Ok girls, need info

[TomPoo]

One of my buddies is dating this girl... I hate her.

I just have this gut feeling that this whole "sweet" , "thoughtful" ,"caring" image that she projects isn't real.

I think all these nice things she does have alterior motives and are manipulative in nature.

Bottom line... I don't trust her.

So ladies, what are things I should be looking for, what are some signs that would help me reveal what a coniving bitch she really is?????

Thankyou for your help.



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----TomPoo

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[TooCute]

Manipulative how? What is she
trying to manipulate him into,
and does he really care?

What kinds of sweet caring
things does she do, and why
don't you trust her - ie what
precludes her from actually
being a really thoughtful
chick? (we do exist, you know)



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[Jennitalia]

You can let your friend know how you feel about her, but in the end he's going to do what he wants anyway, and if she really is a manipulative bitch, it's something he'll have to learn on his own.

[ScottBaio]

Wear a wire and trick her into admitting that she's up to know good. That always works on TV.

I'm a star.

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[TomPoo]

You can let your friend know how you feel about her, but in the end he's going to do what he wants anyway, and if she really is a manipulative bitch, it's something he'll have to learn on his own.


yea, I understand this, and I would not just come out and tell, but I want him to see the things for himself and hopefully he can come to his senses.

Manipulative how? What is she
trying to manipulate him into,
and does he really care?

What kinds of sweet caring
things does she do, and why
don't you trust her - ie what
precludes her from actually
being a really thoughtful
chick? (we do exist, you know)


Its kind of hard to explain.

For example, it has been my experience that kind people are in general kind to everyone.

I don't see her being nice to anyone besides him... which leads me to believe that something is up. For example:

The other night we all ate dinner together. I grilled up some food. Like two minutes before the food was done, I came in and said can you get some plates and stuff.

So my buddy and his girl were watching football and she gets up and says "I'll do it, you keep watching"

So I come in and she took out plates, forks, napins, glasses, etc for him and her and NOT ME. So I am like What the Fuck is that???

Now I know this is SO MINOR and INSIGNIFICANT... but she does shit like this ALL THE TIME!!!!

It just seems alot of the "nice" things that she does are motivated by hope of winning affection as opposed to just acting in a kind way.

Wear a wire and trick her into admitting that she's up to know good. That always works on TV.


Were you ever in a movie where you did this... cause I can go rent it tonoght if you think it could help. (It's so cool getting advice from a REAL celebrity)

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----TomPoo

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"There's nothing more exhilarating than pointing out the shortcomings of others, is there?"

[TooCute]

It could be that she's
oblivious and/or couldn't
carry enugh place settings for
THREE people. You should have
said something ("What, I don't
get to eat, also??") but
anyhow...

If she is really a conniving
cunt, which is entirely within
the realm of possibility since
I'm convinced all chicks -
even the sweet caring
thoughtful perfect ones like
me <g> - have been
manipulative at some point in
their lives (as have all guys
I'm sure), then it's his tough
luck.

Of course you could start
leaving other chicks'
underthings hidden in his
sheets so that when they start
getting it onget it on she
finds them, or maybe get
anotehr chick to make a visit
when the gf is over to make a
scene (who the hell is that
slut??!) but that sounds like
too much effort. He'll live
and learn.




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[Jennitalia]

I'm convinced all chicks - even the sweet caring thoughtful perfect ones like me - have been manipulative at some point in their lives


Well, yeah, how else are we supposed to get our way?? ;)

[TomPoo]

ok, i could use some more info here!!!

(Jesus, I should have just gone straight to the Horde King... HEY HORDE KING!!!! WHERE ARE YOU!!!! READ THIS F'n POST!!!)

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[Pootertoot]

Tommy, m'boy, I've been through this a million times. There's nothing worse than being the single man amongst friends. It's even worse if it's stupid people in love, but that's my own pet peeve.

It's twofold:

1) Friends always can see a relationship won't work before the person in the relationship. It may work in the face of EVERYTHING wrong with it, and that says a lot for the dedication of those in it, but because people are stupid, people are willing to settle for someone that, ultimately, makes them unhappier than happy. (The joy that they get from being loved could be from someone less manipulative, less insane, etc.)

The advice on this one is simple, but unfortunate: Say nothing. Grin and bear it. You could stand losing a friend over it if you do, even if you're right. You're dealing with someone's pride as well as some other key emotions. Best course of action: Avoid situations where the three of you are together. Although the reason for at least half of these Third Wheel Situations are that the relationship is failing enough that they wouldn't be able to have fun without you there. I recently got a call at 3 am because my friend had nothing to do with his girlfriend. So they talked to me on the phone for two hours.

Then again, they could just want to hang out with you. So keep it quiet.

2) You're jealous. You don't have anyone and someone else does, someone "less deserving" in your opinion, perhaps. If anyone knows about bitterness over being alone in the face of couples, it's me.

There's nothing you can do about this, it's not going to go away until you realize its stupidity, or just get in a relationship.

So, in conclusion, you're fucked. She may be the devil herself, but if you tell him that, he's only going to hold it against you. That's how it works.

Didn't you see that episode of South Park with Chef in the Succubus? ;P

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