I hate living at home. [Archive] - RonFez.net Messageboard

ShelleBink

06-07-2006, 05:47 AM

I've been officially home from college for about a month now, and I move into my university-owned apartment ((AT THE BEACH!)) on the 13th.  I'm literally at my wit's end living at home.  Pretty much any little thing that happens here makes me want to explode.  And to top it all off, they're doing construction on my street so I can't exactly hop in my car whenever I want to get the fuck out of here.  But on the other side of it all, if I'm not home, I have no idea what is going on ((mainly, with my mom's radiation therapy for cancer, etc.)).  And I miss my dog a lot when I'm not home.  It just sucks a lot and I wanted to get that all out of my system so I don't end up impaling a steak knife into my dad ((who only works 2 days a week now since he has so much time on the books he wants to use before retiring at the end of the month)).

Furtherman

06-07-2006, 06:12 AM

You move on the 13th?  That is less than a week.  Suck it up.

ShelleBink

06-07-2006, 06:18 AM

How fucking inspiring.  Just to give you an idea of the stupidity going on:Mom told me to clean out the one bay of the garage in order for them to put items that they are going to sell at a yard sale this weekend.  So I brought in my stuff onto our enclosed porch/sunroom, since I'm going to have to bring it back out to my car in a few days anyway.  Dad bitches that I'm "ruining the house" and that I'm a "waste" because I moved the stuff from the garage into the house since my "mother doesn't know what she's talking about" in terms of having room in the garage for all the shit they want to sell.  These sort of things have been going on for weeks.  I personally like how when I didn't have a job I "didn't do anything" yet now when I'm working upwards of 12 hours on the weekends at stupid events, I "don't do anything around the house anymore." Yea, this might be mindless bitching to some of you, but fuck you, I don't care.

Furtherman

06-07-2006, 06:21 AM

ShelleBink wrote: These sort of things have been going on for weeks.  And it will be over in less than one.

Dougie Brootal

06-07-2006, 06:26 AM

looks like further might have a date with a steak knife....<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/tongue.gif" border="0" />

Furtherman

06-07-2006, 06:39 AM

Mmmmmmmm steak.  <img height="180" src="http://neutrinodesign.com/lokutus/homer%20gummybear.jpg" width="240" border="0" />

AngelAmy

06-07-2006, 06:41 AM

yeah living at home sucks.

narc

06-07-2006, 09:08 AM

Can't you just go stay with your boyfriend for the rest of the week?

jeffdwright2001

06-07-2006, 09:47 AM

There are worse places to live:<img height="238" src="http://homepage.mac.com/kcrosbie/macnn/foley.png" width="320" border="0" />like living in a VAN DOWN by the RIVER!

J.Clints

06-07-2006, 09:48 AM

Best Thread ever...<img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/wallbash.gif" border="0" />

Jennitalia

06-07-2006, 10:01 AM

at least you're attempting to go out on your own.  it's just sad to still be living with the parents once you reach your 20s

walking joint

06-07-2006, 10:18 AM

my brother who is now 28 never wants to leave my parents.  he barely works and they barely make him pay for anything.  he is the last of the 6 kids and i don't think they want him to leave either.  as long as he mows the lawn they seem happy.  it annoys the hell out of me.  i recently moved from NJ to LI and there was 2 months between closings.  so we stayed at my parents.  it was great to save money and i really didn't mind...parts were actually fun as i haven't stayed there in years.  the only thing that annoyed me was my wife and I would buy dinner twice a week for them and i had to pay for my brothers dinner also.  the fucko would order a few apps and a meal.  he never once bought us a dinner over the 2 months.

ShelleBink

06-07-2006, 01:47 PM

narc wrote: Can't you just go stay with your boyfriend for the rest of the week?  Uhm... what boyfriend? Snoogans and I are no longer together, but still deeply care for one another.  Why does that sound like a celebrity divorce press release?  But yeah, we didn't know how to tell break the news to y'all.

FezPaul

06-07-2006, 02:10 PM

ShelleBink wrote:  narc wrote: Can't you just go stay with your boyfriend for the rest of the week?   Uhm... what boyfriend? Snoogans and I are no longer together, but still deeply care for one another.  Why does that sound like a celebrity divorce press release?  But yeah, we didn't know how to tell break the news to y'all. It could have worked, if it wasn't for the damn tabloids.

Marc with a c

06-07-2006, 02:14 PM

shellogans no more?sorry to hear it guys.i love my folks but it hate even staying the night at my parents house.

narc

06-07-2006, 03:32 PM

Sorry. That was the second time I've done that in recent weeks. Didn't mean to bring up a potentially sensitive topic.
 
For the topic at hand, my strategy has always been to do a really terrible or half-assed job. I'm not talking about when asked to do things on a daily basis. I'll do those with a smile. I'm talking about the huge ass projects that get randomly assigned to me. Then when the complaining inevitably starts, I always just respond with "If you don't like how I did it, then don't ask me to do it." It took some fights, but now whenever I'm at home, I almost never get asked anymore.

Don Stugots

06-07-2006, 03:53 PM

Shelle, i feel your pain. 3 times in the last month i have gone to visit my mom only to leave after the first hour due to nagging. I couldnt be happier not to live there anymore, and I havent for years now. I couldnt think of ever living there again, i love my mom but it is nuts to live under someone elses roof by their rules and have them tell you that it is their roof and rules.

Chin up Shell, think of it this way, this time next week you will be enjoying your place.

Cant you stay with a friend for a day or two to mix it up?

FezPaul

06-07-2006, 04:01 PM

STUGOTS1 wrote: Shelle, i feel your pain. 3 times in the last month i have gone to visit my mom only to leave after the first hour due to nagging. I couldnt be happier not to live there anymore, and I havent for years now. I couldnt think of ever living there again, i love my mom but it is nuts to live under someone elses roof by their rules and have them tell you that it is their roof and rules. Chin up Shell, think of it this way, this time next week you will be enjoying your place. Cant you stay with a friend for a day or two to mix it up? http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f281/FezPaul/clinton.jpg

Rob.Like.Hell

06-07-2006, 04:02 PM

While you're at home save as much dough as you can. Cuz when your on
your own SHIT IS EXPENSIVE!!

Bulldogcakes

06-07-2006, 04:06 PM

I have an idea. Go hang out at a local bar and go home with whoever buys you a drink.

Don Stugots

06-07-2006, 04:26 PM

<hr color="cococo" align="left">Bulldogcakes wrote: I have an idea. Go hang out at a local bar and go home with whoever buys you a drink.<hr color="cococo" align="left">

but first tell us what bar you are going to, i have some $$$ for a round or two for you.

Don Stugots

06-07-2006, 04:35 PM

<hr color="cococo" align="left">ShelleBink wrote: narc wrote: Can't you just go stay with your boyfriend for the rest of the week? Uhm... what boyfriend? Snoogans and I are no longer together, but still deeply care for one another. Why does that sound like a celebrity divorce press release? But yeah, we didn't know how to tell break the news to y'all. <hr color="cococo" align="left">

I had no idea. why am I the last to know these things?

hey, shell? umm, ahh, How you doin?

Dougie Brootal

06-07-2006, 04:59 PM

ShelleBink wrote:  narc wrote: Can't you just go stay with your boyfriend for the rest of the week?   Uhm... what boyfriend? Snoogans and I are no longer together, but still deeply care for one another.  Why does that sound like a celebrity divorce press release?  But yeah, we didn't know how to tell break the news to y'all. in that case, you can come stay with me, i live on the beach         in southern maryland.         just kidding.

ShelleBink

06-07-2006, 05:11 PM

I should amend the thread title.  I really hate spending the day in my house on days my dad has off from work ((no, I don't need to show you on the doll where the bad man touched me)).  My dad doesn't really know the volume of his voice, which is very irritating ((think Will Farrell's character from SNL "I CAN'T CONTROL THE VOLUME OF MY VOICE")).  So he never asks for me to do something, he yells it, which just makes me resentful of being asked in the first place ((yes, I am a brat)).  I mean, we're all going through a lot with my mom's exhaustion with radiation ((starting week 4 of it people)).  And since she's pretty much relied upon for everything, my dad's running around like a chicken with its head cut off.  And my oh my how I wish I could chop his head off coz it'd make things a lot easier.

Don Stugots

06-07-2006, 05:14 PM

<hr color="cococo" align="left">ShelleBink wrote: I should amend the thread title. I really hate spending the day in my house on days my dad has off from work ((no, I don't need to show you on the doll where the bad man touched me)). My dad doesn't really know the volume of his voice, which is very irritating ((think Will Farrell's character from SNL "I CAN'T CONTROL THE VOLUME OF MY VOICE")). So he never asks for me to do something, he yells it, which just makes me resentful of being asked in the first place ((yes, I am a brat)). I mean, we're all going through a lot with my mom's exhaustion with radiation ((starting week 4 of it people)). And since she's pretty much relied upon for everything, my dad's running around like a chicken with its head cut off. And my oh my how I wish I could chop his head off coz it'd make things a lot easier. <hr color="cococo" align="left">

why not Flair Chop em?

i thought you were going out for a drink and i was slipping you a ruffy?

ShelleBink

06-07-2006, 05:19 PM

Ironically, thats not the first indecent proposal I've been offered today.

Don Stugots

06-07-2006, 05:23 PM

<hr color="cococo" align="left">ShelleBink wrote: Ironically, thats not the first indecent proposal I've been offered today. <hr color="cococo" align="left">

it wasnt? damn, i am on a run of bad luck the last few days.

narc

06-07-2006, 06:08 PM

<hr color="cococo" align="left">douggrasso wrote: ShelleBink wrote: narc wrote: Can't you just go stay with your boyfriend for the rest of the week? Uhm... what boyfriend? Snoogans and I are no longer together, but still deeply care for one another. Why does that sound like a celebrity divorce press release? But yeah, we didn't know how to tell break the news to y'all. in that case, you can come stay with me, i live on the beach in southern maryland. just kidding.<hr color="cococo" align="left">

Dude, you live in Amish country, not the beach. 
Now if you were to tell me you lived in Calvert County.... And this thread has officially gone off track.