I broke up with my GF and now I am sick

[CYYYFYYY]

I broke up with my GF of a year and half and now I feel sick.  It was the right choice.  We were wrong for each other.  Very different.  I finally broke up with her.  I knew it was the right thing.  She is very hurt and I feel sick for hurting her.  For all her faults she truly loved me.  There is no turning back.  I do not regret it but I feel like shit.  Sometimes the right choice is the wrong one.

[Don Stugots]

sorry to hear it man.  time heals all wounds.  if it was the right thing to do then it had to be done. 

[narc]

Stay strong man. Do what's best for both of you.

[newport king]

<p>thats fucked up dude. that make you feel like a man knowing she's home crying? what a dick.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>nah i'm just kdding. good luck. go out, have fun, call a friend and get out of the house and leave you cell home so you don't have to have the awkward phonecall where you just sit there while she crys into the phone. and if she tries to get you back with sex, just say no.</p>

[Tenbatsuzen]

<p>Wasn't this the same chick who wanted to go to AC and you came on here badmouthing her?</p><p> </p><p>Why are we supposed to feel sorry for YOU? You were the one who broke up with her.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>EDIT: What I'm trying to say is that obviously, you didn't feel good about the relationship, given past behavior, but you shouldn't be too empathic, unless something is still there.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> </p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Tenbatsuzen on 7-31-06 @ 7:19 PM</span>

[FUNKMAN]

<p>time heals all wounds</p><p>if loving you is right, i don't want to be wrong</p><p>seriously: just give it time, time will tell...&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; i think?</p>

[SinA]

<p>&nbsp;</p><p>*edit: i'll joke some other time.&nbsp; tonight you need hugs.</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by SinA on 7-31-06 @ 10:49 PM</span>

[GwEnYpOo]

you sound exactly word for word like my ex ted . but i understand where you're coming from , but remember a year and a half is a long time to invest in someone , if theres something either of you can do to work things out try it .

[CYYYFYYY]

YEs I know since I broke up I have no reason to bitch.&nbsp; I am gald we are broken up I just feel how bad I hurt her.&nbsp; We talked since I posted.&nbsp; Much better.&nbsp; I do miss her.&nbsp; It is possible to love someone and yet know you two are not right for each other.&nbsp; yes we had fights.&nbsp; WAY too many.&nbsp; But the good times were great.

[Jennitalia]

I believe that the pain is real, but I'm also sure that with time you'll realize you may not have loved her as much as you thought

[CYYYFYYY]

No dubt the pain will go away.&nbsp; I chose this.&nbsp; Still hurts.&nbsp; Bugs me I hurt her.&nbsp; It was the right choice.&nbsp; Sucks being single

[kevcala]

<p>You broke up with her.&nbsp; Sure you hurt, but not as much as her.&nbsp; Don't lead her on at all, and don't talk to her to make yourself feel less guilty or better about what you did.&nbsp; You did what you wanted to and had to.&nbsp; Just remember her feelings.</p><p>If you want to get back together, talk about it, but don't just talk to her to appease your own feelings. <br /></p><p>Breakups suck, and I am on the opposite side of an ended 4 year relationship which involved a ring, so excuse me if I'm bitter.</p><p>&nbsp;<br /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[ShelleBink]

<p>&nbsp;</p><strong>CYYYFYYY</strong> wrote:<br />YEs I know since I broke up I have no reason to bitch. I am gald we are broken up I just feel how bad I hurt her. We talked since I posted. Much better. I do miss her. It is possible to love someone and yet know you two are not right for each other. yes we had fights. WAY too many. But the good times were great.<p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>I relate to this 100%.&nbsp; But, sometimes people are better as just friends, no matter how hard you try to be more.&nbsp;</p>

[angeladi]

i have to agree with the person above me!!! breakups hurt so bad!! and u probably have no idea how crappy she feels, its good that u did what was best for you. but u do have to make sure not to lead her on because if u speak to her just to make urself feel better than that could give her some hope that u all will work things out and when they dont she will be heartbroke all over again........... good luck to you though

[SinA]

<p>go watch swingers and pay attention to that pep-talk vinnie vaughn gives johnny fave.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>you'll forget about her a little more each day.</p>