Seeing The Ex

[ShelleBink]

<p>Tomorrow I go back to work for a few weeks while I'm on break from college.&nbsp; I left there in August, a week before I was planning on leaving since my ex was going back to work there and they wanted to avoid any &quot;incidents.&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;Well, you can chalk me up for being a psycho bitch, and I think in this case it might be true.&nbsp; He and I had a terrible relationship where I was incredibly dependent and in short, the world revolved around him.&nbsp; He cheated on me, got his ex gf pregnant while we were together, but I still believed he loved me.&nbsp; Even after several episodes of physical abuse which landed me in the hospital more times than I want to remember wasn't enough to make me realize he couldn't give a shit about me.&nbsp; It was only after I called him and a girl answered saying &quot;He wants nothing to do with you&quot; which caused me to OD on pills and attempt suicide which landed me in the hospital for a good amount of time.&nbsp; The two year anniversary of that phone call and subsequent insanity is going to be on the 30th of this month.</p><p>Even after that, he left to go back to the pregnant ex, and we were in court battles that lasted until March of 2005.&nbsp; The last time I saw him he was still living in upstate NY and said &quot;I never want to be in Jersey again.&quot;</p><p>Turns out the gf left him shortly thereafter and he went back to his parents' house... in Jersey.&nbsp; And decided to go back to his old job... where I was still working ((and where we met)).&nbsp; This is why the bosses asked me to leave a week early.&nbsp; I ended up seeing the ex at a bar in September, but nothing came of it.&nbsp; <br /></p><p>Fast forward to now.&nbsp; The owner of this business asked me to come in to do some computer data entry and other IT-esque work while I'm on break.&nbsp; I took the job because I could really use the money.&nbsp; I'm just terrified of seeing the ex. Since realizing the possibility, I've just felt so sick -- vomitting and stomach problems that can only be stress related.&nbsp;</p><p>Since the work schedule for me is incredibly flexible, I might attempt to go into work after the ex has gotten his day's assignments, and leave before he comes back for the day. &nbsp;</p><p>I guess the point of writing all of this is to just get it out of my
mind.&nbsp; I can't really approach my family about this since they remember
what I went through with therapy, etc.&nbsp; My boyfriend is supportive, but
wary of the possible additional stresses or anything that this guy
might try to do to me.</p><p>So, is this really insane, or should I just tell my former boss to find another person to do the simple work and forfeit much-needed money&nbsp;</p>

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[EliSnow]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>So, is this really insane, or should I just tell my former boss to find another person to do the simple work and forfeit much-needed money&nbsp;</p><p>I guess it depends upon how much you need the cash.&nbsp; The situation is making you sick and unhappy.&nbsp; How much is that really worth to you?&nbsp; If you can do the work when he's not there that also makes sense, but can you be certain.</p><p>In the end, I think that the work is not worth all the anguish its causing you, but you have to know for yourself.&nbsp; <br /></p>

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[Tall_James]

<p>The money ain't worth the aggravation.&nbsp; Sorry to be blunt but it sounds like nothing positive can come out of this based on your past obsessiveness.&nbsp; Your interaction with this man is your addiction, much like alcoholism or drug abuse.&nbsp; You can't go back to (for lack of a better term) &quot;casual use&quot;.&nbsp; </p><p>Stay the fuck away from him.&nbsp; You'll be happier and healthier.&nbsp; Money comes and goes in life.&nbsp; Don't lose your sanity over a few bucks.</p>

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[Dougie Brootal]

that just sucks.wow.

[Doctor Manhattan]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>I might attempt to go into work after the ex has gotten his day's assignments, and leave before he comes back for the day.&nbsp;&nbsp; <p><font color="#006600" size="2">Do you really want to live your life around someone else's schedule? That would drive me nuts. Gotta move on.</font></p><p>&nbsp;<a href="http://www.xmradio.com/programming/channel_page.jsp?ch=202" target="_blank"><img src="http://scripts.cgispy.com/image.cgi?u=skw" border="0" /></a></p>

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[Jennitalia]

<p>You really shouldn't put yourself in a position where you may run into him.&nbsp; I would try to find something else.&nbsp; I totally understand how it is to desparately need money in college, so if getting something else isn't realistic, just see if you can arrange your hours so that you can avoid each other.&nbsp; </p><p>On another note, I'm glad to hear you're doing better, you're a sweet gal, and a cool chick.&nbsp; Don't let this bring you down.</p>

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[angrymissy]

<p> should I just tell my former boss to find another person to do the simple work and forfeit much-needed money&nbsp;</p><p>Yes.&nbsp; Squash the soon-to-come drama before it even gets a chance to start.&nbsp; I would not work anywhere where I had even a minute chance of seeing my ex.&nbsp; Find a different job.</p>

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I don't know Shelle.&nbsp; I hate the idea that you're altering your life due to someone or running away from someone.&nbsp; It's you life but I don't let other dictate what I do.

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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>I don't know Shelle.&nbsp; I hate the idea that you're altering your life due to someone or running away from someone.&nbsp; It's you life but I don't let other dictate what I do. <p><br />Amen Moe...Amen.</p><p>I agree with moe....FUCK HIM. Go and do your job and do not let him or any other ex you are a part of bother you or your life.</p><p>If he bothers you tell him to fuck off...you are there to work and that is it. If he makes any move on you let your supervisor know he is bothering you.</p><p>If he persists then file a complaint against him.</p><p>You are stronger now and are in a better place, you should be able to not take his shit anymore.</p>


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[ShelleBink]

<p>Well, after writing all of that, I felt a bit better... Holding all that in wasn't doing much good for myself either.</p><p>After careful consideration, and perhaps just a bit of stubbornness/stupidity, I'm gonna give goin to work a shot.&nbsp; In some screwed up way, by not trying, its like he &quot;wins&quot; again.&nbsp; As I said, I can use the money, but beyond that, if I really don't feel comfortable when I'm there, I don't have a problem telling one of the bosses that I can't do the job.&nbsp; The two co-owners are aware of some of the situation, but my manager knows practically everything.<br /> </p><p>That and, after the whole fucked up situation where I ended up in the hospital and we broke up, I did end up working with him for about 3 months after.&nbsp; It was hell, but I did it.&nbsp; Its a fucked up way of accomplishing something I suppose.&nbsp; I think most of this is just building up fear in my mind.&nbsp; But I know he isn't stupid enough to try and do anything to hurt me or bother me ((then again, his talking shit behind my back abruptly stopped after he had a conversation with my brother holding a baseball bat)).</p><p>I guess I'm just going to approach it with me going in with a job to do and that's it.&nbsp; Its a shame too because I like working there ((keep in mind, the ex wasn't there for a while in between the leaving me and coming back, etc)).&nbsp; I enjoy talking and joking around with everyone and it never felt like &quot;work.&quot;&nbsp; Its a shame I might just go in being one of those unhappy antisocial moody bitches.&nbsp;</p><p>Fuck, I hate overanalyzing shit like this.&nbsp;</p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

<p>I think confronting this and him head on is the way to go.&nbsp; Just go there and try your best NOT to let his prescence effect your normal work atmostphere.&nbsp; I think they best thing you could do is show him&nbsp;you're a person who comes in to work, jokes around with everyone, is comfortable where she is&nbsp;and doesn't really acknowledge that he's there except to talk to him in a work capacity&nbsp;if you even need to.&nbsp;</p><p>Also, if you REALLY find it's uncomfortable or anything else doesn't feel right, you can leave whenever you like anyway.</p><p>Either way, good luck.</p>

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[Iamnotatool]

Fuck him.&nbsp; Your new man should knock him out 2 times for hitting you at all in the 1st place.&nbsp; Pussies hit women.

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[Tall_James]

<p><font size="1">Fuck him.&nbsp; Your new man should knock him out 2 times for hitting you at all in the 1st place.&nbsp; Pussies hit women. </font></p><p><img src="http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c174/cheeseeatingbird/applause.gif" border="0" /></p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote:</font><font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana"> <p>Fuck him.&nbsp; Your new man should knock him out 2 times for hitting you at all in the 1st place.&nbsp; Pussies hit women. </p></font>Fuck him.&nbsp; Your new man should knock him out 2 times for hitting you at all in the 1st place.&nbsp; Pussies hit women. <p><img src="http://thereisnogod.faithweb.com/images/iamnotatool.gif" border="0" /> Please don't hold my huge nutbag against me, or I'll hold it against you that you have flapjack tits http://www.myspace.com/scottg25</p><p><br />Goddamn.&nbsp; I missed that in your message.&nbsp; He hit you?&nbsp; Not only that, he hit you to the point of hospitalization?</p><p>I'm glad you out of there now but you shouldn't have put up with even one time.&nbsp; You really need to remember that in the future.&nbsp;&nbsp;I can't even imagine staying with someone who was abusive, mentally or physically.&nbsp; No one is perfect and life, like relationships are about compromise, but there's some shit that is off limits.</p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

<p>This guy sounds like a perfect canidate for the 1st Annual Ronfez.net Blanket Party.</p><p>WHY WON'T ANYONE EVER TAKE ME UP ON THE OFFER OF A BLANKET PARTY FOR SCUMBAGS?!?!?!</p>

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[Bulldogcakes]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font>So,
is this really insane <br />Yes. <p>&nbsp;</p><p>Everybody
on this board has had an ex or two and has run into them from time to
time. The fact that this is still such an issue for you makes me think
you still need some help, that you haven't fully resolved this in your
own mind.</p><p>Personally, every time I've broke up with someone (or
if they broke up with me) within a week I was saying to myself &quot;What
the hell did I ever see in that person?&quot;. So I really dont get your
dwelling on this guy, especially since you're seeing someone now. <br />
</p>

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<font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><font size="1">Fuck him. Your new man should knock him out 2 times for hitting you at all in the 1st place. Pussies hit women. </font><p>&nbsp;</p><p><img border="0" src="http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c174/cheeseeatingbird/applause.gif" /></p>

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[FUNKMAN]

<p>one question that comes to mind is</p><p>why&nbsp;the&nbsp;heck is this employer willing to let this guy work for them when he is a known batterer and physical abuser of woman?&nbsp; maybe in some sick way they are taking his side of the story.&nbsp; I say fuck that employer and find work elsewhere...</p>

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[mdr55]

Maybe they don't know.<br />

[DJEvelEd]

<p>Maybe I'm too messed up on pills and I missed something in your story&nbsp;but couldn't you still sue him in civil court? People like this go through life bullying people around and you can slow his roll by garnishing his pay. ULTIMATE REVENGE!! Kick him in his moneysack.</p><p>Hating him will be more fun than loving him, believe me you.</p>

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<p>I think you should call him up, scream &quot;BABA BOOEY!&quot; at him about 20 times and hang up.</p><p>That'll teach him!</p>

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[DJEvelEd]

Then again, the time/energy you spend on your ex could be spent on your new bf.

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[jax]

I don't know maybe&nbsp;after all you've been through having to pick yourself up and work to get to a healthy place in your life it might be a good thing to see, face to face,&nbsp;the pathetic asshole&nbsp;who caused you all that grief in the first place.&nbsp;&nbsp;When&nbsp;you&nbsp;realize, after&nbsp;seeing him,&nbsp;you were so much better than that all along&nbsp;all you'll have left is&nbsp;pitty for him.&nbsp; You can truly move on and have the added bonus of feeling better about yourself.

[FUNKMAN]

<p><font size="1">Maybe they don't know.</font></p><p>from these statements i would say they have a good idea</p><p>And decided to go back to his old job... where I was still working ((and where we met)).&nbsp; This is why the bosses asked me to leave a week early.</p><p> The two co-owners are aware of some of the situation, but my manager knows practically everything.<br /></p>

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[newport king]

<p>i never understood the &quot;he cheats all the time but i know he loves me so i'll stay.&quot;</p><p>or</p><p>&quot;he smacks me around but i'll stay.&quot;</p><p>or</p><p>&quot;he means so much to me that if we break up i'm gonna make an attempt to end my life because life without this dope will be unbearable&quot;</p><p>i'm not saying you deserved ANY of it. but i'm sure looking back you feel like a bit of an ass the way this dope walked over you. thats why you're having a hard time deciding what to do...if its that hard, don't bother. ESPECIALLY if there's any sort of feeling left. (i only know you as a person on a messageboard but some girls i've known, liked to be treated like shit) </p><p>But if you don't have to deal with him in anyway, and just work under the same roof, and you think you can handle it, fine. good luck to you.</p><p>and as far as this:</p><p>My boyfriend is supportive, but wary of the possible additional stresses or anything that this guy might try to do to me.</p><p>one fucking&nbsp;WORD and the new bf should lay him out....tool got to it before i did, but this mother fucker should be uneasy that YOU'RE working there with a new bf and what may happen with that.</p>

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[Snoogans]

<font size="0" face="verdana" color="black">My boyfriend is supportive, but wary of the possible additional stresses or anything that this guy might try to do to me.</font>

<p><font size="0" face="verdana" color="black">one
fucking&nbsp;WORD and the new bf should lay him out....tool got to it before
i did, but this mother fucker should be uneasy that YOU'RE working
there with a new bf and what may happen with that.<br />
</font></p>
<p></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Im pretty sure enough people have figured it out, so i might as well. Spoon will be happy anyway, he can make his jokes now.</p><p>Im
dating Shelle, and you can bet your ass im fully prepared to take care
of business. i dont wanna have to hit people, but believe me she has
nothing to worry about if it has to come to that. The only thing i
worry about is what might happen if im not around and cant fix it that
minute.&nbsp; Like newport said, im sure i wont have to worry, cause im
sure he isnt that stupid. If he is that stupid, its been awhile since i
hit someone, so ill easily do it if i have to.<br />
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[spoon]

<p>Yah, this is the way I waiting for it to come out.&nbsp; As for the &quot;sure he isn't that stupid&quot;, his history proves otherwise.&nbsp; </p><p>In other news, Snoogans and Shelle get their hair cut together at Gucci Pooch!</p>

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<p>Snoogs,</p><p>i think the best thing would be for both Shelle and you to avoid this guy all together. if she really really needs the money maybe she can work something out with her manager and work different days or totally different hours. </p><p>it seems there would just be too much emotion/anxiety&nbsp;for Shelle to deal with just by her being near him even if he is not harrassing her. i would suggest finding a different job. </p><p>and as guys we want to be able to crush anyone who is hurting someone we care for but altercations can lead to problems for you such as being arrested, hurt, or sued. of course you have to physically defend yourselves if need be but again it would better to avoid him all together. she sounds like she has skills to offer and could land something elsewhere.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

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i doubt it will come to it, i was just stating if needed<br />


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<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>Snoogs,</p><p>&quot;...she sounds like she has skills to offer and could land something elsewhere....&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v53/monster6sixty6/guests/fm3_sig.jpg" border="0" /> That's what I hear Funk!!&nbsp; I keep telling Shelle I'm here for her.....&quot;needs&quot;, Justice style!!<br />

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[angrymissy]

<span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">Plus, if this guy physically assaulted you, you need a restraining order.&nbsp; You need to put a paper trail in place so it won't happen again, and so if&nbsp; it does, he will go to jail.<p>&nbsp;</p></span> <p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">Anyhow, in theory, going back to work there would show him you're strong, don't care, blah blah, but in practical terms, why bother?&nbsp; If he put you in the hospital, why chance it happening again?&nbsp; Why work somewhere that knows he did this, but still employs this guy?&nbsp; Shit like that would absolutely not fly anywhere I have ever worked, and I would definitely not want to work somewhere where it did.</span></p>

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[ShelleBink]

<p>Well, I'm here at work, and its definately not as bad as I was building it up to be.&nbsp; Haven't seen him once, and everyone is going out of there way to make sure that it stays that way.&nbsp; I don't want to see him, but like I said, when I did see him last, nothing bad happened.&nbsp; I'm not going to run around and be buddies with him, because that isn't realistic.&nbsp; He has his problem ((alcohol, drugs)) and is working through them.&nbsp; Last I heard he's marrying some chick ((she'll be wife #3)) and is getting on better terms with wife #1 ((with whom he has two kids with)).&nbsp; I just look at him and almost want to feel bad.&nbsp; 30 years old.&nbsp; 3 marriages, 3 kids.&nbsp; High school education.&nbsp; In and out of jail for abuse and not paying child support.&nbsp; </p><p>And all of you have realistic and logical solutions ((minus the goochie pooch)) but I have a feeling I'm doing the right thing.&nbsp; To go from being utterly afraid ((and sometimes still a little fearful)) to being at the point where I am ((happy, successful in college, and with a great guy)) is a sweet revenge.&nbsp; </p>

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[ShelleBink]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>i never understood the &quot;he cheats all the time but i know he loves me so i'll stay.&quot;</p><p>or</p><p>&quot;he smacks me around but i'll stay.&quot;</p><p>or</p><p>&quot;he means so much to me that if we break up i'm gonna make an attempt to end my life because life without this dope will be unbearable&quot;</p><p>This is a big thing to me, and by all means newport, you are totally right.&nbsp; I remember watching talk shows where the topic was abused gfs/wives and just thinking how utterly retarded all those chicks were.&nbsp; But when you're in the situation, logic and rationale is totally disregarded.&nbsp; I remember beating myself up ((not literally)) for a week for not telling him he looked attractive one day when he dressed up ((to go out, but not with me... ha.))&nbsp; When he and I started dating, it was perfect.&nbsp; I always thought that if I &quot;fixed&quot; myself and did what he wanted, it'd go back to that perfection.&nbsp; Its almost like being brainwashed.</p>

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<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">Plus, if this guy physically assaulted you, you need a restraining order.&nbsp; You need to put a paper trail in place so it won't happen again, and so if&nbsp; it does, he will go to jail. <p>&nbsp;</p></span><p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana">Anyhow, in theory, going back to work there would show him you're strong, don't care, blah blah, but in practical terms, why bother?&nbsp; If he put you in the hospital, why chance it happening again?&nbsp; Why work somewhere that knows he did this, but still employs this guy?&nbsp; Shit like that would absolutely not fly anywhere I have ever worked, and I would definitely not want to work somewhere where it did.</span></p><br /><img src="http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/angrymissy/newsig.gif" border="0" /> &quot;To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public.&quot; [ Theodore Roosevelt ] <p>You don't see how letting someone else control where you work is a bad thing?&nbsp; It's not big deal to let another dictate your life for you?</p><p>Wow.<br /></p>

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[ShelleBink]

<p>Well, I think I figured out what&nbsp;I wanted out of this whole situation, because I got it.</p><p>The &quot;Oh Shit&quot; look on his face.</p><p>Yea, this isn't going to be too bad at all.&nbsp; And that look was worth more than any cash amount.</p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

<p>Good.</p><p>Sometimes you just have to force life down and&nbsp;break it.&nbsp; Then fuck it RAW and make it your bitch.</p><p>Can't run from problems.</p>

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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><font face="verdana" color="#000000" size="0">My boyfriend is supportive, but wary of the possible additional stresses or anything that this guy might try to do to me.</font> <p><font face="verdana" color="#000000" size="0">one fucking&nbsp;WORD and the new bf should lay him out....tool got to it before i did, but this mother fucker should be uneasy that YOU'RE working there with a new bf and what may happen with that.<br /></font></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Im pretty sure enough people have figured it out, so i might as well. Spoon will be happy anyway, he can make his jokes now.</p><p>Im dating Shelle, and you can bet your ass im fully prepared to take care of business. i dont wanna have to hit people, but believe me she has nothing to worry about if it has to come to that. The only thing i worry about is what might happen if im not around and cant fix it that minute.&nbsp; Like newport said, im sure i wont have to worry, cause im sure he isnt that stupid. If he is that stupid, its been awhile since i hit someone, so ill easily do it if i have to.<br /></p><br />Don't worry...I gotcha back too Snoogs. I have known about this asshole too from chatting with Shelle before and I would be happy to hold him down while you kick the shit outta him.


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"You betcha!!!!!"
"That's disgusting"
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[newport king]

<p>Then fuck it RAW and make it your bitch.</p><p>if we're talking about Snoogans here, i concur.</p>

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[angrymissy]

<p>You don't see how letting someone else control where you work is a bad thing?&nbsp; It's not big deal to let another dictate your life for you?</p><p>Wow.</p><p></p><p>Personally, if someone beat the crap out of me, I'd avoid any chance of seeing them again.&nbsp; For some part time work it wouldn't be worth it to me, it's not too hard to find work in my field.&nbsp;&nbsp; Like I said, I also would not want to work somewhere that would employ someone like that.&nbsp; I'm not a big fan of conflict, that's just the way I am.&nbsp; It just wouldn't be worth the stress/hassle for me.&nbsp; JMO.</p>

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[JesterOfSadness]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><br />Don't worry...I gotcha back too Snoogs. I have known about this asshole too from chatting with Shelle before and I would be happy to hold him down while you kick the shit outta him. <img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v53/monster6sixty6/guests/j4a3_sig.gif" border="0" /> &quot;Did you catch all of that in your mouth??&quot; &quot;You betcha!!!!!&quot; &quot;That's disgusting&quot; &quot;Shut up and keep sucking!&quot; And if that doesnt help....I'll inject poison into his blood. RF.net folks gotta stick together :)<br />

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[spoon]

<p>How dare you Shelle!?!</p><p>Gucci Pooch is always good advice!&nbsp; Just ask all the Justice women.</p>

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[Iamnotatool]

Snoogans, Justice has my number.&nbsp; I might not show up for every card game, but I'll show up to smack the shit out of a woman beater.&nbsp;&nbsp; Especially a beater of an RNF.net woman.&nbsp;

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[mdr55]

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[Death Metal Moe]

Blanket Party maybe.......?

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[Death Metal Moe]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>You don't see how letting someone else control where you work is a bad thing?&nbsp; It's not big deal to let another dictate your life for you?</p><p>Wow.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Personally, if someone beat the crap out of me, I'd avoid any chance of seeing them again.&nbsp; For some part time work it wouldn't be worth it to me, it's not too hard to find work in my field.&nbsp;&nbsp; Like I said, I also would not want to work somewhere that would employ someone like that.&nbsp; I'm not a big fan of conflict, that's just the way I am.&nbsp; It just wouldn't be worth the stress/hassle for me.&nbsp; JMO.</p><br /><img src="http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/angrymissy/newsig.gif" border="0" />&nbsp; <p>I actually wasn't trying to be a douche for once with that &quot;wow&quot; comment.&nbsp; I am just not of that opinion.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Whatever makes you more comfortable in life is your choice.&nbsp; I just can't imagine letting someone who wronged me win.&nbsp; Imagine how good he might have felt if he found out Shelle was up for that job but turned it down.&nbsp; He's gonna KNOW it was because she might see this dipshit.&nbsp; </p><p>Best thing she could do to stick it up his ass is go to work, be happy and NEVER let his prescence affect him.</p><p>Then when she knows he's watching, totally make out with THE BIG SNOOGS.&nbsp; Like real nasty and sloppy, like in a bad comedy movie.&nbsp; <br /></p>

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[mikeyboy]

<p>Then when she knows he's watching, totally make out with THE BIG SNOOGS.&nbsp; Like real nasty and sloppy, like in a bad comedy movie.&nbsp;</p><p>Interesting analogy, because the guy who gets made out with for show in those movies is either a shy, ineffective, virgin feeb or gay.</p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

Why all the Snoogs hate?&nbsp; He always cuddles after I bang him.&nbsp; He's a good egg.

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[monsterone]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p>Just so you know, I carry a baseball bat and shovel in my truck. <img border="0" src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/devil2.gif" /></p><p> </p><p>You don't need to know why.<img border="0" src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/innocent.gif" /> </p>

<br />you also have a cast and a couch, you psycho.<p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>and my advice would be to kick him in the uterus. &nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>or maybe in the testes 'til they're all up inside like a post op trannie&nbsp;</p>

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[ShelleBink]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>Then when she knows he's watching, totally make out with THE BIG SNOOGS.&nbsp; Like real nasty and sloppy, like in a bad comedy movie.&nbsp; <p>haha... funny you mention this because&nbsp;Snoogs and i are going to this company's holiday party ((all the bosses invited me -- free food and open bar -- you can't go wrong)).&nbsp; I thought of what it might be like to have both the ex and Snoogs, and realized... who the fuck cares.&nbsp; i'm gonna go to the party to spend time with my friends that i work with, not sit around sulking in the corner while one person tries to ruin my good time.&nbsp; And when I drink and dance... its a good time.</p><p>PS-- Other than one slight issue yesterday afternoon, the ex has been rather civil.&nbsp; I figure as long as he doesn't provoke anything ((considering he hasn't in almost 2 years)) and I do my best to just not provoke him, then it should work out for everyone.&nbsp; </p><p>And if he does provoke anything, I'll be sure to give&nbsp;you guys&nbsp;his address, a photo, and the make/model/license plate of his car for you guys to do whatever you'd like :o)</p>

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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>Snoogans, Justice has my number.&nbsp; I might not show up for every card game, but I'll show up to smack the shit out of a woman beater.&nbsp;&nbsp; Especially a beater of an RNF.net woman.&nbsp; <p>Seriously Tool....at this rate we will have a mob of people going down to Shelle's workplace looking to lynch this guy.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Hey...if we get two more people does that make us the....ok..here it comes.........</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Justice League?</p><p>Just a thought.<br /></p><img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v53/monster6sixty6/guests/j4a3_sig.gif" border="0" /> &quot;Did you catch all of that in your mouth??&quot; &quot;You betcha!!!!!&quot; &quot;That's disgusting&quot; &quot;Shut up and keep sucking!&quot;

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[Snoogans]

I really thought you were going KKK joke based on the Lynching and needing a few more people<br />


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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>I really thought you were going KKK joke based on the Lynching and needing a few more people<br /><p><br /><img src="http://mensnewsdaily.com/blog/parks/uploaded_images/kkk-744765.jpg" border="0" /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&quot;Black people....are so scared.....of white hooded people&quot;</p>


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"You betcha!!!!!"
"That's disgusting"
"Shut up and keep sucking!"

[Iamnotatool]

<p>THE most shocking thing in all of this is that an eyebrowless pantywaist like snoogans actually gets laid!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I'm proud of ya kiddo, finally gave up on cock.&nbsp; Shelle is a cutie too man, congratulations.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>By the way, nothing like an open bar and a new boyfriend to get the ex all fired up, I'm thinking fireworks at the holiday party!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>PS.&nbsp; Shouldn't the &quot;holiday party' have been nearer to the 'holiidays'?</p>

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[Justice4all]

<p>Uh oh...according to Hosp I should be hitting on her since she is someone else's girlfriend now.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Better lock her up from me Snoogs!</p><p><img src="http://www.shoestringtravels.com/art/Leering%20wolf.gif" border="0" /></p>


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"Did you catch all of that in your mouth??"
"You betcha!!!!!"
"That's disgusting"
"Shut up and keep sucking!"

[Snoogans]

Dont worry, I'll take down ANYONE I need to<br />


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[Iamnotatool]

good, you take justice down, I'll watch Shelle for you.

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[ShelleBink]

<p>Yea, the holiday parties&nbsp; for this company used to be in December, but due to a few snowstorms ((which resulted in not getting a deposit back)) they just switched it to January since its cheaper or something.&nbsp; There's probably less complaints because of it too because most people would miss the parties if they were in December ((either because of family things or going to their spouses' company parties)).&nbsp; So, I guess it works out for the best... doesn't matter all too much to me, 'cause of open bar... although they've let me drink at these things since I was 18.</p><p>To go back to the topic for a short time, I think a lot of the reason why I am back there is because I feel like its something I have to prove; but beyond that, its a company of mostly macho-guys... and they never treated me like the &quot;helpless girl&quot; ... I got the same treatment as everyone else.&nbsp; I duno, I think not going back there would have been a pussy move by my part.</p><p>As for questioning the management for hiring someone with such a questionable background, I can't really throw stones.&nbsp; I got in plenty of legal trouble as a teenager and they never held it against me.&nbsp; They gave me a fair job and I made an okay amount of money.&nbsp; The downside with the ex is that he is good at what he does, and a lot of his family and friends works there as well.</p><p>I really don't know why I'm defending the ex, I know I shouldn't.&nbsp; I'd like to think that he's possibly a decent guy somewhere or at least trying to fix himself because for some reason knowing I was used, abused, lied to and completely mistreated by an asshole doesn't make looking at the past any easier.&nbsp; There are plenty of people who have gone through things far worse than me.&nbsp; Yet, the silver lining is how that situation has caused me to work hard and end up where I am today -- great bf, good friends, scholarship, etc.</p><p>&nbsp;I'm just relieved that this whole situation is working out a lot better than I had anticipated.&nbsp; Something about just knowing I have done so much to make myself better and proven to myself that I can face someone I feared makes me proud.&nbsp; </p><p>&nbsp;</p>

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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>good, you take justice down <br /><img src="http://www.pclibrary.org/SRP/SRP04/bruce/audience.jpg" border="0" />


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"You betcha!!!!!"
"That's disgusting"
"Shut up and keep sucking!"

[spoon]

<p>Is that the picture of the kids you tried to molest but couldn't bc you were crying to hard after they laughed at your inchworm?&nbsp; </p><p>One of the kids was quoted at the scene, &quot;My 2 month old sister has a bigger penis!&quot;&nbsp; Statement made amidst many laughing tots.</p>

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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>Is that the picture of the kids you tried to molest but couldn't bc you were crying to hard after they laughed at your inchworm?&nbsp; </p><p>One of the kids was quoted at the scene, &quot;My 2 month old sister has a bigger penis!&quot;&nbsp; Statement made amidst many laughing tots.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Ummm...No.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>But thanks for playing.<br /></p>


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"You betcha!!!!!"
"That's disgusting"
"Shut up and keep sucking!"

[Snoogans]

Tom, why unfunny things. that was a great line by Spoon you just killed<br />


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[ShelleBink]

<p>Agh! The headache continues... and before anyone goes &quot;I told you so&quot; I realize I brought this upon myself.</p><p>He attempted to make conversation by commenting how &quot;great&quot; I look now.&nbsp; I just stared at him and thought of how great I look considering I'm not covered in bruises or bandages. &nbsp;</p><p>He looks like he aged about 15 years since I last saw him ((in September)).&nbsp; He just turned 30 but looks like hell.&nbsp; I don't know why, but a small part of me still wants to swoop in and &quot;help&quot; hime or &quot;save&quot; him even though that's just foolish to think... considering that's what I did when I got back together with him time after time ((and later found it ironic that he blamed me for all of his problems)).&nbsp; I have no reason to do anything for him.&nbsp; I barely even have to acknowledge him, but I don't know what it is about me that still feels the need to show compassion to people even after they've hurt me so badly.</p><p>That's the other thing.&nbsp; When I see him, I remember the good times.&nbsp; Its only after he's gone is when I remember the ambulances, the hosptial visits, the bandages, the therapy... all of the things that constituted my hell.</p><p>Whoever said that this guy is my &quot;addiction&quot; really was accurate.&nbsp; I remember when I was in the hospital for the last incident I told one of the doctors that I'd only feel safe if I knew he was dead.&nbsp; I really don't consider myself vengeful towards him anymore, but I am realistic enough to know that no good can come from being around him.&nbsp; Luckily I'm strong enough and have more self esteem than I used to.</p><p>It really makes me want to volunteer at a women's shelter or do something of the like.&nbsp; I can't imagine what it would be like if I had to try and go through this alone.&nbsp;</p><p>Sorry, needed to vent again.&nbsp; And by no means does this mean anyone has to hurt this guy or &quot;warn&quot; him... and by no means does this even suggest that i'd try and be with this guy again.&nbsp; not after what its cost me.&nbsp;</p>

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[spoon]

<p>Hey Shelle, What should a woman do first thing after leaving a women's shelter? </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>The fucking dishes if she knows what's good for her!!</p>

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[Death Metal Moe]

<p>Shelle, you have to learn who's worthy of your pity and who's not.&nbsp; I am guilty of that too.&nbsp; I see someone and feel sorry for them for whatever reason.&nbsp; But they're a bad person or bring the situation on themselves.&nbsp; Those people aren't worthy of my pity.</p><p>Don't let this fucking piece of shit effect you.</p>

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[Bulldogcakes]

<p>Geez, do you have unresolved issues about this guy or what. <br />
</p><p><font size="3"><font size="1">THERAPY</font></font></p><p><font size="3"><font size="1"><font size="4"><br />

THERAPY!!</font><br />
<font size="6" /></font></font></p><p><font size="3"><font size="1"> </font></font></p><p><font size="3"><font size="1"><font size="3"><font size="6">THERAPY!!!</font></font><br />
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[Snoogans]

unless you wanna eat a couple fuckin fists BDC, you better watch the tact in which you say things to certain people.<br />


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Oh come now Snoogans.&nbsp; Just because she's your girl doesn't mean we can't joke around with her.

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[Snoogans]

BDC isnt joking. He is being a dick<br />


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<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>BDC isnt joking. He is being a dick<br /><img src="http://scripts.cgispy.com/image.cgi?u=Snoogans194" border="0" />&nbsp;<p><br />Well if he isn't joking he should indeed shut the fuck up about therapy.&nbsp; But I feel he may have been joking.</p><p>Or is this some sort of bullshit Sports Thread argument spilling over again?</p>

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[Snoogans]

Why is it of such concern to you, Moe, nothing in it had to do with you, relax.<br />


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[Death Metal Moe]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font>Why is it of such concern to you, Moe, nothing in it had to do with you, relax.<br /><img src="http://scripts.cgispy.com/image.cgi?u=Snoogans194" border="0" />&nbsp;<p><br />Very relaxed here actually.&nbsp; Just posting my opinions and responding to threads like I always do.&nbsp; Asking questions, replying to stuff.</p><p>It's in public.</p>

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[Bulldogcakes]

<p>I was half kidding. But anyone who reads her posts can see she still
has unresolved issues (she's said so herself) and I think she should
try to deal with them somehow. And there's no shame in going to therapy
if you need it. <br />
</p><p>And I understand Snoogans being a little overprotective about
this. I'm cool with that. If I were him I'd probably have a hair
trigger myself. &nbsp;</p><p>Peace bro. &nbsp;</p>

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[Snoogans]

I wasnt mad about what you said, just the manner in which you did it.<br />


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[mdr55]

<p>Good lord. You people throw out therapy like it's the answer to
everything. Something wrong, you need therapy. Having a bad day-
therapy. Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't--more
therapy . etc. Etc. Everyone has unresolved issues in their lives.
Heck, some things need to be unresolved--it's not good to know what you
don't need to know.<br />
</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I don't think Shellebink needs therapy. It seems to
me that she has things going on for herself in her life. Sometimes we
all over-analyze stuff that it makes a situation bigger than it is.
Shellebink appears to have significant insight into the stuff that she
experienced in the past, the stuff she's experiencing now and sharing
with us here that I think she'll be okay.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I'll save
the real therapy for the people that I'll be working with tomorrow. I
don't like thinking when I'm at home trying to relax.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>So I'm back to being stupid.....So Snoogans......is um......your girl hot? <img border="0" src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/wink.gif" /><br />
</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>Good lord. You people throw out therapy like it's the answer to everything. Something wrong, you need therapy. Having a bad day- therapy. Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't--more therapy . etc. Etc. Everyone has unresolved issues in their lives. Heck, some things need to be unresolved--it's not good to know what you don't need to know.<br /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Thank you.</p><p>Therapy and drugs.&nbsp; I think they've probably caused more problems than solved.&nbsp; What happened to self reliance and inner strength?</p>

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[Snoogans]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><font size="0" face="verdana" color="black">So I'm back to being stupid.....So Snoogans......is um......your girl hot? <img border="0" src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/wink.gif" /></font><p>&nbsp;</p><p> </p><p>STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP</p><p> </p><p>one Tom is enough, thanks </p>


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[angrymissy]

I am going to try and say this in the most tactful way possible.&nbsp; You are overobessessing over this guy.&nbsp; You can't keep him totally out of your life even though it is within your control, and you are getting a rise out of every time you have a confrontation or discussion with him.&nbsp; Your best bet is to take control of the situation and cut ties completely.&nbsp; I've seen this happen before with two of my friends years ago, and it never turns out for the best.&nbsp; One of them finally cut it out.&nbsp; Did not answer the phone when he called, changed her number and does not acknowledge him anymore when she sees him in public.&nbsp; When I asked her why she let it drag on for so long, she said she became addicted to the drama.&nbsp; Take a step in the right direction and cut this person out of your life. <br /><img src="http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/angrymissy/newsig.gif" border="0" /> &quot;To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public.&quot; [ Theodore Roosevelt ]

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[spoon]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>Good lord. You people throw out therapy like it's the answer to everything. Something wrong, you need therapy. Having a bad day- therapy. Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't--more therapy . etc. Etc. Everyone has unresolved issues in their lives. Heck, some things need to be unresolved--it's not good to know what you don't need to know.<br /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I don't think Shellebink needs therapy. It seems to me that she has things going on for herself in her life. Sometimes we all over-analyze stuff that it makes a situation bigger than it is. Shellebink appears to have significant insight into the stuff that she experienced in the past, the stuff she's experiencing now and sharing with us here that I think she'll be okay.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><font style="background-color: #ffff00">I'll save the real therapy for the people that I'll be working with tomorrow</font>. I don't like thinking when I'm at home trying to relax.</p>See you tomorrow Marc!<br />

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[FUNKMAN]

<p>nothing wrong with massage therapy...</p>

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<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>nothing wrong with massage therapy...</p><img src="http://scripts.cgispy.com/image.cgi?u=Ippolito" border="0" /><br />As long as 100cc of Manual Release is prescribed.<br />

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[ShelleBink]

<p>I don't mind any of the replies here, those that are serious and those that are in jest ((ahem... SPOON)). I'm writing these things in a public forum, and I'm not so foolish to think that people would ignore it.&nbsp; At the same time, I'm also choosing what exactly<strong> to</strong> share because this is a public forum.&nbsp; There are many things that happened between this person and myself that I would never share with anyone other than my closest confidants.<br /> </p><p>Most of what's going on is just me getting a bit of anxiety and thinking too much about the past with him.&nbsp; Granted, I haven't been in a relationship with him in almost two years, but in dealing with him with court issues it lasted until last year.&nbsp; And by March of last year he claimed he'd never be in Jersey again... by August he was back.&nbsp; When I'm at school or in situations away from my old job, I don't think of him much at all.&nbsp; But since being thrust into that environment again where he is there, its just been a little overwhelmeing to me I guess.</p><p>Its really a lot to try and accurately explain exactly what I've gone through with this person, and how its all affected who I've become - physically and emotionally.&nbsp; Its easy to look from the outside and make logical and rational suggestions of what to do and what not to do; I often did the same thing to girls in simliar situations.&nbsp; Until you're dealing with it firsthand, its like nothing you can imagine.</p><p>But, overall, this whole situation just seems like its been a big test to me.&nbsp; Well, at least, that's how I'd like to look at it.<br /></p>

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[ShelleBink]

<p>Great all I need to see is a Froy whacking off picture and the creepy webcam pics of the past callbacks will be complete</p><p>((the oa.com kids will know what im talking about))&nbsp;</p>

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[walking joint]

<p>i may be wrong, but as i read the thread it seemed more and more likely to me that for some reason you still like this guy and if enough time passed where you can casually get along you may fall back into the same situation.&nbsp; i don't want to piss you off, but thats how the post reads to me. </p><p><img src="http://hometown.aol.com/satelitecam/images/sig_wk.jpg" border="0" /> thanks for the sig SatCam...and thanks for bringing it back Furie </p>

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[Iamnotatool]

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[Justice4all]

<font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><p>&nbsp;</p><font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><font face="verdana" color="#000000" size="0">So I'm back to being stupid.....So Snoogans......is um......your girl hot? <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/wink.gif" border="0" /></font> <p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>one Tom is enough, thanks </p><br />Hey! Don't MAKE ME get all Parkway Jesus on your ass!


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"That's disgusting"
"Shut up and keep sucking!"

[Snoogans]

You would love to get on anyone's ass wouldn't ya<br />


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[Bulldogcakes]

<font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p>i
may be wrong, but as i read the thread it seemed more and more likely
to me that for some reason you still like this guy and if enough time
passed where you can casually get along you may fall back into the same
situation. i don't want to piss you off, but thats how the post reads
to me. </p><font color="black" /><br />I read the same thing. She did refer to him as an &quot;addiction&quot;.&nbsp; An obviously unhealthy one at that. <br />


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[monsterone]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font>Therapy and drugs. I think they've probably caused more problems than solved. <p>&nbsp;</p><p>Some people could stand to use them. See below...</p><p><img width="298" height="206" border="0" src="http://www.theshavedreport.com/dynamic/media-images/article/image_id207.jpg" /></p>

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</p>

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[ShelleBink]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p>i
may be wrong, but as i read the thread it seemed more and more likely
to me that for some reason you still like this guy and if enough time
passed where you can casually get along you may fall back into the same
situation. i don't want to piss you off, but thats how the post reads
to me. </p><font color="black" /><font color="black"><br />I read the same thing. She did refer to him as an &quot;addiction&quot;. An obviously unhealthy one at that. <br /></font><font color="black"><br />You guys make a good point, and I've actually thought of the possibility of me being in this situation but single.&nbsp; I don't think I would have lasted too long with avoiding him, and I wish that weren't the case.&nbsp; I think its partly because I devoted a lot of time and energy into my relationship with him, and he couldn't have cared less -- and I took that as me not trying hard enough.&nbsp; Its a complicated, fucked up situation, and I'm just glad I won't be seeing him for a while -- especially after he and I briefly spoke on Friday.&nbsp; I could just tell how much he hates is life ((he lost custody to his kids, wife #3 left him, he's abusing drugs again)), and it just makes me feel bad.&nbsp; I wish I could tell people who have hurt me significantly to &quot;fuck off,&quot; but I just don't have the ability to back it up.&nbsp; As I mentioned before, there's a lot of things that happened between he and I that I choose not to share in a public forum such as this.&nbsp; </font><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><font color="black" />

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[grlNIN]

If you REALLY and truly didn't want this man in your life, he wouldn't be.<br />


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[ShelleBink]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font>If you REALLY and truly didn't want this man in your life, he wouldn't be.<br /><br />Only way I could do that is to murder him... and I've already moved on from those feelings of inflicting severe pain on this person.&nbsp;<p>&nbsp;</p><p>***</p><p>Considering all the good and bad in all of what's gone on, things could have ended up worse.&nbsp; After talking to him briefly on Friday ((the last day I was at work)), I realized how he truly is -- still fucked up and just very lost in life; and I'm glad I've done things to stay away from him ((in spite of what a lot of you may think)).&nbsp; I do feel bad for him, yet I know I probably shouldn't.&nbsp; But today I'm going back to school, away from him and the headache of thinking multiple &quot;what-ifs&quot; scenerios.&nbsp; </p><p>Being in that environment may not have been the brightest idea, but as I look back on it -- I feel I *had* to do it -- not for anyone but myself.&nbsp; The possibility of him thinking or believing that I'm fearful of him or can't be around him... that he'd &quot;win&quot; ... not something I'd want to have in my head.</p><p>Best way to describe how I feel is that of a fighter getting knocked down, and still getting up over and over again and looking at their opponent and saying &quot;Is that all you got?&quot;</p>

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[grlNIN]

<p>I'm
not trying to be hurtful or anything here, it sounds like this guy has
put you through alot but......you're not really coming across(to me
atleast) like you're actually ready to let go of him and/orr the
effects the relationship have had on you and move on.<br />
</p><p>It just sounds like you're either addicted to the drama(like
missy pointed out about her friend) of the situation or you're overly
obsessing and complicating the circumstances more than need be.</p><p> </p>

<br />
*Edit* Good to know you've moved on and away from him, feeling bad
won't make him realize his problems though, best not to dwell on his
shortcomings.<br /><img border="0" src="http://scripts.cgispy.com/image.cgi?u=ninny" />
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<font color=black>This message was edited by grlNIN on 1-16-06 @ 1:01 PM</font>

[mdr55]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p> </p><br />
<p>Being
in that environment may not have been the brightest idea, but as I look
back on it -- I feel I *had* to do it -- not for anyone but myself. The
possibility of him thinking or believing that I'm fearful of him or
can't be around him... that he'd &quot;win&quot; ... not something I'd want to
have in my head.</p><p>Best way to describe how I feel is that of a
fighter getting knocked down, and still getting up over and over again
and looking at their opponent and saying &quot;Is that all you got?&quot;</p><br />
<br />Why do you even care
what that asshole thinks? If you TRULY have moved on, you wouldn't even
care. Unless the ladies where right about you.<p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>But if it's closure you want, Don't LOOK back.&nbsp;</p>

[angrymissy]

<p>Wait a second... this was all for a few weeks work?&nbsp; Next time sign up at a temp agency instead if you need the money.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><font style="font-size: 9px" face="Verdana">quote: </font><font size="1">Only way I could do that is to murder him... and I've already moved on from those feelings of inflicting severe pain on this person.&nbsp;</font> <p>&nbsp;</p><p>Are you kidding me?&nbsp; You could have avoided this whole situation.&nbsp; You want someone out of your life, you do everything possible not to see them.&nbsp; If&nbsp;he's stalking you out, you get a restaining order. &nbsp;In fact, why don't you have a restraining order on this guy? I don't ever see my ex, because I don't want to.&nbsp; Sometimes it means missing out on things some of my old friends do, but I want him out of my life, so I don't go if I know he will be there.&nbsp; You have the control to keep him out of your life, and you obviously don't want to.&nbsp; I'm not trying to be mean here, just honest.&nbsp; You still want to see this guy, and you seem to relish the drama.&nbsp; This is exactly how it went down with my friend years ago.&nbsp;&nbsp;This is&nbsp;your own business, but I'm giving you my opinion since you posted here for advice.&nbsp; </p><p><br /><img src="http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/angrymissy/newsig.gif" border="0" /> &quot;To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public.&quot; [ Theodore Roosevelt ]</p>

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[spoon]

Seriously Shelle, you shouldn't go back there for the reasons you listed.&nbsp; Find another job and move on.&nbsp; Just get him and his problems out of your life, bc they're not your life any longer.&nbsp; You have a cool guy now and he hasn't said as much, but he can't be too cool on how you seem to fixate on his life and your past.&nbsp; Move on, for good this time.&nbsp; Be strong in your new life and learn from the mistakes we've all made in the past.&nbsp; Marc is right, you shouldn't give a rats ass about him, his life, his problems or this job any longer.&nbsp; It seems you do have some problem letting it all go.&nbsp; Perhaps your attracted to his problems and pain which seem now to trump your own, making you feel liess troubled then in the past.&nbsp; The key here is to push this chump out of your life for good and start some new trouble with our resident eyebrow-less Snoochie Douchie!

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It's like a koala bear crapped a rainbow in my brain!

[ShelleBink]

<p align="justify"> </p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font>Seriously Shelle, you shouldn't go back there for the reasons you listed. Find another job and move on. Just get him and his problems out of your life, bc they're not your life any longer. You have a cool guy now and he hasn't said as much, but he can't be too cool on how you seem to fixate on his life and your past. Move on, for good this time. Be strong in your new life and learn from the mistakes we've all made in the past. Marc is right, you shouldn't give a rats ass about him, his life, his problems or this job any longer. It seems you do have some problem letting it all go. Perhaps your attracted to his problems and pain which seem now to trump your own, making you feel liess troubled then in the past. The key here is to push this chump out of your life for good and start some new trouble with our resident eyebrow-less Snoochie Douchie! <br /><br />I expected nothing less from you spoon, being Snoogie's hetero life partner.<p> </p><p align="justify">Like I said, as much as I would love to just tell him to fuck off and die, I don't have that ability to do so and still follow through.</p><p align="justify"> As much as I hate to acknowledge the fact, I spent a lot of time with this guy; probably more than I should have, etc. etc. Consider the fact that even after I got myself away from him, and he temporarily moved to NY, I STILL had to deal with court bullshit with him. A lot of choices I made while in the relationship the guy chose to use against me, and I refuse to get into those particular incidents.<br /></p><p align="justify">With Shaun being the new guy in my life, he's a lot different than most guys I dated since he's done a lot through the <strong>years </strong>to prove to me he's a caring person. A lot of my problems with the ex have effected my relationships since... very badly I may add. Maybe this is why I'm fixated on the ex so much... he was able to change me so much from who I used to be into who I've become... hell, he was the reason that for many times in 2003 until 2004 I was in the hospital, even for the OD.</p><p align="justify">So yeah, maybe I am fixated with this guy, maybe it is insane, maybe there is something significantly wrong with me. But I think asking for opinions and advice on a message board during the time is a lot less risky than the things I could have done if I kept a lot of this bottled up inside.</p><p align="justify">I sincerely appreciate everyone's insight and advice throughout this whole thing. It did make me look at things a bit differently. And if given the chance to go back a few weeks knowing what I know now, I'd still post this thread.</p><p align="justify"> But, I really have little else to say about the subject, without telling everyone the story of what went on. I'd rather save that information, write a script, and make it into a movie-of-the-week... ha.</p><p align="justify">And Snoogans has eyebrows... I duno wtf y'all are talkin about...&nbsp;<br /> </p><p align="justify"> </p>

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<font color=black>This message was edited by ShelleBink on 1-16-06 @ 7:22 PM</font>

[mdr55]

<p>&nbsp;</p><font face="Verdana" style="font-size: 9px;">quote:</font><p align="justify"> </p><br />
<p align="justify">With Shaun being the new guy in my life, he's a lot different than most guys I dated since he's done a lot through the <strong>years </strong>to
prove to me he's a caring person.</p><font color="black"><br />
</font><br /><img width="270" height="400" border="0" src="http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/columbia_pictures/the_new_guy/dj_qualls/newguy2.jpg" /><p>&nbsp;</p><p>She digs me- Snoogans&nbsp;</p>

[ShelleBink]

<p>i laughed so hard i coughed... just the idea of &quot;The New Guy&quot; hehehehe</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>At least Shaun has some muscle and doesn't have faggy bleached out hair.&nbsp;</p>

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