how do you deal with heartbreak

[AngelAmy]

for about 3 weeks now ive been going through some tough times

my boyfriend of 11 months told me he wasnt happy, for certain reasons i guess i cant blame him for-for privacy i wont get into details

i loved him with all i had, and still do to this day--it kills me that it's not the same between us and probably never will be ever again

i've had time to sit and think and think and think about everything--bout the good times, the bad times, what he has said to me, and what i have said to him

most of those times were happy times and it kills me that all that is soon going to be over

i know most of you are going to say"youre young, there will be others", "there's more fish in the sea", "he wasnt good enough for you" etc etc. but i dont want to hear that--i dont want anyone else but him

have you ever been in love with someone and they were in love with you but in a split second for one reason or another all that you had changes? then you know how i feel right now

ive been having a hard time dealing with all this
i wrote some poems, but what good is that going to do
ive talked to so many people and everyone says something different to me

how did you deal with your heartbreak?
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QUOTES:
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I've never felt true happiness till I met you, but I never felt true sdness till you left me

I promised my heart that this was the last time I would hurt it...and you came along...again I broke a promise

I always knew I would look back on my tears and laugh but I never knew I would look back at my laughter and cry

I wish that when I gave my heart, I could see whether or not they kept it or threw it away

I wish I was young again...because skinned knees are easier to heal than broken hearts

It was never love that broke my heart, it was losing that love that tore me apart

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone--but it takes a lifetime to forget someone


I AM ANGEL AMY =)
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[Gvac]

Amy, I wish with all my heart that I had some magical cure for you, or at least had some special words to ease the pain, but alas, I do not. No one does. I think you know yourself that time is the only thing that can heal this wound, as unlikely as it seems now.

I lost a couple of women that meant the world to me at one time, and it hurt like hell when I did. Today, I look back fondly on my relationships with them, and one day, you will too. I'm sorry this sounds so trite and predictable, but it is true.

Hang in there, kiddo.

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[CYYYFYYY]

Been there done that... The
only thing I can say and I
know it is corny Time heals
all wounds.....Also I always
recomend that you don;t talk
to you ex.... but most people
do which I think is always a
mistake......


David the Franchize
Let them eat Cake!

[HordeKing1]

AMY - If you ever forget, look at your shoulder and recall that you're an angel.

Don't blame yourself for his actions (or lack thereof).

(Hugs)

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[Dirtybird11]

run out and get laid ASAP!


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[FezWad]

I curse scream and beat the crap out of pillows.....

Fez: How'd this dresser survive without a scratch? This must be some strong wood! Ron: Hehe, you said "strong wood"

[TomPoo]

3 things to help.

1) Don't talk about this with everyone. I am sure you have 2 or 3 people in your life that you value there opinions on, therefore speak to them.

Everyone is going to have an opinion on this and you DON'T need to hear everyone. Talking about it with everyone will only emotionally drain you further. Rather than talking to 50 people talk to a few whose opinions matter.

When something like this happens to me I usually talk to 3 people, my best guy friend, my best girl friend, and another friend who is completely not involved in the whole situation so I can have an objective view.

2) Don't do anything that will remind you of him. Don't look at pictures, don't go to places you two use to hang out at alot together, etc.

I am not saying forget him... but after you have come to terms with this breakup, you can reflect on your relationship, right now however, all your doing is wallowing and that is not healthy.

3)Go out with your friends, and have a good time... what ever that is (for me it would be a handle of Capt Morgan and my favorite shot glass)

REEKING of AWESOMENESS
----TomPoo

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[reeshy]

get drunk and then get laid...then drunk again.

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[erinmoran]

Become a slobber knobber..it works for me...

Seriously...im sorry...i hope my advice worked for you when we chatted...

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This message was edited by erinmoran on 10-8-01 @ 9:06 AM

[Dirtybird11]

GET use to it kid, this world is full of lying, back stabbing people that will rape your heart and piss on your pride..
*dont let that spook you, thats what the terrorist want*

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[JustJon]

i know most of you are going to say"youre young, there will be others", "there's more fish in the sea", "he wasnt good enough for you" etc etc. but i dont want to hear that--i dont want anyone else but him
hmmm... she didn't say I caouldn't say he was a tool. amy, I met him before you did, and I could have told you you could easily have done better than him. But if you ever need someone to talk to, you know whereto find me (and I won't insult him or anything, if you want to talk)

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[Captain Rooster]

have you ever been in love with someone and they were in love with you but in a split second for one reason or another all that you had changes?


Amy - I had the love of my life leave me, because I left for 5 weeks of Military training!
5 f'n weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!

relax and deal with the pain - feel it - live with it - but try to live your life

If you try to go out and mmet people and have fun the pain will subside - It will take time ....give it that - you need to feel bad , but know that all will be worked out in the end.

wwwwwwwwoooooooooooo!!! that's from tha' Naytcha ROOOSTA' wwwwwwwwwoooooooooooo



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God Bless America!

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[adolescentmasturbator]

Watch pr0n. Suddenly your
problems aren't that bad
when you watch someone get
jizzed on by 3 people.


I will get a sig pic...eventually

[CruelCircus]

Bitterness, music, and withdrawl.



"This will end when and in a manner that we choose." - GWB
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[RF Godfather]

I go and watch old episodes of Steam Pipe Alley and dream of marrying Mr. Fabulous himself Mario Cantone... whoops, I was channeling Fezzie... my bad.

Anyway, Angel Amy... I think we all have been through this but just know that it's a learning experience and time will really heal all wounds.

Nevertheless, get drunk and bash his car in with the perverbial Triple H sledgehammer... I didn't say that, tell I didn't say that... Take care Angel.

PERIOD!

I'll get a new sig in due time...

[reeshy]

Amy,
I don't usually respond to affairs of the heart but something about your post tugged at me.
I'm nearing the end of my divorce proceedings with my wife. We have a son. I still miss them both but I have come to the realization that it is over between my wife and myself. We had a wonderful marriage together except, obviously, towards the end. I still care about her and will love her but I have to move on. We went through quite alot together and I credit her with pulling me out of a lot of insanity that I had created for myself.
But you know what- it's over. I had to learn that. And so do you-if you are keep your sanity and some happiness.
Life is tough and sometimes sucks but those times make you appreciate the good times even more.
Good luck and keep pushing through.
Reeshy.

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This message was edited by reeshy on 10-9-01 @ 9:46 AM

[babychanel]

Spend money on anything you want.
write a letter to him and don't send it.
realize everyone goes through this bullshit
think about ,what if you have children, while he has a wife and you have to see him for the rest of your life.
You will fall for someone else IIII PROMISE!!!!!
CRY and get it all out, no man is ever all that . They all have big time falts,trust me.
Tell as many people you can and you will see it's ok to feel the way you do. I know you feel alone but you just have feel this way for a short time. There is someone waiting for you who has felt just like you. It Sucksss so much, the pain is worse than a death!!!! I feel for you and I'm so sorry that you have to feel this way.
Love, D



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[BabyNicole]

Amy Hunni *Hugs* You
know i love you to
death....you know i'm
always here for
you....heartbreak is never
easy...My hearts been
broken before and i know it
will happen again. I loved
my ex with all my heart and
found out he was still with
his girlfriend of 4 years...i
cried and cried...i hate to
bring up bad blood but cls?
heartbreak at the worst.
You'll be ok...We all love you
girl and you'll
survive...*Hugs & KIsses*


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This message was edited by BabyNicole on 10-9-01 @ 1:16 PM

[TomPoo]

ya know, I just read baby, nicoles name, and I remember her going through something similar so I check out old threads and sure enough I found this:
http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/viewmessages.cfm?Forum=69&Topic=1268

its amazing I think I gave you pretty much the same advice I gave her, but there are some other good posts on that thread too.

REEKING of AWESOMENESS
----TomPoo

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"There's nothing more exhilarating than pointing out the shortcomings of others, is there?"

[Dan]

Do what I did: go into a 8 month tailspin of drinking and depression and instant feedbacking.

I'm trying to get to 1000 posts in 4 hours. (1:00pm-5:00pm, Tuesday 10/9) And every post will contribute. Spladow.

[mrbungle]

This isn't where I usually excel, but I hate seeing you hurt...there's only one problem...if you truly loved him, it's gonna hurt for quite some time...An ex of mine broke up with me after 2 years, and it wouldn't be exaggerating to say it took me almost that long to TRULY feel normal again...

My advise? Have some fun...I'm sure you could find a few people to date, and that will help immensely...now, at the same time, I'm not telling you to go on an f-ing spree...just go out, date and enjoy a bit...when you're ready to get serious with someone again, you will be...hope you feel better soon...

It's not funny, my ass is on fire...