View Full Version : Married couples stink
Doogie
08-12-2006, 10:18 AM
<p>This doesnt apply to any that I know of on this board and if it does...you stink. </p><p>I have known several maried people who werent married well, before they got married. The point is, I knew both of the people pre-marriage and there was a certain attitude/spirit about them before they got married. And after they got married...WOW. It is like they took life sucking vows from each other. They just dont know how to be around each other. It os scary, the mother fuckers dont know how to say yes or no. You know, you are allowed to disagree with your spouse and also, you dont have to kiss your spouse every ten minutes in frotn of your friends. We get it...your in love with each other. </p><p>Why cant people live together for years on end before they decide, "hey this is good..." Instead of this, well we work together while we were together lets get married where for the guy there is ALWAYS that impending threat that you will take half of everything I own even BEFORE I knew you in a divorce. Why arent people the way they were before they get married. ALSO. What is with the married couple thing?? Are we the single person so perverse, almost like an elephant man nature, that you cant be seen with us anymore?? I dont get that mentality. To abandon your friends, both guys and gals baffles me. Just needed a place to rant mostly.</p><p>And to reiterate the top...if I offended you...suck it. These are my opinions and observations</p>
patsopinion
08-12-2006, 10:22 AM
<p>wtf.</p><p>hey add man.</p><p>slow down</p><p>you could have had something with this post but u missed the mark a little </p>
Doogie
08-12-2006, 10:35 AM
No I didnt miss the mark you douche, Iwas right on it. I am saying how all the married people I have come across have this over the top love thing that isnt real. And they also have this over the top pissed off thing at each other too...there is no middle ground. That is what I amsaying. Also, I am saying is how the abandon friends. Yes I know my lament is one of many over the years, but I saw something that just scared me the fuck away from marriage for years. SO no I didnt miss the mother fucking mark, mother fucker!!
mikeyboy
08-12-2006, 10:39 AM
It sounds like you need to meet some different friends.
ShelleBink
08-12-2006, 10:41 AM
Yea Doogie, you got it on the mark. The married couples I enjoy are the ones who still have fun and make each other laugh and aren't all douchey about their love and all that bullshit.<br />
SatCam
08-12-2006, 11:12 AM
I think you're jealous that your married friends are still getting laid
fezident
08-12-2006, 11:52 AM
Married people get laid?
ShelleBink
08-12-2006, 12:40 PM
<p> </p><strong>fezident</strong> wrote:<br />Married people get laid?<p> </p><p> </p><p>Sure they do... who said anything about doing it with your spouse. </p>
mdr55
08-12-2006, 12:45 PM
<p> </p><strong>mikeyboy</strong> wrote:<br />It sounds like you need to meet some different friends.<p> </p><p>100% what mikeyboy said.</p><p> </p><p>Plus include friends that have a baby.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>It's not their fault that their priorities change during a change (marriage, baby) in their life span. </p><p> </p><p>Hopefully you too will be on the other side of the fence.</p><p>It's a part of growing. </p><p> </p><p>It's
like you get that cool job at the mall, everying thing is going fine,
you're meeting people, going out, having a blast. Fast forward 10 years
later, you're still there, now you're the creepy old fellow.
Maybe it's time for a change . Go out there an meet new peeps. <br />
</p><blockquote /><p> </p>
<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote: <strong>fezident</strong> wrote:<br />Married people get laid? <p>Sure they do... who said anything about doing it with your spouse. </p><p><font face="times new roman,times,serif" size="4">Are you busy later tonight ?</font></p>
ShelleBink
08-12-2006, 03:57 PM
<p> </p><strong>richg0404</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote: <strong>fezident</strong> wrote:<br />Married people get laid? <p>Sure they do... who said anything about doing it with your spouse. </p><p><font size="4" face="times new roman,times,serif">Are you busy later tonight ?</font></p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Jerkin' off married guys, why? </p>
<strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote: <strong>richg0404</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>ShelleBink</strong> wrote: <strong>fezident</strong> wrote:<br />Married people get laid? <p>Sure they do... who said anything about doing it with your spouse. </p><p><font face="times new roman,times,serif" size="4">Are you busy later tonight ?</font></p><p>Jerkin' off married guys, why? </p><p><font face="times new roman,times,serif" size="4">Can I sneak to the front of the line ?</font></p>
Stalker Patti
08-12-2006, 04:15 PM
What i cannot understand is the Adult-child way couples relate to one another...for instance, when a husband has to forgo a Road Show or event he may be looking forward to becuase the wife will not allow him to attend. Control like this just does not make sense to me. Maybe I miss something here, but if i were married, I would not treat my guy like a little boy and tell him what he can and can't do. In fact,d I would JOIN him at the Roadshow!
Stalker Patti
08-12-2006, 04:17 PM
What i cannot understand is the Adult-child way couples relate to one another...for instance, when a husband has to forgo a Road Show or event he may be looking forward to becuase the wife will not allow him to attend. Control like this just does not make sense to me. Maybe I miss something here, but if i were married, I would not treat my guy like a little boy and tell him what he can and can't do. In fact,d I would JOIN him at the Roadshow!
Patti, will you marry me?<br />
FezPaul
08-12-2006, 05:17 PM
<strong>Stalker Patti</strong> wrote:<br /> In fact,d I would JOIN him at the Roadshow! <p><strong><font face="courier new,courier,monospace" size="2">Would ya take the jitney?</font></strong></p>
mikeyboy
08-12-2006, 09:43 PM
<strong>Stalker Patti</strong> wrote:<br />What i cannot understand is the Adult-child way couples relate to one another...for instance, when a husband has to forgo a Road Show or event he may be looking forward to becuase the wife will not allow him to attend. Control like this just does not make sense to me. Maybe I miss something here, but if i were married, I would not treat my guy like a little boy and tell him what he can and can't do. In fact,d I would JOIN him at the Roadshow! <p>I know it's been said before by others, but I find I am physically incapable of reading a Patti post without hearing her voice in my head.</p>
SatCam
08-12-2006, 11:27 PM
<strong>mikeyboy</strong> wrote:<br><strong>Stalker Patti</strong> wrote:<br />What i cannot understand is the Adult-child way couples relate to one another...for instance, when a husband has to forgo a Road Show or event he may be looking forward to becuase the wife will not allow him to attend. Control like this just does not make sense to me. Maybe I miss something here, but if i were married, I would not treat my guy like a little boy and tell him what he can and can't do. In fact,d I would JOIN him at the Roadshow! <p>I know it's been said before by others, but I find I am physically incapable of reading a Patti post without hearing her voice in my head.</p><p></p>
I can't help but visualize her dead father's grave.
I'm sorry
cougarjake13
08-13-2006, 04:40 AM
<p>i've been with my chick for 7 1/2 years and lived together for the last 2 years, and we won't be getting married until may of '08</p><p>we're still very much in love and we give each other all the space we need, she has any ultimatums like you cant go here or there, or ever gives me a problem of hanging out with friends,</p><p> her only request is that i dont come home totally sloshed to the point where i puke and then she has to be clean up mommy, so other than that we're all good</p><p>i'd say that we're best of friends and we went through some rough times in the beginning, mostly my fault, but now we hardly ever fight, most arguments are civil and sometimes playful and we move on as if nothing happened</p><p>but i totally agree that how can you get married so early when you dont know everything about the person yet, or how they'll be when you live with them, </p><p>a friend of mine met his chick a few months after i met mine, he got married after dating her for 2 years,they never lived together before marrying, almost divorced 6 months later but had a change of heart, 3 years into the marriage a kid was born and they finally divorced earlier this year</p>
Bulldogcakes
08-13-2006, 05:15 AM
<p> </p><p> </p><span class="postbody">It is like they took life sucking vows from each other</span> <p> </p><p> </p><p>Thats just hilarious. I think we've all known people like that.</p><p> </p><p>But of course, it depends on the couple. </p><p> </p><font size="1" face="verdana" color="black">Why cant people live
together for years on end before they decide, "hey this is good..."
Instead of this, well we work together while we were together lets get
married where for the guy there is ALWAYS that impending threat that
you will take half of everything I own even BEFORE I knew you in a
divorce. Why arent people the way they were before they get married.
ALSO. What is with the married couple thing?? Are we the single person
so perverse, almost like an elephant man nature, that you cant be seen
with us anymore?? I dont get that mentality</font> <p> </p><p>Wow, alot to chew on there. </p><p>First of all, alot of things change when youre married. Try this. Take something that annoys you a little bit, then add "for the rest of my life" to that. Sex slows down for alot of reasons on both sides, and that leads to issues that spread throughout the relationship. About the divorce thing, if you have $$ going in (I know, most dont) thats still yours. Its the assets aquired during the marriage that are up for grabs in most states (exc CA). As a single guy, you represent a threat to that relationship because . . .well youre single. And single guys do single guy stuff, most of which married women want their husbands nowhrere near (especially if things arent great in the bedroom) . Also, many women think that theres something wrong with you if you havent found someone, which may explain the "elephant man" attitude.<br /></p><p> </p><p>Personally, I think you should get married if you want to have children with the person youre involved with. Or if there are financial reasons. THe love thing is unrealistic and doesn't last, and marrying for love is a silly romantic idea that will inevitably lead to disappointment. </p><p><br /> </p>
<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Bulldogcakes on 8-13-06 @ 9:25 AM</span>
Don Stugots
08-13-2006, 10:35 AM
<p>i wish i could have lived with my first ex wife before we were married. her family was too old fashioned to have that. they were so old fashioned that even after we were married they didnt want her to live with me, hence the quickie divorce.</p><p>ex #2 and i did live together before the big day, but i didnt really understand how much she drank and how violent she became while drinking until after the wedding vows.</p><p> </p><p>tuckas and i have been living together for 2 years now out of the 2.5 that we have been together. it helped us out alot. we learned things about each other and ourselves by living togother be we are married. i think everyone should do it. </p>
patsopinion
08-13-2006, 10:42 AM
<p>dam stu!</p><p>was number 1 a moromon or what man. Thats straight up creepy. </p><p>But in a way it could be good.</p><p>It
would be nice to have some one come over cook clean fcuk then
leave. I dont know about sleeping witht that person for an
extended time period tho. I would prob shank her once with my
morning wood and after the stitches she would prob leave me. </p>
thepaulo
08-13-2006, 10:58 AM
don't know what you guys are talking about? Married life is bliss.
Don Stugots
08-13-2006, 11:54 AM
<strong>patsopinion</strong> wrote:<br /><p>dam stu!</p><p>was number 1 a moromon or what man. Thats straight up creepy. </p><p>But in a way it could be good.</p><p>It would be nice to have some one come over cook clean fcuk then leave. I dont know about sleeping witht that person for an extended time period tho. I would prob shank her once with my morning wood and after the stitches she would prob leave me. </p><p>#1 wasnt a moromon, she was Italian. i am not trying to generalize Italians (which i am one of) but her mom and dad were stuck in the 50's. they thought (while we were dating) that we were just holding hands while sitting in my car parked across the street. </p><p>Once, she even told that her dad didnt look at her the same way after we were married and commented to her once "if he is making you do anything dirty, i will break his legs." THIS WAS AFTER WE WERE MARRIED.</p><p>"cook, clean, fuck and leave." she did only one of those things and that was after i packed her bags for her after not seeing her for a week.</p><p> </p><p>"god damn stu." this is nothing compared to the shit i have been through and dont joke about. but i guess i should one day, after all i am a firm believer in the comedy coming from the dark places in your mind.</p>
Bulldogcakes
08-14-2006, 12:30 PM
<p> </p><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<p>"cook, clean, fuck and leave." she did only one of those things and that was after i packed her bags for her after not seeing her for a week.</p><p> </p><p>She considered packing her bags a form of foreplay? </p><blockquote /><p> </p>
Tall_James
08-14-2006, 12:32 PM
<p>Married couples stink</p><p>No we don't. You just need new friends.</p>
Furtherman
08-14-2006, 12:46 PM
<p>It sounds like your friends are the problem. I know a lot of married couples and most of them are A-OK in my book.</p><p> </p><p>But, many married couple will do the one mistake that I do not understand nor think is necessary.</p><p>And that is inviting you to their kid's <em>first</em> birthday. It's an invitation I always turn down.</p><p>It's just an excuse to show off and have some friends over to party. The kid is <em>one.</em> The kid cannot appreciate the day - what it should be is with FAMILY. Immediate family.</p><p>If you want to have a party, have a party, but not on your kid's birthday. </p>
Hottub
08-14-2006, 12:58 PM
<strong>mikeyboy</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I know it's been said before by others, but I find I am physically incapable of reading a Patti post without hearing her voice in my head.</p><p>Umm, Mikey? <img src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/innocent.gif" border="0" /></p>
ShelleBink
08-15-2006, 07:40 PM
<p> </p><strong>Hottub</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>mikeyboy</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I know it's been said before by others, but I find I am physically incapable of reading a Patti post without hearing her voice in my head.</p><p>Umm, Mikey? <img border="0" src="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/innocent.gif" /></p><p> </p><p> </p><p>I'm right there with ya, bro </p>
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