the saddest break up ever

[GwEnYpOo]

<p>my boyfriend of nearly six months , just broke up with me yeaterday . he said that he still is in love with me but my m others rules are too much and it's too painfull to be with me because he barely ever gets to see me .he said it was the best thing for both of us , but i just can't see that.this is the worst brealup i've ever gone through , and i've gone through more than a few . this was the boy i lost my virginity to , this was the first time i've ever actually felt like i was in love . this is really killing me . </p><p>&nbsp;plus i see this kid every day in school , he's in 5 out of 8 classes im in . </p><p>i just dont know what to do with myself. i dont know what to do period .</p>

[sr71blackbird]

I can tell by your writing that your hurting, and Im sorry.&nbsp; But you know what?&nbsp; He must not know what a good thing is, and by letting you go, he proves it.&nbsp; I know its hard, but try and see that you will move on and it is his loss and you will find love again and all this will one day be just another experience.&nbsp; There are millions of guys out there kid!

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by sr71blackbird on 2-25-06 @ 10:06 AM</span>

[FUNKMAN]

life always goes on! &nbsp;keep your chin up...

[torker]

I'd hit White Castle.&nbsp; And I'd hit it&nbsp;hard.

[cupcakelove]

I went through something similar when I was in college. Except we were together for a few years.&nbsp; The best thing to do is take it one day at a time and try to keep yourself busy so you don't think about it.&nbsp; Surround&nbsp; yourself with friends, family and other things that make you happy.&nbsp; Exercise is probably the best destraction.&nbsp; I know its hard, but in a few months you'll look back and wonder why you were ever so hung up on this person.&nbsp; Its sounds crazy, I know I didn't believe when it was said to me, but its true.<br />

[Dirtybird12]

<p><a href="http://www.perrynoid.com/xm/breaking.mp3" target="_self">Henry Rollins - spoken word about breaking up.mp3</a></p><p>This guy is always a hoot to listen to when you are depressed over a relationship or something. <br />EVERYBODY goes thru this stuff. Hang in there buddy</p>

[landarch]

I did that to a really nice girl once.&nbsp; Her mom and dad were impossible, but more than that, I figured since I was first entering college, the grass would be eventually greener for me (college girls don't have those pesky parents bothering about).&nbsp; I'm happily married now, but always felt bad about shitting on her.&nbsp; Eventually looked her up online and apologized via email.&nbsp; We wrote back and forth two or three times, and&nbsp;that was it.&nbsp; Now life can go on.&nbsp; Looking back, I can't figure out what was so upsetting for either of us.&nbsp; Did we really think we would last forever?&nbsp; at 17 years old? HA! Well, Good luck to you anyway.

[suggums]

<p>welcome to the club</p><p><img border="0" src="http://www.mobile-weblog.com/50226711/images/huge_crowd.jpg" /> </p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by suggums on 2-25-06 @ 12:04 PM</span>

[keithy_19]

<p>Aw. Listen, life sucks sometimes. Especially with relationships. But I can tell you for a fact, that you're an awesome girl who would make any guy happy. Sure, you feel really bad right now, but you'll find someone more deserving of your love. And that my lady, is a fact. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Keep your chin up and I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. </p>

[stavers]

<font size="4">Did it have anything to do with your grammer or spelling?</font>

[ozzie]

<strong>stavers</strong> wrote:<br /><font size="4">Did it have anything to do with your grammer or spelling?</font> <p>It's gramm<font color="#ff0000"><strong>a</strong></font>r, smartass.</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by ozzie10_86 on 2-25-06 @ 1:32 PM</span>

[Hottub]

<strong>stavers</strong> wrote:<br /><font size="4">Did it have anything to do with your grammer or spelling?</font> <p><strong>Don't be an Ass!!</strong></p><p>Gwen, I know it hurts and is hard to deal with. I was there when I was your age. Guess what? You are young enough, and strong enough to get over this. It will more than likely happen again before you find that certain someone.</p><p>For now, keep yourself occupied with friends, family, music, etc.&nbsp; You WILL get over it. Before you know it, you will be ready to go out and find somebody.</p><p>Keep your chin up.</p><p>Hottub</p>

[spoon]

<strong>Hottub</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>stavers</strong> wrote:<br /><font size="4">Did it have anything to do with your grammer or spelling?</font> <p><strong>Don't be an Ass!!</strong></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Are you kidding?&nbsp; That was classic.&nbsp; It was a two-fold joke due to the error in his own post.&nbsp; Top shelf stuff right there.&nbsp; And what relieves pain better then humor?&nbsp; </p><p>As far as the break goes, it happens to all of us.&nbsp; I too had a bad break in college after a few years and it only increases you're ability to know exactly what you want in a relationship in the future.&nbsp; I consider it one of those steps usually necessary to evolve in regards to relationships.&nbsp; Usually before all is said and done, you'll be on both sides of this fence.&nbsp; Consider yourself lucky you only have 6 months to dwell on.&nbsp; And hey, you always have Nick!</p>

[East Side Dave]

<p>don't listen to radiohead for a while, though, it'll make it worse. maybe listen to some ACDC</p>

[suggums]

and satanica<br />

[Bulldogcakes]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>cupcakelove</strong> wrote:<br />I know its hard, but in a few months you'll look back and wonder why you were ever so hung up on this person. Its sounds crazy, I know I didn't believe when it was said to me, but its true.<br /><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Agree 100% Cupcake. Gwen, first cut is the deepest, as the song goes. But its only because you're young and dont have alot of experience to fall back on. If it makes you feel any better, breakups get progressively easier from here on out. </p><blockquote /><p>&nbsp;</p>

[keithy_19]

Good Mourning by Alkaline Trio helps me with relationship stuff.

[Bulldogcakes]

<p><a href="http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_1737262.html?menu=news.quirkies" target="_self" title="I hear its lovely this time of year">I hear its lovely this time of year</a></p><p><strong>Hospital for the broken-hearted</strong>


</p><p>A hospital clinic for the broken-hearted has been set up in Germany to give emergency treatment to those who have been dumped.</p>
<p>
Set up by Munich-based Dr Birgit Delisle, the clinic in the Schwabing
Hospital is aimed primarily at love-sick teenagers who do not know how
to cope with a broken heart.</p>
<p> &quot;Having your heart broken can
lead to physical and psychological problems, from loss of appetite
which leads to sudden weight loss to unbelievable pain that drives many
people to take drastic measures.&quot;</p>
<p> The free clinic in the Bavarian capital will have experts on hand to advise both sexes on how to cope with being single.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><a href="http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_1737262.html?menu=news.quirkies" target="_self" title="I hear its lovely this time of year"></a>

[trackstand]

<p>my boyfriend of nearly six months , just broke up with me yeaterday . he said that he still is in love with me but my m others rules are too much and it's too painfull to be with me because he barely ever gets to see me .he said it was the best thing for both of us , but i just can't see that.this is the worst brealup i've ever gone through , and i've gone through more than a few . this was the boy i lost my virginity to , this was the first time i've ever actually felt like i was in love . this is really killing me . </p><p>&nbsp;plus i see this kid every day in school , he's in 5 out of 8 classes im in . </p><p>i just dont know what to do with myself. i dont know what to do period .</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p>

[mothershucker]

Yeah, no one has ever been dumped by a b/g friend when we where in school <img border="0" src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/rolleyes.gif" />.<br />

[Justice4all]

<p>Gwen I am sorry you have to go thru this, but (and I know it sucks to hear this) it happens to EVERYONE at one point or another in their lives.</p><p>I am curious though...what are some of those 'other rules' you were talking about? That might give us a little more insight as to why he decided to break it off with you.</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>trackstand</strong> wrote: <p>&nbsp;</p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p><p>This is a little harsh, isn't it?&nbsp; I guess you're a tough guy, right?</p>

[GwEnYpOo]

boo fucking hoo? how bout i put your &nbsp;fucking face through a bread machine . DICK.

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>GwEnYpOo</strong> wrote:<br />boo fucking hoo? how bout i put your &nbsp;fucking face through a bread machine . DICK. <p>I'm impressed anyone still has a bread machine.&nbsp; Those things were always kinda gay.&nbsp; Made a 6 inch square of fresh bread.&nbsp; Kind of a bread tease if you ask men.</p><p>But you had to know someone was going to be an asshole if you shared Gwen.&nbsp; It's not fair but it's reality.&nbsp; Ignore it, there's always gonna be haters.</p>

[GwEnYpOo]

ALRIGHT A CHEESE GRATER , EVERYONE HAS ONE OF THOSE

[mdr55]

Sorry about your break-up but I bet there are other boys/guys out there
scoping you out right now. It's your ex's lost not yours. Good luck.<br />

[MilkmanDann]

Hey sorry to hear, no matter what most say everyone is attached to their first for their entire life. Its not the saddest breakup ever, just look at it as a learning experience. Hurt will linger for awhile, but the next guy will prolly be better if you go with it. Cute girl, you'll do fine, din'na worry.

[mothershucker]

Get over it young lady. Do you know how many people have invested 16,17,18, etc.... years into a relationship only to come home from work early and find a strange dick in there woman? A bit worse then some friggin puppy love six month relationship break up, no?<br />

[trackstand]

<strong>trackstand</strong> wrote: <p>&nbsp;</p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p><p>This is a little harsh, isn't it?&nbsp; I guess you're a tough guy, right?</p><p>YES,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; I AM!!</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>trackstand</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>trackstand</strong> wrote: <p>&nbsp;</p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p><p>This is a little harsh, isn't it?&nbsp; I guess you're a tough guy, right?</p><p>YES,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; I AM!!</p><p>OK, just checking.&nbsp; Here's my milk money.</p>

[trackstand]

<strong>kstand</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>trackstand</strong> wrote: <p>&nbsp;</p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p><p>This is a little harsh, isn't it?&nbsp; I guess you're a tough guy, right?</p><p>YES,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; I AM!!</p><p>OK, just checking.&nbsp; Here's my milk money.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>If you check your pants pocket, you'll see I already took it!</p>

[Tenbatsuzen]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>Death Metal Moe</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>trackstand</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>trackstand</strong> wrote: <p> </p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p><p>This is a little harsh, isn't it? I guess you're a tough guy, right?</p><p>YES, I AM!!</p><p>OK, just checking. Here's my milk money.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Fuck, Moe made me laugh.&nbsp; There goes that New Year's resolution.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[GwEnYpOo]

<p>listen asshole , keep goddamn fuckin with me see where it gets you .just because your wife cheated on you that doesn't mean it's alright to take your fucking anger out on a fucking 16 year old girl , dickwad.</p><p>go lick your own asshole ya fuck </p><p>and by the way</p><p>DONT </p><p>FUCK </p><p>WITH </p><p>ME</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by GwEnYpOo on 2-26-06 @ 1:30 PM</span>

[trackstand]

<p>listen asshole , keep goddamn fuckin with me see where it gets you .just because your wife cheated on you that doesn't mean it's alright to take your fucking anger out on a fucking 16 year old girl , dickwad.</p><p>go lick your own asshole ya fuck </p><p>and by the way</p><p>DONT </p><p>FUCK </p><p>WITH </p><p>ME</p><p>Can't imagine why your boyfriend broke up with you?!</p>

[Tenbatsuzen]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>GwEnYpOo</strong> wrote:<br /><p>listen asshole , keep goddamn fuckin with me see where it gets you .just because your wife cheated on you that doesn't mean it's alright to take your fucking anger out on a fucking 16 year old girl , dickwad.</p><p>go lick your own asshole ya fuck </p><p>and by the way</p><p>DONT </p><p>FUCK </p><p>WITH </p><p>ME</p>

<span class="post_edited">This message was edited by GwEnYpOo on 2-26-06 @ 1:30 PM</span><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Gwen, I'm not trying to jump on you, but don't you think it's a little overly dramatic to claim that a 6-month relationship when you're 16 to be &quot;the saddest breakup ever&quot;?</p><p>Relax.&nbsp; You're still in school, there's a lot of guys out there, and then there's college.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[suggums]

roflcopter coming in for landing.&nbsp; you realize it was two different people right gwen<br />

[Gvac]

<p>There used to be a sticky thread at the top of this forum stating
that this was one area where members could open up and responses would
be serious and helpful.&nbsp; I don't know why it vanished, but I think
it would be kind of cool if we didn't have to trash each other or goof
on one another all the time, and &quot;That's Life&quot; should be the place to
do it.<br />
</p><p>That being said, a breakup to a 16 year old <strong><em>is</em></strong> the
most devastating thing that's ever happened to them and to ask them to
see the world through the eyes of a 25 or 30 year old is just plain
ludicrous.&nbsp; </p><p>I could sit here and tell you it's no big deal
and you'll get over it, but I'd be wasting my time.&nbsp; So I'll just
say I've been where you are and hope you feel better soon.&nbsp;</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>Gvac</strong> wrote:<br /><p>There used to be a sticky thread at the top of this forum stating that this was one area where members could open up and responses would be serious and helpful.&nbsp; I don't know why it vanished, but I think it would be kind of cool if we didn't have to trash each other or goof on one another all the time, and &quot;That's Life&quot; should be the place to do it.<br /></p><p>That being said, a breakup to a 16 year old <strong><em>is</em></strong> the most devastating thing that's ever happened to them and to ask them to see the world through the eyes of a 25 or 30 year old is just plain ludicrous.&nbsp; </p><p>I could sit here and tell you it's no big deal and you'll get over it, but I'd be wasting my time.&nbsp; So I'll just say I've been where you are and hope you feel better soon.&nbsp;</p><p>Good call GVAC.&nbsp; I completely forgot about that sticky thread because it's gone.&nbsp; Everyone in here, myself included, rip apart a lot but this was supposed to be the forum where you could talk about things without that.&nbsp; So I take back my earlier response about&nbsp;having to expect people to tool on you a little.&nbsp; They're not supposed to in this forum.</p>

[trackstand]

Is this thread done yet?<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/smoke.gif" border="0" />

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>Tenbatsuzen</strong> wrote: <strong>Death Metal Moe</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>trackstand</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>trackstand</strong> wrote: <p>&nbsp;</p><p>BOO FUCKING HOO!</p><p>This is a little harsh, isn't it? I guess you're a tough guy, right?</p><p>YES, I AM!!</p><p>OK, just checking. Here's my milk money.</p><p>Fuck, Moe made me laugh.&nbsp; There goes that New Year's resolution.</p><p>Now to break #2 and crack the mic's on our Wacky Zane-a-rific Radio Show!</p>

[angelinad128]

This will be hard to do (at first) but when your in the same classes, you have to put on a face that you not bothered by the breakup. Trust me on this, he will feel like the ass he is by this. Especially since he said that he is still IN LOVE with you.

[sr71blackbird]

Gwen, dont let these people get to you.&nbsp; Remember: whatever doesnt hurt you makes you stronger.&nbsp; <br />My life experiences taught me that I would face many &quot;rejections&quot; as I chose to percieve them.&nbsp; But rember that your love is the most vaulable gift you can give <strong><em>anyone </em></strong>and if whoever you chose to give that love to does not accept it or welcome it,<strong><em> it is their loss!&nbsp; </em></strong>You will certianly meet many other guys and sooner or later, one will come along that will make you realise that this guy you are agonizing over was never worth this anguish.&nbsp; If he cant see the value of your love, then he was never worthy of your anguish.

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>angelinad128</strong> wrote:<br />This will be hard to do (at first) but when your in the same classes, you have to put on a face that you not bothered by the breakup. Trust me on this, he will feel like the ass he is by this. Especially since he said that he is still IN LOVE with you. <p>That's a good idea.&nbsp; If you want a little &quot;get back at him&quot; do just that.&nbsp; And really even though you feelings are involved, the old saying &quot;The best revenge is living a good life&quot; is really true.&nbsp; How can they hurt you when you've moved on?&nbsp; And now that you're not sitting up at night worrying about this shit, they're the only one doing it now.&nbsp; Fuck 'em.</p><p>Unfortunately this all takes time and doesn't help you right now.</p>

[sr71blackbird]

Exactly!&nbsp; If he sees that your effected by this, he will see that he has power of you.&nbsp; Just act as if it was no big deal and if he tries to come around again, do not let him back into your heart!&nbsp; Because if you do, he is learning a whole new lession!&nbsp; Be strong and move on.&nbsp; <br /><br />Remeber this one&nbsp;lession:&nbsp; People always want what they cant (or shouldnt) have.<br />Once you have mastery over this concept, you will have an enormous power!

[keithy_19]

I just read the original post. I had a similar experience with my girl friend. To play Devil's advocate, it is hard when you can't see your girl friend. It sucks a lot. I broke up with my girl friend because it was such a hard thing to deal with. But, after a week I realized I needed her. I love her. Maybe time apart will show him that he really does need you. Or maybe he won't. It's all part of life. Getting hurt inr elationships happens. You'll be a stronger person because of it.

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>Ahhh, all this young love.&nbsp;</p><p>With bills, creditors, car repairs, taxes, aging and everything else in life, I WISH the biggest thing in my life was a high school break up.</p>

[keithy_19]

<p>The biggest thing in my life is my...nevermind. </p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>Ahh nice, that's a dick joke ya got there.</p><p>Don't be afraid, just let it flow big man.</p>

[keithy_19]

I try Moe. I try. And let it flow I do.

[spoon]

<strong>sr71blackbird</strong> wrote:<br />Gwen, dont let these people get to you.&nbsp; Remember: whatever doesnt hurt you makes you stronger.&nbsp; <br />My life experiences taught me that I would face many &quot;rejections&quot; as I chose to percieve them.&nbsp; But rember that your love is the most vaulable gift you can give <strong><em>anyone </em></strong>and if whoever you chose to give that love to does not accept it or welcome it,<strong><em> it is their loss!&nbsp; </em></strong>You will certianly meet many other guys and sooner or later, one will come along that will make you realise that this guy you are agonizing over was never worth this anguish.&nbsp; If he cant see the value of your love, then he was never worthy of your anguish. <p>No offense SR, but I always stated that the &quot;it's their loss&quot;/&quot;then he was never worthy of your anguish&quot; shit is just idiotic.&nbsp; It comes down to the fact that when were young we have these things called relationships which allows us to understand better what we're looking for, as well as everyone else.&nbsp; It doesn't have to be your the greatest what were they thinking bubble gum crap.&nbsp; It's just that we evolve and learn what we really want and it just turns out that this guy and Gwen didn't match they way she thought/thinks.&nbsp; Usually, if all goes right, you end up with the person you're the most compatible with.&nbsp; This guy obviously wasn't the one for now.&nbsp; Shrug it off and move on with an increased knowledge of what you want/need in a guy.&nbsp; That's it.&nbsp; You're 16 and have a shitload of time to find the one/have fun.&nbsp; Live and let live.&nbsp; Be civil about it and move on.&nbsp; </p>

[spoon]

<strong>sr71blackbird</strong> wrote:<br />Exactly!&nbsp; If he sees that your effected by this, he will see that he has power of you.&nbsp; Just act as if it was no big deal and if he tries to come around again, do not let him back into your heart!&nbsp; Because if you do, he is learning a whole new lession!&nbsp; Be strong and move on.&nbsp; <br /><br />Remeber this one&nbsp;lession:&nbsp; People always want what they cant (or shouldnt) have.<br />Once you have mastery over this concept, you will have an enormous power! <p>Guys, we're all acting as if this kid was a pure asshole to Gwen.&nbsp; We've all let a girlfriend go who just wasn't working out, let's cut him some slack unless Gwen gives us some true reason to jump on him.&nbsp; It just might be they weren't meant to be bf and gf.&nbsp; I for one have remained friends with a lot of my ex gfs, some I let go and some that let me go.&nbsp; No biggie if it's done with respect.&nbsp; It's called fucking life, should we stick it out with someone were just not into that way.&nbsp; And sometimes it takes time to realize it.&nbsp; Other times people do realize they did have something special and do get back together.&nbsp; Simply play it by ear and learn from your experiences.&nbsp; But tearing someone down for ending something in a civil way&nbsp;bc&nbsp;he's just not into it only raises the drama for no reason at all.</p>

[FUNKMAN]

<p>there's plenty of fish in the sea...</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by FUNKMAN on 2-27-06 @ 12:39 AM</span>

[keithy_19]

<strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br /><p>there's plenty of fish in the sea...</p><span class="post_edited">This message was edited by FUNKMAN on 2-27-06 @ 12:39 AM</span> <p>To bad the sea is polluted.</p><p>(I'm on fire tonight)</p>

[Jennitalia]

<p>He was your first, and you're 16, so it's obviously going to be painful for you. I totally understand your pain and hurt. But, it probably isn't going to be the first time you'll get your heartbroken, and chances are, although he'll probably have some sort of special place in your life, he probably won't be the love of your life. I don&rsquo;t mean for this to come out harsh, but you will move on from this, and as others have said, the best thing to do is to stay strong, don't let him see that it destroyed you and move on. </p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<p>wow, i wish i was posting on here the last time a girl broke up with me....some of you guys have some excellent advice! even spoon, (wow i cant believe i just said that!)</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>just kidding spoon</p>

[keithy_19]

Just be careful you don't put something on here about a girl who smokes pot...

[trackstand]

<p><font size="4">BOO</font></p><p><font size="4">FUCKING <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/happy.gif" border="0" /></font></p><p><font size="4">HOO!</font></p>

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

Don't be a dick trackstand.

[sr71blackbird]

Spoon, all Im saying is if you give someone your love, and they do not reciprocate it and they find no value in it, it is not really all that smart to feel bad about the loss of something taht never really was 'yours', right?&nbsp; When you think about it, if you tear yourself up over something that really is not your fault,&nbsp;or something that you have no control over&nbsp;(someone else not feeling what your feeling), the&nbsp; you are doing yourself a disservice.&nbsp; Its not Gwens fault; she did her best to give this guy the best she could give.&nbsp; He didnt have the same feelings, and she is mourning over the loss.&nbsp; I think it is better for her to realise that her love is worthy, but this guy is not worthy of her heartache.<br />The berst thing she can do is behave as if her feelings were not hurt, so that he does not get the satisfaction of knowing that his rejection can hurt her (even though she is hurt).&nbsp;

[GwEnYpOo]

<p>well it's all okay now because on sunday he called me and told me he loves and needs me and if we love eatchother we can get through anything . thank you so much eveyone for your great advice you really helped me out alot , thanks. i love you guys :) . </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>by the way , ted (my bf) wants to kick trackstand's ass.i approve .</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>THANKS SO MUCH EVERYONE!!! :)</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[sr71blackbird]

Just never lose your self respect Gwen!&nbsp;

[trackstand]

<p>&quot;Just never lose your self respect Gwen!&quot;&nbsp;</p><p>i.e. get a grip!</p>

[Hottub]

<p>Why are you harrassing Gwen?</p><p>You you have nothing constructive to add, please Fuck Off!!</p>

[sr71blackbird]

trackstand must have been rejected himself, and now is attempting to hurt others to make himself seem significant.&nbsp; Behold the small mind at work.

[Sheeplovr]

<p><span class="postbody">Just never lose your self respect Gwen</span></p><p>Is it posible to be on the internet with self respect? </p><p>I thought that's what the internet was for a haven for people with no self respect </p>

[trackstand]

<p>&quot;Is it posible to be on the internet with self respect? </p><p>I thought that's what the internet was for a haven for people with no self respect &quot;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><font size="3"><strong>AMEN!</strong></font></p><p>&quot;You you have nothing constructive to add, please Fuck Off!!&quot;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I I JUST JUST WAS WAS TRYING TRYING TO TO IMPART IMPART TO TO THIS THIS YOUNG YOUNG GIRL GIRL THAT THAT SHE SHE WAS WAS REALLY REALLY BEING BEING NUEROTIC NUEROTIC.</p><p>my fingers got tired!</p>

[GwEnYpOo]

WOW! im nuerotic because i was upset my boyfriend broke up with me ?! fuck you loser! at least I have someone who loves me . DICK . fuck off douche.how bout you go DIE&nbsp; , ass.

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by GwEnYpOo on 2-27-06 @ 7:55 PM</span>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>trackstand, you're coming off as really petty now.&nbsp; Just let it lie.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>And Gwen, please just remember to keep your self respect.&nbsp; Don't let your feelings cloud your better judgement.&nbsp; If you think getting back with this guy is the right move, then do it.&nbsp; But DON'T allow yourself to be disrespected, period.&nbsp; </p><p>I hope it all works out for you 2 kids, I really do.&nbsp; At least someone can be happy in this world of shit.</p>

[trackstand]

<p>&quot;trackstand, you're coming off as really petty now.&nbsp; Just let it lie.&quot;</p><p>Just aiming for that Dot Commando status!</p><p>SOORRRY!</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>trackstand</strong> wrote:<br /><p>&quot;trackstand, you're coming off as really petty now.&nbsp; Just let it lie.&quot;</p><p>Just aiming for that Dot Commando status!</p><p>SOORRRY!</p><p>So you post whore in a thread as you attack a 16 year old girl about her feelings?&nbsp; Come on man, I hope you're better than that.&nbsp; Just go look in any of the other threads and add some humor.</p>

[Hottub]

<p>You are not going to make it at this rate. I here The Bahamas&nbsp;are quite nice this time of year.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I'm done with you.</p>

[torker]

<p>They don't write 'em like that anymore</p><p><img height="163" src="http://www.rockpalastarchiv.de/gifs/khin.jpg" width="170" border="0" /></p>

[Hottub]

<p>NICE!!</p><p><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /></p>

[Sheeplovr]

<p>I was just makeing a joke about self respect I don't like that trackstand jumped in on it</p><p>Gwenypoo
seams like a good egg reminds me of when I was a young girl on this
message board now im a young man grizzled and learned&nbsp;</p><p>whens trackstand going on a short &quot;extended vacation&quot; or since its xm era it should be Harry Sabbatical<br />
</p>

[trackstand]

<p>You kids might wanna pull your pants up from around your ankles and go outside for awhile too.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Bulldogcakes]

<p>Actually, having someone to hate can be very theraputic for a broken heart. I think in his ball busting way Trackstand's actually (unintentionally) helping Gwen. </p><p><br /></p>

[sr71blackbird]

Trackstand, you sound really young and immature, and if I didnt know better, you yourself were rejected by this girl and this is a pathetic attempt to hurt her feelings, just as yours have been hurt.&nbsp; Us older guys can&nbsp;recognize this, but we also take Gwen under our collective protective wing too.&nbsp; Your only&nbsp;posting in this one thread, where she lets her weakness known!&nbsp; And you attack her here!&nbsp; How pathetic boy!!&nbsp;

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by sr71blackbird on 2-27-06 @ 9:15 PM</span>

[trackstand]

<p>&quot;Trackstand, you sound really young and immature&quot;</p><p>That Mr Stand to you!</p><p>&quot;Actually, having someone to hate can be very theraputic for a broken heart. I think in his ball busting way Trackstand's actually (unintentionally) helping Gwen.&quot; </p><p>Your welcome</p>

[keithy_19]

<p>I would just like to say that I called it. I said he'd get back with her, cause it's what stupid teenager boys do. They break up with people they care about and then realize their stupidity. I am Godly in my stupid teenage boyology. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>And Trackstand is ok. He just suffers from penis envy denial. </p>

[tele7]

<strong>torker</strong> wrote:<br /><p>They don't write 'em like that anymore</p><p><img height="163" src="http://www.rockpalastarchiv.de/gifs/khin.jpg" width="170" border="0" /></p><p>Kihn-sistantly funny posts mr. Torker.</p>

[bones13]

<p>Just want to make sure I understand this correctly.&nbsp; He broke up with you on Friday, got to hang out without you all weekend&nbsp; to do whatever he wanted, with whoever he wanted.&nbsp; On Sunday decides he made a mistake.&nbsp; Sounds a litttle fishy to me.&nbsp; Glad it worked out for you.&nbsp; Just will be interested to see how this all ends up.</p>

[Jennitalia]

is it me, or is it weird to see keithy offering advice in a teen angst thread, and not seeking advice.&nbsp; our li'l fella is growing up!&nbsp;

[mendyweiss]

16! (sigh)