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DJEvelEd

07-13-2006, 10:44 AM

..and he lives 2 minutes away from my fiance! She hates him and wants nothing to do with him either. His other brother in law has banned him from entering his home and the other brother-in-law has not been to a family function in 10 years because of this psycho/nazi biker boy. He proudly flaunts a swastika tattoo on his arm. He says he got the tattoo so people don't think he's a punk...(yes he actually said that) I like my fiance's dad alot and told I him I want to come around but I will have to leave when his son arrives. Pops totally understands. He knows his son is crazy. His son recently beat the shit out of him and even threw a trash can at him. Mind you, Pops is 64 and has a VERY bad hip. Pops totally enables him. Naziboy lives in a house that his dad bought for him. Drives a truck that his dad paid for. Works for his dad and does NOTHING at Dad's auto body shop. After he beat his dad up he had no job, so my fiance gave him a job framing and insulating her upstairs attic rooms. He hardly showed up and EVERYTHING he did had to be ripped down because it was wrong. The sheetrockers said it was the worst framing job they had ever seen. Even the insulation was wrong. He used the plastic encased type but when that stuff is used, a piece of styrofoam has to be put between the insulation & the roof to allow airflow. That all had to be all ripped down & done over. We paid Naziboy 2,000 for NOTHING!!! He refused to fix it and started an argument with my fiance to get out of fixing it. He is a MASTER manipulator! He totally disrespected me and my fiance and I have nothing nice to say to him so I think it's best to take 2 cars to family functions and just leave to avoid any confrontation and disrespect to my fiance's family.He LOVES confrontation. He found out I'm a cat lover so he started telling me all his stories about how he tortured and killed cats.He knows I'm a vegetarian so when he invites me over he keeps telling me to eat chicken or steak or I aint eating. (So I don't eat) Then he open mouth chews meat at me and acts like "Look what you're missing" (I told him he looks good with dark meat in his mouth)He is always sweating me for Oxycontin since he found out I take it for my back. I tell him to go scratch his ass.He's 34 and hates the world because his Mommy left Daddy when he was 10, and then she died. (Yeah me too, except it was my Dad who died. GET THE FUCK OVER IT!) Well...he never got over it and now he hates "niggers" "spics" "jews" ect... because of it. He is twisted & evil. His brain does not operate the way normal people's do. Nothing is ever his fault and every argument is turned around to you. He fits the description of a psychopath in EVERY sense of the word.  <a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/psychopathy">http://www.answers.com/topic/psychopathy</a>How do I deal with this person? If he was not my fiance's brother in law, he would not have kneecaps, tires, or sugar free gas.He's Italian so his new name will be Fredo. The two car thing will help for family functions because I don't want to deck him in front of his family. But if I can somehow get him to throw the first punch....hmmmm. Any ideas?         

This message was edited by DJEvelEd on 7-13-06 @ 2:48 PM

undressa

07-13-2006, 10:52 AM

Is he single?  Just kidding, sounds like the two car thing is best and make sure he does not attend your wedding at any cost.  Why not host some family things of your own and make sure he is unaware of them, you may have to go to less events but still get to see the new fam to be.Ya know, if he were in jail, that would solve alot of problems, could you check for any out standing warents?V

suggums

07-13-2006, 11:10 AM

<img width="380" height="245" border="0" src="http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/166405/2/istockphoto_166405_clint_eastwood_s_gun_357_magnum .jpg" />just sayin

terry1979

07-13-2006, 11:10 AM

Wow, I thought I had it bad with my fiance's brother.  My biggest problem with him was that I found out he had bought us a $4000 flat screen TV for x-mas last year after he got a big bonus.  I made sure she let her parents know to convince him it was too much and return it.  At the time I felt he was just flaunting his new job and showing us up....now I hust wish I had a flat screen tv. Anyway, good luck with th nazi....my advice, relocate.

bionicyeti

07-13-2006, 11:11 AM

Sounds like this guy needs to get arrested, do some hard time, get beat up by some gay skinheads and make friends with a black guy in the laundry room.

Tenbatsuzen

07-13-2006, 12:09 PM

Tell him his sister's womb is barren, so you're adopting a black baby.  That'll repel him immediately.

Sheeplovr

07-13-2006, 12:12 PM

I got you beatsee above poster <img width="57" height="106" border="0" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" /> 


This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM

JPMNICK

07-13-2006, 12:15 PM

Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img height="106" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" width="57" border="0" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM there is so much tension with you 2, and it is wonderfull to watch from the outside.

DJEvelEd

07-13-2006, 12:27 PM

His Babymama just got out of jail for embezzlement from her former employer. They live together next to the autobody shop where he works (ha!) for his dad.Fredo feels he is untouchable. He just went to court for beating someone up and got off. He then won custody of his daughter while Babymama was in jail. The court system works for guys like this.Naziboy's daughter is my fiance's neice. We would like her at the wedding. It's a touchy situation but my fiance said her neice may have to suffer now because of her father. If he DOES come to the wedding he sits by the bathroom.

DJEvelEd

07-13-2006, 12:35 PM

Tell him his sister's womb is barren, so you're adopting a black baby.  That'll repel him immediately.Funny you mention that because I did say we wanted to adopt a crack-baby. He just laughed. He's always the LOUD, laughing, life-of-the-party kinda guy. Typical psychopath...Sweety is 44 (today actually) and she feels she may be too old to have kids. I keep telling her to save eggs and I'll save some jizz and we'll have testtube kids when we retire.

This message was edited by DJEvelEd on 7-13-06 @ 4:37 PM

terry1979

07-13-2006, 12:44 PM

maybe you're just not giving this guy a chance...sounds to me like you have a little prejudice yourself toward anti-semitic nazi skin heads.  They're people too just like you and I.  Frankly, you should be ashamed of yourself.  How about you try having him in the wedding party, that can be your olive branch.  And it wouldn't kill you to eat a steak at the guys house.  Make an effort!!!

SatCam

07-13-2006, 01:59 PM

tell him you like to eat shit. that should keep him away

Don Stugots

07-13-2006, 02:05 PM

Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img height="106" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" width="57" border="0" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM its ok sheepy you know you will always have me and the 40s station

Tenbatsuzen

07-13-2006, 04:15 PM

STUGOTS1 wrote: Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img width="57" height="106" border="0" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM its ok sheepy you know you will always have me and the 40s station   The best part is, wait until he finds out he's not invited to the wedding.

Gvac

07-13-2006, 05:27 PM

Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img width="57" height="106" border="0" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" /> 


 Holy shit did I just have a good laugh!If that's not the greatest post EVER on this board, I'll eat my hat (if I ever find it.)

Don Stugots

07-13-2006, 05:51 PM

Tenbatsuzen wrote:  STUGOTS1 wrote: Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img height="106" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" width="57" border="0" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM its ok sheepy you know you will always have me and the 40s station   The best part is, wait until he finds out he's not invited to the wedding.  wait till you realize you paid for his plate and he didnt show.

Tenbatsuzen

07-13-2006, 06:09 PM

STUGOTS1 wrote: Tenbatsuzen wrote: STUGOTS1 wrote: Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img width="57" height="106" border="0" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM its ok sheepy you know you will always have me and the 40s station The best part is, wait until he finds out he's not invited to the wedding. wait till you realize you paid for his plate and he didnt show.    Since he's guaranteed not to like either of the dishes we're offering and we already have the minimum heads, I cut a deal with the banquet manager for a suitable meal @ food cost.

JPMNICK

07-13-2006, 06:14 PM

Tenbatsuzen wrote:  STUGOTS1 wrote: Tenbatsuzen wrote:  STUGOTS1 wrote: Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img height="106" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" width="57" border="0" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM its ok sheepy you know you will always have me and the 40s station   The best part is, wait until he finds out he's not invited to the wedding.  wait till you realize you paid for his plate and he didnt show. Since he's guaranteed not to like either of the dishes we're offering and we already have the minimum heads, I cut a deal with the banquet manager for a suitable meal @ food cost. This doesn't sound uncomfortable for your fiance / his sister at all.

Tenbatsuzen

07-13-2006, 06:21 PM

JPMNICK wrote: Tenbatsuzen wrote: STUGOTS1 wrote: Tenbatsuzen wrote: STUGOTS1 wrote: Sheeplovr wrote: I got you beatsee above poster <img width="57" height="106" border="0" src="http://www.houstonwilderness.org/upload/arrow%20up.jpg" /> This message was edited by Sheeplovr on 7-13-06 @ 4:12 PM its ok sheepy you know you will always have me and the 40s station The best part is, wait until he finds out he's not invited to the wedding. wait till you realize you paid for his plate and he didnt show. Since he's guaranteed not to like either of the dishes we're offering and we already have the minimum heads, I cut a deal with the banquet manager for a suitable meal @ food cost. This doesn't sound uncomfortable for your fiance / his sister at all.    In actuality, the concept of a single vegetarian meal was brought up by me going out of my way with the Banquet Manager to make sure young Joseph was comfortable and having a good time at the wedding. But silly me, I'm just an asshole psycopath who goes out of my way to make HIS life miserable because I committed the sin of falling in love with his sister.

Thebazile78

07-17-2006, 05:11 PM

JPMNICK wrote: This doesn't sound uncomfortable for your fiance / his sister at all.    Don't you understand that it was my idea to put him on the "B" list until his attitude improved?But, on the bright side, at least he's not a Nazi. He's just a vegetarian, which isn't as difficult to work with.