Have you ever cheated?

[keithy_19]

<p>I vaugely recall this being brought up in another thread, but I wasn't sure if the topic was it's on thread entirely. </p><p>How many of you on the board have cheated on your partner? </p><p>I bring this up cause I am currently being tempted to stray, and though I know it's bad and that I would be so distraught if my relationship ended, I'm thinking about it more and more. </p>

[PapaBear]

I broke up right before being with someone else. I might as well have cheated. The results were the same. Don't start something new, unless you're completely sure you're done with what you have.

[keithy_19]

I'm not done...I love the girl I'm with. I guess it's just getting to the point where I want to experience something new. That sounds terrible.

[PapaBear]

It's not terrible. It's human nature. Just make sure you make your decisions with your mind, not your dick. Make sure you think about the consequences. Never feel bad for having the desire, or you'll end up a basket case.

[keithy_19]

I keep on telling myself I should go for it. I mean, you only live once, right? But then, I use the same rational to say, you only live once and you are with an amazing person so why do anything to fuck it up.

[Fezticle98]

<p>I have to agree with Papa Bear on that one. It's not wrong to feel like you want to experience something new, it's normal. But prepare for the consequences of any decisions based on that. If you do love her, then I'm sure&nbsp;you'll go about it the right way.</p><p>I've never cheated on a girl I've been with. I've done some wrong shit, but not that. I don't think that I could ever do that to a girl I truly cared about. If it's someone I didn't have feelings for, I'd hope I was man enough to break it off before cheating. But you never know.</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by fezticle98 on 10-3-06 @ 3:10 AM</span>

[narc]

Never. Never will either. I've thought about it. A lot. But I don't usually attract the kind of attention from girls where that's an option.

[spoon]

I spell things in other languages in scrabble, does this count?&nbsp; But other then that I never tramposo, now time for some sueno.

[Lumber]

Never

[Jennitalia]

not with my current guy, and i dont plan on it.&nbsp; but i have in the past.

[Mike Teacher]

<p>I am currently being tempted to stray</p><p>=</p><p>Come on...</p>

[A.J.]

Once. There were a lot of lessons learned from that mistake.

[Furtherman]

<p>Never and proud of it.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>But Keith, don't let this consume your time.&nbsp; You're young.</p>

[Jujubees2]

<p><font size="2">Nope.&nbsp; After 13 years of marriage the thought has come up but I could never do it to my wife.&nbsp; She comes from a divorced family where her mother cheated on her father.&nbsp; It would devastate her to be cheated on.</font>&nbsp;</p>

[KC2OSO]

Nope.&nbsp; Not in 11 years of marriage including a long separation.&nbsp; I think I may have been cheated on but whatever.&nbsp; Also, does batching count?<br />

[FUNKMAN]

<p><strong><font size="1">Have you ever cheated?</font></strong> </p><p>yes several times but i couldn't bear the thought of having to go to summer school</p>

[blakjeezis]

Yes, once. And I went home to the my chick the next day, told her and ended it. <br />

[Jujubees2]

<strong>KC2OSO</strong> wrote:<br />Nope.&nbsp; Not in 11 years of marriage including a long separation.&nbsp; I think I may have been cheated on but whatever.&nbsp; Also, does batching count?<br /><p><font size="2">If it does, I'm guilty about 100,000 times (but man, are my forearms strong).</font></p>

[keithy_19]

It's weird. I never had much attention girls, nor guys for that matter. But, this one girl, who I do find very attractive is willing. I'm trying to place myself in my girl's place. And it's really fucked up. It's just hard to say no.

[keithy_19]

I've thought about it and I've decided it's not worth it. Morality wins.

[PapaBear]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br />I've thought about it and I've decided it's not worth it. Morality wins. <p>It's not just morality. It's good judgement and common sense. Way to go, dude.</p>

[spoon]

By the way keithy, what was the guys name?

[fleshysilo]

<p>Never considered it for a moment with my x......Come to find out in the end she was poonjamin and</p><p>blowin half the county</p>

[Fezticle98]

<strong>fleshysilo</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Never considered it for a moment with my x......Come to find out in the end she was poonjamin and</p><p>blowin half the county</p><p>Where are you posting from?</p><p>Arkansas.</p><p>Ohhhhhhhhh........</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Just kidding. That sucks.</p>

[keithy_19]

<p>By the way keithy, what was the guys name? </p><p>Jason, I thought you didn't want me to tell anyone about us.</p>

[keithy_19]

<p>It's not just morality. It's good judgement and common sense. Way to go, dude.</p><p>I still would love to fool around with this other girl. I just can't bear to see how it would effect my girl. </p>

[dereckfishboy]

<strong>keithy_19</strong> wrote:<br /><p>&nbsp;</p>It's not just morality. It's good judgement and common sense. Way to go, dude.<p>&nbsp;</p><p>I still would love to fool around with this other girl. I just can't bear to see how it would effect my girl. </p><br />
I would suggest you don't do it or leave your girl, bro. I honestly
have to say that if you are a straight-up guy then&nbsp; you need to
decide if you are a one-woman guy and stay with your chick or if you
need to find a girl who is willing to enter an open relationship (and
those girls are definately out there). You can have what you want and
not be a prick to anyone else in the process, you just might have to
look harder. <br />
<p>&nbsp;</p>

[Doctor Z]

The only thing I've ever cheated on is a test... And Lord knows how many times I've done that.<p><p>
Fuck... Now that I think about it. I pretty much cheated all the way through high school... and parts of college.