Why are men liars?

[angelinad128]

I have been with my ex for 4 years. We have been talking about getting back together as a couple again. I found his page on MySpace and he filled out that stupid questionaire that some ppl have. Everything about us in regards to those questions have been a lie! What got me the most was the question about ever having been in love. He answered i dont know. I dont know! I have 4 years of notes, cards pics etc to the contrary.  I am so pissed! I know this is tacky but I so want to post a bulletin with his email/screen name. I actually burned the birthday card I was given last month as a start. It's cold outside. LOL  I'm thinking 1 thing a day. Am I wrong ladies?

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>2 things:</p><p>1. Not ALL men are liars.</p><p>2. Don't act like women are blameless.</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Death Metal Moe on 2-21-06 @ 9:02 PM</span>

[torker]

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[FUNKMAN]

<p>maybe he truly is 'not sure' that he's been in love being you eventually seperated?&nbsp; at least he didn't say he was 'never' in love...&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>

[angelinad128]

in my head we had broken up. we were still 'seeing' each other &amp; he would say things to the fact the we still a couple in his mind &amp; the things being said are&nbsp;not things that are said to just a fuck buddy

[MadMatt]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br /><p>maybe he truly is 'not sure' that he's been in love being you eventually seperated?&nbsp; at least he didn't say he was 'never' in love...&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>I have to go with Funkman on this and agree with Moe that not ALL men are liars -- and women can be pretty big liars too.&nbsp; I was with my wife for 7 years and thought I was in love, but since we split I have had second thoughts.&nbsp; I think I <em>was</em> in love, but my current circumstances have colored my memories so much that I can't be sure anymore.</p><p>I am not trying to outright defend the guy, but you mentioned that you had already broken up and I thought I would relay the perspective I have gained.&nbsp; </p><p>It might be better to discuss the issue with him before it's too late -- unless you have already made your judgement.&nbsp; </p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>I got a wacky idea.</p><p>Why don't you talk to him instead of going by some bullshit on MySpace?</p>

[angelinad128]

one comment/post from this girl sounds as if they already went out. i sent him a text, hes at work right now &amp; he couls only say &quot;why was i looking for him on myspace&quot;. I wasnt &quot;looking for him&quot; i was randomly putting in emails of friends of mine to see if they were on there that I dont get to speak with much anymore to add to my list.

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>If you're broken up, why do you care if he went out with someone else?</p><p>With every post, it seems like you're a little hung up on him too.</p>

[angelinad128]

we were just together this weekend&nbsp; <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/down.gif" border="0" />&nbsp; its a slap in the face

[FUNKMAN]

<p>you have to make decisions that will make you happy, plus you have a little one to think about. he may know he has you by the heartstrings and is testing how much your willing to take. you should lay it on the line with him and go with your instincts and maintain respect for yourself. know in your mind if you don't like what you hear you're going to cut them strings and move on...</p>

[Evilpete]

<p>it goes both ways, women are also liars, I'm a nice guy and women
tend to take advantage of that and betry my trust and loyalty.&nbsp; I
wouldn't go out there and paint a broad stroke about all men<br />
</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>Evilpete</strong> wrote:<br /><p>it goes both ways, women are also liars, I'm a nice guy and women tend to take advantage of that and betry my trust and loyalty.&nbsp; I wouldn't go out there and paint a broad stroke about all men</p><p>Exactly.&nbsp; I look at that and just think &quot;Well I don't bullshit people.&nbsp; It's not ALL men, but men do get a bad rap all the time.&quot;</p>

[angelinad128]

thanks guys. all i know is that i'm to nice &amp; i always get shit. why ddoes is seem that the girls who are bitches get everything? its tru nice guys do finish last <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/furious.gif" border="0" />LOL

[FUNKMAN]

<p>I wouldn't go out there and paint a broad </p><p>i don't know, sounds kind of interesting....</p>

[angelinad128]

LOL what color would u use? fezman blue?

[FUNKMAN]

i'm actually preferable to purple...

[angelinad128]

there is a blue that looks purple depending on the light <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/tongue.gif" border="0" />

[FUNKMAN]

<p>i like painting in the dark...</p>

[ShelleBink]

<p>I've had my long list of dealing with asshole guys, and also I've done my fair share of hurting nice guys.&nbsp; Communication is key.&nbsp; </p><p>For some people, and once in my experience, I kept floating back to the same guy for over four years.&nbsp; Sometimes its the idea of having someone familiar around gives you a false sense of security; even if they turn out to be an insensitive asshole.&nbsp; Not saying this is the case, but if you're already having trust issues with this guy and you're only &quot;seeing&quot; each other again, I'd first talk to him about it and try to work it out, but if that doesn't work ... I'd consider finding someone new.&nbsp;</p>

[grlNIN]

<p>You know lying is a sin you go to Hell for.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><strong /><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />one
comment/post <strong>from this girl sounds as if they already went out. i sent
him a text, hes at work right now &amp; he couls only say &quot;why was i
looking for him on myspace&quot;. I wasnt &quot;looking for him&quot;</strong> i was randomly
putting in emails of friends of mine to see if they were on there that
I dont get to speak with much anymore to add to my list.<p>&nbsp;</p><blockquote /><p>&nbsp;</p>

[angelinad128]

i'm very confused right now. he is calling me on my cell, but i have nothing or rather dont know what to say right now to him.

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>grlNIN</strong> wrote:<br /><p>You know lying is a sin you go to Hell for.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><strong>angelinad128 wrote:<br />one comment/post from this girl sounds as if they already went out. i sent him a text, hes at work right now &amp; he couls only say &quot;why was i looking for him on myspace&quot;. I wasnt &quot;looking for him&quot; i was randomly putting in emails of friends of mine to see if they were on there that I dont get to speak with much anymore to add to my list. </strong><p>I didn't want to be that blunt, but yea.&nbsp; That &quot;Looking for friends&quot; part sounds fishy.</p>

[angelinad128]

LOL, well it's not. I have 3 ppl move out of state. 1 moved to CA &amp; works wacky hours. we play phone tag alot due to the time zone ddifference also.&nbsp; Her name is ivonne, i can give her # out if u dont believe me LOL

[angelinad128]

plus why would I not see if he had a profile &amp; add him, he is a friend or at least was. wouldnt want to be the only ugly peron on his site now LOL

[Death Metal Moe]

If you like your friend, you won't give out her number.&nbsp; You remember what happened to Harry.

[angelinad128]

LOL, u would probably have as much luck getting a hold of her as I have!&nbsp; Do you psot when your band plays or is that done on the bands page?

[bobrobot]

<p><strong><font size="1">Why are men liars?</font></strong> </p><p><strong><font color="#000099">Are not!!!</font></strong></p><p><img height="215" src="http://network.news.com.au/image/0,10114,5019496,00.jpg" width="287" border="0" /></p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />LOL, u would probably have as much luck getting a hold of her as I have!&nbsp; Do you psot when your band plays or is that done on the bands page? <p>I had a post going in here but there aren't many Metal fans in here so I stopped.&nbsp; We get a lot more heat on our MySpace account so that's the way Unhallowed spreads the word on the net, along with our official website.</p>

[grlNIN]

<p>Get over him and get a life/move on.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Problem solved.&nbsp;</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

You're a nasty drunk!

[Steels]

<p>Invite her to a show Moe, you and the comb can have a death metal double date with two board honeys.&nbsp; </p>

[grlNIN]

Add it to the list.<br />

[FUNKMAN]

<p>next time you're with him just bite it off</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>problem solved</p>

[UnknownPD]

<p><font size="2">Why are men liars? </font></p><p><font size="2">It comes with the penis. Lying and an inability to do dishes</font></p>

[DESERTEAGLE.50]

<p><span class="postbody"><font size="2">Why are men liars?</font></span></p><p>You need some Leykis 101.&nbsp;</p><span class="postbody"><font size="2" /></span>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>Steels</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Invite her to a show Moe, you and the comb can have a death metal double date with two board honeys.&nbsp; </p><p>You know how that'll end.&nbsp; </p><p>And since when did you get the &quot;Green light&quot; to use that term in public??</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p><img height="150" src="http://www.4pmweddingsalon.com/sponsor_logos/lifetime_logo_blue_web.jpg" width="150" border="0" /></p><p>&quot;Up next:</p><p>Why Men LIE!!!&quot;</p>

[Steels]

<p>The PIC is off limits, not the word!&nbsp; If so I didn't know.<br />
</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I was under the impression you and I only knew about that hence just using the quick drop.&nbsp; </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Regardless I think you should accomodate Angelina in her new found interest in Death Metal Man Ass!!!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Tear that up nigga!&nbsp;</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

He he, wise ass.&nbsp;

[suggums]

why is it that pretty much every lifetime stereotype is true? does that make them transcend the class of stereotype?<br />

[angelinad128]

Hey Steels, I grew up a metal head. my first concert when i was 14 was iron maiden

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />Hey Steels, I grew up a metal head. my first concert when i was 14 was iron maiden <p>HA!&nbsp; NICE!!</p><p>HORNS UP!&nbsp; </p>

[angelinad128]

and how are you doing anyway? it was nice meeting yhou at the xmas party

[bobrobot]

<p><font size="2">It comes with the penis.</font></p><p><strong><font color="#000099">Ewww!!! Premature???</font></strong></p><p><img height="287" src="http://www.prejac.com/images/prejac-stop-premature-ejaculation.gif" width="224" border="0" /></p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />and how are you doing anyway? it was nice meeting yhou at the xmas party <p>Is Steels as svelt and handsome in person?</p>

[angelinad128]

LOL, he is thin, he was very nice &amp; very drunk <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/drunk.gif" border="0" />

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />LOL, he is thin, he was very nice &amp; very drunk <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/drunk.gif" border="0" /> <p>Well how much liquor do you think that beautiful 32&quot; waist can take?</p>

[angelinad128]

Too funny...how is knuckles?

[Death Metal Moe]

He's great actually.&nbsp; Everyone who comes in our store loves him.&nbsp; He's a great cat.

[CYYYFYYY]

Did you ever consider that he lied in MYSpace so he would look better?

[Steels]

<p>Very drunk?&nbsp; Not nice considering it's either a jab or an acid-ridden observation.&nbsp; <br />
</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>And I prefer slender and defined to thin thank you.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><br />
</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[angelinad128]

<strong>CYYYFYYY</strong> wrote:<br />Did you ever consider that he lied in MYSpace so he would look better? <p>No I didnt. At this point I'm still looking at it as a slap in the face &amp; that I fucking lost 4 years to this asshole</p>

[angelinad128]

<strong>Steels</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Very drunk?&nbsp; Not nice considering it's either a jab or an acid-ridden observation.&nbsp; <br /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>And I prefer slender and defined to thin thank you.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><br /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>You are very cool</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>CYYYFYYY</strong> wrote:<br />Did you ever consider that he lied in MYSpace so he would look better? <p>No I didnt. At this point I'm still looking at it as a slap in the face &amp; that I fucking lost 4 years to this asshole</p><p>Well I think the point here is this:</p><p>If you still care about this guy and you want things to work out, you HAVE to talk to him about all your concerns.</p><p>If you don't, forget him and move on.</p><p>If he won't make time to talk to you, you know his answer.</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Death Metal Moe on 2-22-06 @ 9:15 AM</span>

[Furtherman]

If you are going to take seriously anything he wrote on some website... well... jokes on you.&nbsp; Forget about it.&nbsp;

[angelinad128]

Moe &amp; Furtherman, i guess your both right, thanks

[sr71blackbird]

Forget about him and move on.&nbsp; To dwell on it sounds desperate and catty.&nbsp; Go for a &quot;nice guy&quot; and dont be so concerned with looks and youll be fine.

[FUNKMAN]

<p><img height="170" src="http://www.crimelibrary.com/graphics/photos/gangsters_outlaws/mob_bosses/wives/3c.jpg" width="200" border="0" /></p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong><font size="2"> &quot;YOU'RE A LIAR&quot;</font></strong></p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />Moe &amp; Furtherman, i guess your both right, thanks <p>And just trying to be fair, you may want to take the advice of messageboard posters with a grain of salt too.</p><p>We're trying to be nice but you really don't know any of us.&nbsp; You gotta do what you think is right in the end, and I have no idea what to tell you about how to figure that out.</p>

[Furtherman]

<p>No Moe!&nbsp; We're right!&nbsp; We are right!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Most of the time!</p>

[MilkmanDann]

<p>Hmmm could this be the guy you were dating?</p><p><img src="http://img354.imageshack.us/img354/9075/rollinsliarvideo8ua.jpg" border="0" /></p>

[angelinad128]

<p>LOL...this was a good place to vent</p>

[sr71blackbird]

<p>I would just recommend forgetting about it and not let yourself get upset over it.&nbsp; Im sure his blog was not meant for you specifically, and it seems you might have taken it as that.</p>

[angelinad128]

yes that is exactly right. but what hurts/bothers me the most is that this girl left a comment saying basically not to break her heart. obviously he wont be fucking both of us anymore