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Death Metal Moe

01-29-2006, 11:58 AM

Sounds kinda weird to me.  I like meeting people in person, but I know a guy who tried it and seemed to have positive experiences.  Then I know a guy who got stood up.  It's just like regular life then I guess. 

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FUNKMAN

01-29-2006, 12:32 PM

my brother found a nice girl on match.com... 

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NickyL0885

01-29-2006, 01:47 PM

Ive tried it, since i dont have luck w/ women in person. 1 girl stood
me up, another thought i wasnt really into her, and another lied aboot
her age. said she was 19. found out she is 16, which pissed me off. I'm
really getting annoyed. I've never had a g/f and i want one. Every girl
i like burns me. "ur a great guy and have a super personality but..." i
hate that. 

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Sheeplovr

01-29-2006, 02:36 PM

yeah use EHarmony if you want Right Wing Propaganda mail and anti gay opperations 


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Tenbatsuzen

01-29-2006, 04:34 PM

Neil Clark Warren from EHarmony kinda freaks me out.  He reminds me of Marshall Applewhite a tad.  

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01-29-2006, 08:33 PM

This fucking thread should be renamed "Ask Justice".

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Rodan

01-29-2006, 10:06 PM

Craigslist
is great. It's free (which makes the pool limitless), anonymous to
post, and totally random. If you're a good writer or have something
cool going on you can find a girl on those boards. I've been on more
than a few dates using the site, and have never been stood up. 
Plus you get to know a lot of people. Some have been horror stories, of
course. Some big girls, some really dumb, but most of those get filtered out when you read what they
write. Or you could always just stop talking to them and post another
ad. 
 
 




This message was edited by Rodan on 1-30-06 @ 2:20 AM

Justice4all

01-30-2006, 06:41 AM

quote: This fucking thread should be renamed "Ask Justice". rainbow in my brain! As much as I hate to admit it, Spoons-in-bed is right. I prefer to use the internet dating sites then go to the bar/club/lounge/whatever to meet a woman. Tried the bar scene for a while and the women were [sarcarsm]oh so stable[/sarcasm].Depends on what you are looking for. I have used Match and (back in the day) <a href="mailto:Love@aol.com">Love@aol.com</a>. which is now match. Also there is AFF (adult friend finder) which might be good...depending on your age.Found one or two head cases but overall on Match some nice people out there.Give it a shot and go for it. I wish ya luck! You also will want to be very creative with your profile (and honest). They seem to respond to that.And a pic will help you big time. Just some suggestions. Let me know how you make out on it!

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ShelleBink

01-30-2006, 07:52 AM

I tried online dating for a while, the last time being about a year ago.  Wasn't terrible, but the matches they paired you with by common interests weren't really good matches, in my opinion.  Its worth a shot if you're interested in it, and as others have mentioned, being honest is key. 

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Jennitalia

01-30-2006, 08:13 AM

i used to meet guys through work and friends.  I met my current guy through Match.com.  We've been together for a year now, and have a place together (well, the official move in date is in March).  I haven't been this happy in years.

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libbyzibby

01-30-2006, 09:27 AM

www.Lavalife.comthey have 3 categories...thes best is 'intimate encounters'a guys dream.....as long as there is a picture of course

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West Side Claire

01-30-2006, 11:28 AM

quote: my brother found a nice girl on match.com...  from a nice family???? 

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UnknownPD

01-30-2006, 11:37 AM

My current relationship is from match. We've been together about three months and things are going great. Cool thing for a 40 year old guy is that there are hundreds if not thousands of single women out there. You can do three four dates a week. A few psychos... a few horny girls and sooner or later someone comes along and pow..

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01-30-2006, 11:59 AM

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KC2OSO

01-30-2006, 12:03 PM

quote: a few horny girls and
sooner or later someone comes along and pow..

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suggums

01-30-2006, 12:04 PM

this will be, an everlasting love for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehi im dr neil clark warren founder of eharmony.comyou'll like the way you look, i garauntee it

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Tall_James

01-30-2006, 02:03 PM

I got laid on my only Match.com date back in the 90's. So I would recommend it.

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FUNKMAN

01-30-2006, 02:09 PM

I got laid on my only Match.com date back in the 90's. my brother too... they should change it to snatch.com

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Reephdweller

01-30-2006, 05:36 PM

Do what I did, find your chick on a messageboard!Seriously though, I could never do online dating or crap like that. You need to socialize, get out and meet people, make friends or even go to board events or something where you meet real folks. If you're lacking social skills these types of things are great ways to get to know people. I fell into this weird rut where I didn't much socially for a very long time and I ended up paying the price for it by losing my ability to talk with people. I developed phobias about what I said and if I would come off sounding stupid. It affected my ability to meet new people and most importantly to find someone I wanted to be with. When I realized this was my problem I immediately began working on ways to improve myself. I got out more, went to parties, shows, and hung out with friends from work. After a while it got a lot easier for me and my fears started going away. I met someone (this is years ago) and started dating and met someone who really helped me get back all the confidence I had lost. After that relationship ended I was lost though I quickly bounced back and found someone so much better in so many ways (Amy). My whole point of this, is that I gave the online dating thing a thought for maybe a second and then quickly decided that if I was going to meet someone and have relationship I should do it on my own. I think I was so much better for it because ultimately a became a better person and I met someone who I love so much. I wish you the best of luck no matter what you do.

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JohnnyCard

02-07-2006, 02:24 PM

ok, so i joined match last week, and so far nothing.  It seems to be just like a bar or club.  If they don't like your picture, there is no response.  I've written a few girls and winked at many.  So far, I'm not diggin' the match.com.  Hopefully, the next three weeks will be different.  Anyone have opinions on eharmony?

Bulldogcakes

02-07-2006, 03:04 PM

Women like it if you're not so foward. Try posting a picture where you're not jerking off in front of a computer. 

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Justice4all

02-12-2006, 06:39 AM

JohnnyCard wrote: ok, so i joined match last week, and so far nothing.  It seems to be just like a bar or club.  If they don't like your picture, there is no response.  I've written a few girls and winked at many.  So far, I'm not diggin' the match.com.  Hopefully, the next three weeks will be different.  Anyone have opinions on eharmony? Give it some time. Some of the women like when you write to them instead of wink. The more effort you put in the more they are willing to respond. Chances are if you like them there are like 30 others who sent out winks so be patient. I sometimes got responses two weeks after I sent an email or response. Do not be discouraged. Find something to send to them in the email that you found interesting in their profile or if you have a mutual interest, like country music or skiiing or dancing,,,things like that.And make your introduction interesting...even at the risk of being corny. Something like "Allow me to introduce myself..." insteasd of just "hi". They tend to open those emails and send the generic other ones to deletion hell.Even though you might come across as a LITTLE corny (depending on your intro...) with those kind of introductions sometimes you will get them to chuckle from it and that is always a good start. Keep it up...let me know how you are doing. You can PM me if you would like and keep me posted or if you want  I can offer some advice.

Evilpete

02-12-2006, 05:48 PM

if you got a myspace account you could try going through the profiles there and messaging some women

Steels

02-12-2006, 07:10 PM

I've met a bunch of women off match and generally had fantastic
experiences.  I am currently happily dating one as I write this. 
 I absolutely love the fact that I can pick the essential (well to me) criterion.     I
typically like good looking Asian women anywhere from 18 to their mid
20's pending on the individual's maturity.  This is not an easy
task (unless you are at a University or Asia) especially when partying
in the city tends to be more of a hassle than fun at times.  Match
cuts to the chase and if you have the goods it's a great service. For people like me with specific tastes it cuts a lot of corners and is really helpful.   There is NO WAY I would have met the lot of Asian honeys I have (without the help of a University) without such a service.

TheC0BRA

02-13-2006, 08:23 AM

<img height="98" src="http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y206/Curtis2073/Cobra185x207.jpg" width="110" border="0" />After my last relationship ended, I met girls anywhere I could.  I went to line dance lessons and yoga classes.  I played my guitar at the beach when the sun was setting.  I was on match and met a couple of girls a week.  My deal was that I would wait as long as necessary to meet the right one, I wasn't going to waste my time trying to make the wrong one right.  A year and half later I met the right one and we have been together over 3 years now.  She's Russian, 8 years younger and the best relationship I ever have had.  I'll put up some rules for internet dating in a while!  Don't be in a hurry and don't waste time on the wrong one!    LIFE IS GREAT!

MHasegawa

02-13-2006, 08:34 AM

Are those online sites good if you're a shy, tempermental, miserable asshole like myself??

LordJezo

02-13-2006, 09:22 AM

Jennitalia

02-13-2006, 10:05 AM

MHasegawa wrote: Are those online sites good if you're a shy, tempermental, miserable asshole like myself??  Be sure to include that on your profile, should you decide to try it.

JohnnyCard

02-13-2006, 05:42 PM

LordJezo wrote: <a href="http://www.jdate.com/" target="_self">The only site you will ever need.</a> Thanks, but I'm not Jewish.

Evilpete

02-13-2006, 05:43 PM

LordJezo wrote: <a target="_self" href="http://www.jdate.com">The only site you will ever need.</a>    only thing is with some of them a date on friday night would be sacrelige <blockquote />

Evilpete

02-13-2006, 08:03 PM

I've been thining of diving into teh online dating thing myself.  Has anyone ever use datefling.com?

Steels

02-14-2006, 02:24 PM

MHasegawa wrote: Are those online sites good if you're a shy, tempermental, miserable asshole like myself??  Of course it is not good for the kind of person you currently are. Online, offline, ANYWHERE would be a dead end with that triple threat attitude. Not to mention the comb....LOSE IT!  Online dating is not very different from meeting people wherever you may. There was an old stigma that online dating was usually practiced by people out of desperation or the inability to meet members of the opposite sex in a more "traditional" means. This misunderstanding has led many people who have dating "problems" to believe that the women or men that will practice online dating share the same "difficulties" hence giving the individual a greater chance to hook-up, score or whatever you may be looking for. Unfortunately, this is not the case and will lead to much disappointment. This is all the same playing field boys and girls and there are leagues here as well.  The major perk being you get to choose from a stable of women or men that are of a type you are interested and/or attracted to.

Clutch

02-14-2006, 03:08 PM

Meeting people online, then in real life, isnt bad. You just need to do your homework to find out of they are worth it.  I've done my share of "internet" parties on AOL and Paltalk and ya just gotta feel the people out. I met someone off aol and have been going out for quite some time... I guess I lucked out and found a good one...

MHasegawa

02-15-2006, 05:20 AM

You bring up a good point, Steels.  Personally I can't help the fact that I'm shy, I get constantly made fun of everytime I speak by people who think they are my friends so that leads to my short fuse being lit.  I guess I can't meet women or approach them correctly because It's almost impossible for me to trust anyone and I'm extremely unsure of myself. Sorry for changing direction in this thread which I know everyone on this board complains about.

Jennitalia

02-15-2006, 05:52 AM

you really need to get some self confidence and stop putting yourself down.  when your friends see/hear you do this, they're just going to add to it.   nobody really wants to hang with somebody that constantly puts themself down and whatnot

Steels

02-15-2006, 03:06 PM

MHasegawa wrote: You bring up a good point, Steels.  Personally I can't help the fact that I'm shy, I get constantly made fun of everytime I speak by people who think they are my friends so that leads to my short fuse being lit.  I guess I can't meet women or approach them correctly because It's almost impossible for me to trust anyone and I'm extremely unsure of myself. Sorry for changing direction in this thread which I know everyone on this board complains about. There was a woman in a different thread that basically came out and said she wanted to get with you, in other words of course.  The posters name was Shelle Blink.  If you didn't pick up on that before I'm letting you know now so go on and tear that up playa!

TheMojoPin

02-16-2006, 08:34 AM

Snoogans is cool with that?

Donnielimes

02-16-2006, 03:44 PM

My cousin met her Husband on a online dating service. They are happy as clams and her Mom even loves the guy. I like the idea of picking out the criteria so you can get what you want instead of settling for what slides by.

Evilpete

02-16-2006, 04:04 PM

I"m still looking around at the different dating sites here, and so dar
match seems to be teh best, how much does it cost to join them?

Contra

02-17-2006, 02:49 PM

So many with problems meeting the ladies. Simply spit on them and call them a dirty whore and they'll love you forever!

Seriously though, meeting people online can be just as hazardous and "normal dating", whatever that is nowadays. However, for the horribly introverted like myself, it can offer great opportunity to open yourself up to others. It could even be the first step to doing the same in public. So go for it!

Saying all that, I've never tried those online services myself.

TheQuestion

02-17-2006, 02:56 PM

Am I the only one who thinks the best way to meet women is to spend less time on the computer?

Jennitalia

02-27-2006, 04:05 AM

my guy's friend has a singles/mingles site called nycmingle.com.   He plans events every month.  Over the weekend he held a wine tasting in the city.  My guy and I went for moral support and, of course, for the wine.  About 40 people turned out.  For me, it was kinda weird being at a singles thing with my guy, but the people we met were all really nice, and I had a blast.  It's a great way to meet some new people and then   Mostly people in their 30s.  I highly recommend it to my single rf.net pals