he's chosing his kids over me

[remi123]

<p>I need some advise</p><p>my husband (we are not actually married) but committed and living together.</p><p>Issue # 1 - he won't marry me because his previous 2 marriages didn't work out.&nbsp; Here is the issue</p><p>his 31 year old daughter is making herself and her 26 year old brother a birthday dinner.&nbsp; She wants the family there and specifically requested that her step mother (wife # 2) be invited and that I not come - well I have agreed to this scenerio for the past 3 christmases, birthdays of all 3 kids, etc - but I now feel enough is enough - and that I either be invited or my husband doesn't go.&nbsp; I know his daughter feels badly and we are invited to her house for dinner tonight - but I do not feel comfortable about going - any advise - please</p><p>Thanks</p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

<p>HOLY SHIT is that a lot of stuff to deal with. My favorite is:</p><p>Issue # 1 - he won't marry me because his previous 2 marriages didn't work out.&nbsp; Here is the issue</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Advice?&nbsp; Nope, sorry.&nbsp; I'm worrying about getting shows for my band and other things like that.&nbsp; I don't have NEARLY as many problems.</p>

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<font size="2">give him an ultimatum, guys love those things.</font>

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[Doctor Manhattan]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>Issue # 1 - he won't marry me because his previous 2 marriages didn't work out.&nbsp; Here is the issue <p>As Anthony of O&amp;A has said a bunch of times: &quot;Why would you marry again after a divorce&quot; This guy gave it 2 shots and it's not working. I wouldn't expect him to change his mind. If you need to get married you'll need to find a different guy. </p><p>Don't take it as an insult to you. Some people just shouldn't be married, and this guy sounds like he thinks he is one of those people.</p><p>Issue # 2 Family comes first (as said before) and as with Issue #1 if you can't get over it, then this isn't the guy for you.</p><p>his 31 year old daughter is making herself and her 26 year old brother a birthday dinner.&nbsp; She wants the family there and specifically requested that her step mother (wife # 2) be invited and that I not come - well I have agreed to this scenerio for the past 3 christmases, birthdays of all 3 kids,</p><p>Is wife #1 the mother of the 31 year old daughter? If Wife #2 is her step-mother and she wants her there, then it doesn't sound like a strictly Family-only deal. Do you and the daughter not get along for some reason? I could understand her just wanting family there.</p><p>Either way it sounds like a bad scene, I'd move on.</p><a href="http://www.xmradio.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://members.cox.net/nicksporsche/StarGuy.jpg" border="0" /></a>

<font color=black>This message was edited by SKW on 5-23-05 @ 12:40 PM</font>

[Death Metal Moe]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><font size="2">give him an ultimatum, guys love those things.</font> <img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/0903/dfaz11779/123456.jpg" border="0" />here I am, rock you like a hurricane<p><br />BA hahahahahahaaa!!</p>

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[torker]

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[spunkee]

one kid is 31 and the other is 26?&nbsp; seems liek you and the man are older..i never understood why older people got married.&nbsp; why go through all the shit of changing names and stuff... he must have good life and health insurance!

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<p>He musta been hurt 2 times before and he has had enough. And Family should always come first.</p>

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<p><font size="2">give him an ultimatum, guys love those things.</font> </p><p>And ask him if he thinks you're fat.&nbsp; Another question that guys love.</p>

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[Iamnotatool]

<p>She's fat, you can tell from how she types.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>He's not marrying you, because he already gave up half his shit.....twice.</p>

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[FUNKMAN]

<p>tough situation and no perfect solution... may be best not to fight it. just let your&nbsp;man know how you feel and let him decide</p><p>and when he goes to the party make sure you got a sugardaddy waiting in the wings...</p><p><img src="http://www.oldtimecandy.com/images/candypix-pages/sugar-daddy_small.jpg" border="0" /></p>

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<p>She's fat, you can tell from how she types.</p><p>He knows about these things.</p>

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<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><font size="2">give him an ultimatum, guys love those things.</font>That was funny! <p>&nbsp;</p><p>And I'm glad its not just me that hates that shit.&nbsp;</p>


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[IamFogHat]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>family comes first<br /><br />I have to agree.&nbsp; Although I will say this, the birthday thing I understand, the Christmas deal is a bit harsh though.&nbsp; Are you saying you don't spend christmas with your partner and his kids are adults?&nbsp; Can't he at least split up his time a little?&nbsp; But the birthday thing I get.&nbsp; Let them have their time there.

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