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keithy_19

08-10-2005, 07:09 PM

I like this girl who just got out of a relationship. We really have a lot of fun. We have fun and it's really great. I still haven't made a move on her. How much time should I give her before I make a move? She really likes that I'm a nice guy, which is why I haven't just dove at the oppurtunity and done something. I just really like her and want to do this right and not fuck it up. 

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canofsoup15

08-10-2005, 07:52 PM

Do it immediately. Don't make any big deal about it, do it off the cuff, real smoothlike (real horroshow). 

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ChickenHawk

08-10-2005, 08:06 PM

How much time should I give her before I make a move?
Long enough for the roofie to make it to her blood stream.

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marcpsych

08-10-2005, 08:47 PM

It sounds like you are in a situation that is really cool and exciting for you but also somewhat scary, in the sense that you don't want to bone things up and lose this woman that you really like, or scare her away by your forwardness.  Also, you probably feel that you don't want to stress her out any more that she might already be.  I am not in your shoes right now, but I have been in similar ones in the past.  What happened or did not happen to me may not be applicable to your situation, but I have some thoughts that might be helpful (keep in mind that these are my own biased and possibly chauvinistic opinions, but they are based on years and years of personal experience and many, many boneheaded mistakes by me and many friends and acquaintances). 1.  If you really like this girl, DO NOT wait to tell her.  If you do wait, and ESPECIALLY if you are a "nice guy," you run a HUGE risk of becoming the mayor of Friendville and never leaving office.  For many (but not all) women, esp. younger ones, once you are seen as the "nice friend," you are done for in terms of any hope at romantic or sexual action.  2.  Heed the advice of the talking vagina from the South Park movie: chicks dig confident guys. 3.  The longer you wait, the greater are the already high chances that she will find some other dude while you are trying to decide what to do.  Then since you are already the "friend" and don't want to be a dick and just leave, and you still hold out some hope that she will someday like you, you will have to watch her with this other guy and sit there while she constantly complains or brags to you about her new relationship, essentially turning you into her new girlfriend. 4.  If you tell her how you feel (or show her, in a romantic but appropriate way), and she decides to reciprocate, that is great.  If she rejects you outright, or tells you that you are just a friend, then you know she is not interested.  If she says that she is not ready for a relationship yet, then maybe she needs some time, or maybe she is not interested and is just trying to be nice (more likely).  But if she does like you in some way, she will probably let you know in some manner, either on her own or through hints from friends.  Women often hit guys over the head with their romantic intentions, and we guys STILL don't get it.  I cannot even count the number of times that someone I knew was basically asked out on a date by a chick and did not even perceive it.  5. You really have nothing to lose by telling her, but you have a lot to lose by waiting.  You probably will feel worse about losing this chick to another guy by waiting than by losing a female "friend" because you were too forward.  Don’t be afraid to kiss her and leave no doubt in her mind; if she’s not into it, fine.  That’s her right.  I would say be clear and decisive but respectful of her desired physical boundaries. 6.  It's good to be nice, and it's great to have true female friends who really are friends, but don't be a doormat or a crutch for this chick.  Don't let her cockblock you, either, because she needs someone around to make her feel better about herself or feel like the center of attention or feel "wanted."  Chicks who are your "friends" will often do everything they possibly can to make sure that you never get a girlfriend and instead keep them at the constant center of your attention.  This includes negatively evaluating any woman that you tell her about who you are interested in dating.  It is the rare good woman who will realize that she is not into a guy who is into her but is not acting creepy or stalkerish and then actually try to help him find someone else.  And if you think a chick you are friends with who perceives any romantic interest by you is going to set you up with one of her friends, even if she has no intere

keithy_19

08-10-2005, 09:11 PM

Thanks for the long well constructed points Marc.I told her how I felt.How I had feelings for her but was afraid by telling her our relationship would get weird. She told me she was glad I said something. She was feeling the same way I felt about her but she does have a lot going on and didn't won't to come out and tell me because of it. We always hug and she's great at it (so am I) and there not like wimpy hugs. They're full, close hugs for awhile, and we both feel something there. For the first time being my stupid self has worked. So I'm just going to keep on doing what I'm doing and hope for the best. I think the next time we hang out I'll make a move. 

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Gmann

08-10-2005, 09:16 PM

Shots help too!

kevcala

08-10-2005, 09:44 PM

quote:How much time should I give her before I make a move?  
 

 
 
"Three days is kinda the money."  Seriously, listen to marcpsych, he nailed it . . except it was a talking clitoris ;) 


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marcpsych

08-11-2005, 10:36 AM

Keith,I am glad that the situation seems to be working out for you.  It is good that you told her how you feel and that she apparently feels the same way.  I hope that things continue to progress in the direction that you want and that the relationship works out for both of you.  Take care.Marc

Jennitalia

08-11-2005, 10:46 AM

quote: Shots help too! so true. you let her know how you feel, so just continue to be there for her and be the good friend that you are while she's dealing with this.  You never know what may happen

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DarkHippie

08-11-2005, 10:48 AM

We always hug and she's great at it Awwwwwwwww

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FUNKMAN

08-11-2005, 12:01 PM

You say "neato"... check your libido And roll to the church in your new tuxedo The bride walks down just to start the wedding And there's one more girl you won't be getting So you start thinkin, then you start blinkin A bride maid looks and thinks that you're winkin She thinks you're kinda cute so she winks back And now you're feelin really fine cus the girl is stacked Reception's jumpin, bass is pumpin Look at the girl and your heart starts thumpin Says she wants to dance to a different groove Now you know what to do g, bust a move 

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terryc35

08-11-2005, 12:57 PM

quote: We always hug and she's great at it (so am I) and there not like wimpy hugs. They're full, close hugs for awhile, and we both feel something there. You are great at hugging her???  What's your technique, checking the oil?

mdr55

08-11-2005, 01:26 PM

You're not copping a feel when you guys hug? All you got to do is
plant a big wet one the next time you hug and get her reaction. Then
you'll know......but maybe you don't want to know. Nothing ventured,
nothing gained. Good luck.

DJEvelEd

08-11-2005, 02:51 PM

One month after your first kiss you should be knockin boots!!! No sooner, no later. Set your cock clock.

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Bulldogcakes

08-11-2005, 03:20 PM

Here's my 2 cents. The next time she hugs you goodbye, when she tries
to let go keep holding her. Look directly in her eyes and slowly move
in for a kiss. If she turns away, you have your answer. If she kisses
you, you have your answer, plus a healthy boner for the next hour or
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keithy_19

08-11-2005, 06:28 PM

I was going to kiss her yesterday. But she just broke up with the guy yesterday and I'm a pussy. And thank you Marcus for your well wishes. <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/drunk.gif" border="0" />Cheers to you. 

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fiestygal

09-01-2005, 08:24 PM

my friend gave this guy who comes into the pizza place i work at my number- YAY- because i was/ am a HUGE pussy god he is like the most sexiest (well in my standards) man i have ever seenunfortunately there is a pretty big age difference i just can never muster up enough nerve to make a move- so i guess i will just be a pussy for the rest of my life 

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Snoogans

09-01-2005, 08:25 PM

keithy, grab her and kiss her. when you get all worked up, use the Jay Mohr line. You either get blown or sued 

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Mars24

09-01-2005, 09:11 PM

I got some advice.  Like Jay Mohr says "Just pull it out and say, what are we going to do about this?" oh yeah, make sure you're sportin' wood.

Nice girl from a nice family. Nice girl from a nice family,she's a HOOKER!

mdr55

09-01-2005, 10:01 PM

quote:I
got some advice. Like Jay Mohr says "Just pull it out and say, what are
we going to do about this?" oh yeah, make sure you're sportin' wood.
Nice girl from a nice family. Nice girl from a nice family,she's a
HOOKER! Didn't they just ARREST THE DUDE FROM THE SUBWAY who was doing that recently?

Mars24

09-01-2005, 11:36 PM

quote: quote: I got some advice. Like Jay Mohr says "Just pull it out and say, what are we going to do about this?" oh yeah, make sure you're sportin' wood. Nice girl from a nice family. Nice girl from a nice family,she's a HOOKER! Didn't they just ARREST THE DUDE FROM THE SUBWAY who was doing that recently? Yeah, but this is a girl that he knows not some stranger.  I'll bet that she'll go for it.

Nice girl from a nice family. Nice girl from a nice family,she's a HOOKER!

high fly

09-05-2005, 10:17 PM

Try that move where you put two cigarettes in your mouth and light both at the same time, and eyes half lidded, hand her one, real continental-like.Just make sure you doan go an light the filter....

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