She's going away

[keithy_19]

<p>This is probably going to come off as stupid, but I don't care. I need somewhere to vent </p><p>My girl friend is moving in with her dad at the end of the school year. She's staying in state, but it's up in north Jersey, about 40-45 minutes away from me. While that isn't far away, and I'll deinately drive up to see her, it will be a lot different not seeing her everyday. And, while I trust her not to cheat on me, I don't expect her to not notice other guys up in her new school. And with me not around she'll get lonely and maybe someone will win her over. And this is a lot of what if's and what not, but I can't sleep at night thinking of her finding someone else. </p>

[mdr55]

Fuck man, that shit sucks.<br />

[Don Stugots]

Keith. relationships can be made stronger with distance. not all "long distance relationships" come to an end. plus 45 mins is nothing. try being in different time zones. i made that work for a while with a chick, and it was a relationship only based on sex.

[Death Metal Moe]

Sorry to hear that, don't listen to Type O for awhile.

[sr71blackbird]

<p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Youll find someone better, closer.&nbsp; As soon as shes gone, youll find a new one.&nbsp; Trust me.&nbsp; </p><p>&nbsp;</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by sr71blackbird on 5-15-06 @ 10:32 PM</span>

[FUNKMAN]

<p>Everybody's high on consolation<br />Everybody's trying to tell me what's right for me<br />My daddy tried to bore me with a sermon<br />but it's plain to see that they can't comfort me</p><p>She's Gone<br /></p><p>there is no way to tell how it will turn out, only time will tell and you'll see if it's worth the extra effort to keep it goin.&nbsp; if not don't be bitter &quot; just kiss and say goodbye &quot;...</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>sr71blackbird</strong> wrote: <p>Youll find someone better, closer.&nbsp; As soon as shes gone, youll find a new one.&nbsp; Trust me.&nbsp; </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>You know how it was at that age.&nbsp; You thought you were gonna feel like that forever and your life would never change.</p><p>Go easy on the kid.</p>

[mdr55]

<p>I think I saw this episode on the Wonder Years.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[FUNKMAN]

<strong>mdr55</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I think I saw this episode on the Wonder Years.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>who you talking to?</p>

[mdr55]

<p>Don't believe that &quot;Absence makes the heart grow fonder&quot; stuff. That's a bunch of crap. But don't be a stalker either.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[HBox]

<p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">&quot;How could this happen to me?</font></font></p><p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">I made my mistakes!</font></font></p><p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">Got nowhere to run!</font></font></p><p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">Life goes on as I'm fading away!</font></font></p><p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">I'm sick of this life!</font></font></p><p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">I just want to screeeeaaaammmmm!!!!!</font></font></p><p><font color="Navy"><font size="2">How could this happen to me?&quot;</font></font> </p>



<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by HBox on 5-15-06 @ 10:50 PM</span>

[mdr55]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>mdr55</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I think I saw this episode on the Wonder Years.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>who you talking to?</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Yeah! The episode where Winnie moves in with her dad when her parents split. I saw that episode too.</p><p>Why is the Funkman butting in our conversation?&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><blockquote /><p>&nbsp;</p>

[FUNKMAN]

and also remember &quot; a bird in hand is better than two in the bush &quot;

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>HBox</strong> wrote:<br /><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">&quot;How could this happen to me?</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">I made my mistakes!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">Got nowhere to run!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">Life goes on as I'm fading away!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">I'm sick of this lie!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">I just want to screeeeaaaammmmm!!!!!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">How could this happen to me?&quot;</font></font> </p><span class="post_edited">This message was edited by HBox on 5-15-06 @ 10:50 PM</span> <p><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/devil2.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/clap.gif" border="0" /><img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/devil2.gif" border="0" /></p>

[mdr55]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />and also remember &quot; a bird in hand is better than two in the bush &quot;<p>&nbsp;</p><p>If you're going that route with the clique phrases and shit, I've combined 2 of them for your.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Before your girl moves away, &quot;Sieze the moment&quot;..........&quot;Tap that ass&quot;.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Good luck son.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><br />
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[mikeyboy]

<strong>HBox</strong> wrote:<br /><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">&quot;How could this happen to me?</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">I made my mistakes!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">Got nowhere to run!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">Life goes on as I'm fading away!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">I'm sick of this life!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">I just want to screeeeaaaammmmm!!!!!</font></font></p><p><font color="#000080"><font size="2">How could this happen to me?&quot;</font></font> </p><span class="post_edited">This message was edited by HBox on 5-15-06 @ 10:50 PM</span> <p>Well played.&nbsp; As I read&nbsp;Keithy's initial post, I thought to myself, &quot;Is there anyone more emo than Keithy?&quot;</p><p>Keithy, as a seasoned veteran, I have the following advice</p><p>in the scheme of things, 40-45 minutes isn't dick.</p><p>If you act like you're scared that every guy she meets in her new school is going to steal her, one of them will.&nbsp; Man up and do your best to make the relationship work.&nbsp; Long distance sucks, but many people (who have longer distances --i.e. states, countries, continents) have made these things work.&nbsp; I know a girl from Philly who married a guy from Germany and now lives with him and their kids in Egypt.&nbsp; I'm sure they would have loved to live 40 minutes apart.</p><p>At your age, chances are you're going top break up eventually.&nbsp; I'm not being a cynic, but it's true.&nbsp; Very few teenage relationships last.&nbsp; This is hard to accept when you're in one, because they feel so intense, but it's something to keep in mind.</p><p>So....</p><p>In a nutshell...</p><p>it's just distance, and not much at that.&nbsp; Work hard at making it work, and it just might.&nbsp; It might not even if you do work at it, but that's just the way life works.&nbsp; Act like the insecure boyfriend and it's pretty much destined to not work out.</p>

[Fallon]

My girl friend is moving in with her dad at the end of the school year.

Sounds like they're getting pretty serious.

[keithy_19]

I know that most relationships don't last when you're my age. And I won't waste your time saying that it's something special when you probably told yourself that to when you were my age. I just really wish she was staying. Cause,&nbsp; I think we could last awhile.

[keithy_19]

<p>Sounds like they're getting pretty serious. </p><p>Huddla huddla.</p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<strong>Fallon</strong> wrote:<br />My girl friend is moving in with her dad at the end of the school year. Sounds like they're getting pretty serious. <p><img src="http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y245/njdmmoe/BizMarkie.jpg" border="0" /></p>

[Death Metal Moe]

<p>OK Keithy, here's what ya gotta do.</p><p>Throw her such a vicious banging that she will NEVER forget you.&nbsp; Just stroking and banging and moaning and sweating and spitting and screaming.&nbsp; You know, the kind of session that might get the cops called on you.</p><p>Then she'll be thinking about you, and your mule.</p><p>Wink wink</p>

[AnaTickle]

<p>I was thinking about her <br />Visiting the past <br />Reconstructing details with old photographs <br />Studying the faces <br />With an objective point of view <br />Suddenly remembering doesn't haunt me <br />At the time you couldn't tell me <br />That one day i'd be glad <br />That something that i thought was love was misinterpreted <br />She had another lover- she emphatically denied <br />But they were doin' me a favor <br />A blessing in disguise <br /><br />If she would have been faithful <br />If she could have been true <br />Then i would've been cheated <br />I would never know real love <br />I would've missed out on you <br /></p><p>Think about that when YOUR with the new girl..</p>

[Bulldogcakes]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>FUNKMAN</strong> wrote:<br />and also remember &quot; a bird in hand is better than two in the bush &quot;<p>&nbsp;</p><p>I always thought it was &quot;Two in the hands are worth one in the bush&quot; </p><p>Which never made any sense to me. I'd much rather get laid than just grab someone's titties. &nbsp;</p><blockquote /><p>&nbsp;</p>

[Bulldogcakes]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br />I know that most relationships don't last when you're my age. And I won't waste your time saying that it's something special when you probably told yourself that to when you were my age. I just really wish she was staying. Cause, I think we could last awhile. <p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Yeah Kiethy, really you're like 19-20 right? God forbid they did last at that age, you'd be with one person you're whole life and never know whats out there. Which to be honest aint much, but at least I know that. &nbsp;</p>

[SatCam]

I say accept that she's going, finish your relationship now on a good note before either of you fuck it up and go your seperate ways

[Jujubees2]

<font size="3"><span style="color: black; font-family: verdana">To paraphrase Richard Bach:&nbsp;&quot;<span class="huge">If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't&nbsp;</span>hunt them down like a wild animal.&quot;</span><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: black; font-family: verdana"><p>&nbsp;</p></span></font> <p><font size="3"><span style="color: black; font-family: verdana">Seriously when my wife and I dated I was in NYC and she was in Boston.&nbsp; Oh, how I long for those days now.</span></font></p>

[Furtherman]

If you want to keep her near, and fresh, the freezer works well.

[Jennitalia]

there's nothing wrong with trying to make a long distance relationship work, as long as both parties are willing to give it a go.&nbsp; but, it's very hard to&nbsp;keep a long&nbsp;distance relationship going,&nbsp;especially at your age.&nbsp;&nbsp; you both will become busy with school, friends, life, meeting new people and such.&nbsp; chances are you may drift apart romantically.

[Katylina]

Wow- you have a girlfriend.

[dereckfishboy]

<p> </p><strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>This is probably going to come off as stupid, but I don't care. I need somewhere to vent </p><p>My girl friend is moving in with her dad at the end of the school year. She's staying in state, but it's up in north Jersey, about 40-45 minutes away from me. While that isn't far away, and I'll deinately drive up to see her, it will be a lot different not seeing her everyday. And, while I trust her not to cheat on me, I don't expect her to not notice other guys up in her new school. And with me not around she'll get lonely and maybe someone will win her over. And this is a lot of what if's and what not, but I can't sleep at night thinking of her finding someone else. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>I can't speak for everyone, but from my own experience, I find that as I get older the whole &quot;loving a chick&quot; thing goes further and further down my list of priorities. I also think that when you have your first child, the love you feel for that child eclipses the love you've ever had for a woman so much that you realize how small and replacable the love of a woman can be. A mate really is interchangable, and no matter how great you think one chick is, I can guarantee that you'll find another chick in the future that's even better. </p><p>On the other hand, when I started dating the mother of my child, we lived an hour apart and here we are still together. Not to trivialize your situation, but a 45 minute drive might be just want you need to test the strength of your relationship. If your chick truly loves you, other guys can't just &quot;win her over&quot;. A person truly in love doesn't even think like that. If she's in a position where some other guy can swoop in and steal her, then she probably sees you as temporary already.</p><p> And I know it's a very easy thing for a guy to be bitter and suspicious of a woman, but despite popular belief, a lot of women will suprise you with just how loyal and trustworthy they are. <br /><br />Whatever the situation is, I hope you grow and learn from it. Hopefully my opinion was worth something. Even if it wasn't, I wish you the best, bro.<br /> </p>





<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by dereckfishboy on 5-18-06 @ 12:52 PM</span>