothing to be ashamed of. the mor e you keep things inside, the harder it will be to deal with it. it will be difficult at first, but this will probably be the best thing for you.

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[keithy_19]

I talked to my today. She said if I wanted it, it was fine with her. Something I didn't expect.

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[Jennitalia]

im assuming you meant you mom or parents...and of course, why wouldn't they want to do what they could to help you? see??? wasnt so hard

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