The "problem" I had in class last friday..... [Archive]

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Gaia

12-07-2006, 02:24 PM

On Fridays I have my Swedish technique class, where we pair up and learn how to use swedish massage teqniques on each other. This past friday was our next to last class and we had a practical, where we perform everything we have learned for the professors and we then graded on our performance. It's no secret that I am shy and modest when it comes to my body, so whenever its time to pair up with a new person each week, I always try to pair up with a female. Last week was different however, our prof. chose our partners for us. I wound uo with the EXACT person I have been trying to avoid all trimester. Man I was fucking pissed. He's creepy, really creepy, not only that but he also gets super stressed and visibly shaken when thiere is any type of quiz or practical. I get freaked out, but I dont outwardly show those emotions the way he does.So once the practical begins, he forgets to do alot of things, and I cant say anything because we are being watched, he also keeps touching my chest, I KNOW it was accidental, he was so nervous he didnt realize it, so I didnt say anything. The whole time he was making me nervous and making me feel wierder by the minute. Then, as I was turning so that I may lie prone, so he could massage the back of my legs, HE FUCKING DROPPED THE DRAPING SHEET AND TOWEL, FOR ALL TO SEE MY ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I ALMOST DIED AT THAT VERY MOMENT. I WAS SOOOOOO EMBARASSED.From what I know; nobody except for this girl I hang out with saw, but I DO know that my professor saw the whole boob touching incident, and spoke to him about it. If he had seen my whole ass  he would have said he saw what happened. I know he told him to "not touch the clients breasts" and advised my class mate that he needs to be much more "attentive" when it comes to draping clients. Im still embarassed about the incident and hope nobody  else saw. So should I say something or let it go?

Gvac

12-07-2006, 02:26 PM

Damn you for posting in this forum.

Captain Rooster

12-07-2006, 02:28 PM

Can we transfer this to the Hot Chic thread ... or maybe ... the "Men who batch to text" thread.

Fezticle98

12-07-2006, 02:29 PM

Say something to who?Maybe talk to your prof and tell him that you would feel more comfortable in the future if only paired with a female partner. Would you have felt as uncomfortable if it was you massaging him and not vice versa?

ChrisTheCop

12-07-2006, 02:30 PM

Since you already spoke to your prof about it, I assume you mean say something to your partner de jour. I dont think its necessary, as you mentioned both mistakes were not intentional. Maybe you can however take it as an opportunity to ask your prof to never be paired up with old sweaty palms again.

Gaia

12-07-2006, 03:01 PM

YOU GUYS ARE SO FUNNY! Well what happened was I didnt "speak" to my prof. about it. He was listening in on my conversation after class with the girl that saw in the cafeteria, and butted in, I was kind of relieved he was being nosey. He said" I heard what you said, saw it, and its on my evaluation sheet." I didnt say anything about the ass incident because I felt bad enough already. I know the teachers assistant in this particular class and we speak often around campus, I was just wondering if I should mention it to him, but I dont think I will now, I'm just going to leave it alone. I guess Im just pissed off because his carelessness has permanently scarred me. I dont think we are allowed to request just female partners, and in 3 weeks after winter break I will have a different prof. for this class. I just hope this fucking guy isnt in my next class, if he is then IM definatley speaking to the prof. to make sure he doesnt touch me. To clarify, you bothtreat each other, I treated first, then he went.  I DONT GET IT, I didnt touch his balls or anything. DAMN RIGHT I posted in this forum, My momma didn't raise a fool!!!!Sweaty palms is right. ewwww.

Doctor Z

12-07-2006, 03:21 PM

TheMojoPin

12-07-2006, 03:22 PM

Gaia, do you want this thread to stay in this forum?  This is the so-called "serious" forum, but if you're OK with people joking about what happened, I'd prefer to move it to the Confessional.

HeyGuy

12-07-2006, 03:48 PM

What kind of college is this? I dont remember being in a school with massage as a class. I wouldnt do anything, if your going to massage people you will be creeped out at times. I think you may have to zone out. If you will be the one massaging people just learn from what happened to you. The same way you feel now is prob how your customers might feeli in the future.

lintpit

12-07-2006, 03:57 PM

Sweety...Drop it like its Hot.It's a real waste of energy.

torker

12-07-2006, 04:03 PM

Thoughts and prayers, thoughts and prayers.

SatCam

12-07-2006, 04:10 PM

did it move?

sorry wrong forum

second george joke in 3 minutes

Gaia

12-07-2006, 04:45 PM

If that would make you happy then sure mojo, move it. Also, I did drop it, Im not going to bother with it anymore. What do you mean about My "customers" feeling the same? If someone is contacting me to treat them, then I doubt they will feel wierd about being touched etc; and its not a "regular" school, Im going to be a certified massage therapist.

torker

12-07-2006, 04:47 PM

So the story does have a happy ending.

phixion

12-07-2006, 04:48 PM

Campo i cant speak for gaia but my school i go to now, queensborough, offers massage therapy as a course of study.

lleeder

12-07-2006, 04:54 PM

The problem is you don't really know if the guy was uncomfortable because hes shy or if hes just some perv who took this class to fondle women. Like Opie says if you get involved in something as a profession its likely sexually thats your thing.

Doctor Z

12-07-2006, 04:59 PM

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boeman

12-07-2006, 05:02 PM

You know good and well the only reason he is getting into this line of work is to touch and see women "accidently". As a not so creepy guy, I'll admit it would be the reason I would do it. Hell yeah it's okay for it to bother you. I'd tell the professor you never want to be paired with him again... and that it may be a good idea for him to be removed from the class because of what you feel is harassment.

Gaia

12-07-2006, 05:04 PM

Doctor Z....you beat me to it!!!

Fez4PrezN2008

12-07-2006, 05:18 PM

If you are going to be doing this as part of a job, are you not going to have to touch some really creepy people at some point? (Being serious) It seems you may not be able to turn down clients because you get a creepy vibe from them (or will you? I don't know how it works). Maybe it is like being a doctor, once you do stuff that would make most people feel awkward doing it just becomes second nature. Either way, good luck.

HeyGuy

12-07-2006, 05:24 PM

Fez4PrezN2008 wrote: If you are going to be doing this as part of a job, are you not going to have to touch some really creepy people at some point? (Being serious) It seems you may not be able to turn down clients because you get a creepy vibe from them (or will you? I don't know how it works). Maybe it is like being a doctor, once you do stuff that would make most people feel awkward doing it just becomes second nature. Either way, good luck. Gaia this is pretty much what I meant by you will know how your customers feel. I just didnt put it out there correctly.Fez4prez is right, you may have some customers that creep you out. Your not going to want to turn away all of these wierdo's.So when will you be done with school and start working? I need a massage so badly. Seriously I have some major lower back pain.

Gaia

12-07-2006, 06:30 PM

Oh ok, I misunderstood what was trying to be conveyed. I guess you guys are right. Im hoping once all is said and done, I will work on my own and I will pick and choose my clients, but I guess until then It will be the occaisonal creepy person. It wasnt so much me massaging the creep, it was him touching ME. Thank god I wont have to worry about that when Im done. August of 2008 is what my expected graduation date is. I feel for you, I have lower back pain as well as neck issues.

johnniewalker

12-07-2006, 06:35 PM

Gaia wrote: On Fridays I have my Swedish technique class, where we pair up and learn how to use swedish massage teqniques on each other. This past friday was our next to last class and we had a practical, where we perform everything we have learned for the professors and we then graded on our performance. It's no secret that I am shy and modest when it comes to my body, so whenever its time to pair up with a new person each week, I always try to pair up with a female. Last week was different however, our prof. chose our partners for us. I wound uo with the EXACT person I have been trying to avoid all trimester. Man I was fucking pissed. He's creepy, really creepy, not only that but he also gets super stressed and visibly shaken when thiere is any type of quiz or practical. I get freaked out, but I dont outwardly show those emotions the way he does.So once the practical begins, he forgets to do alot of things, and I cant say anything because we are being watched, he also keeps touching my chest, I KNOW it was accidental, he was so nervous he didnt realize it, so I didnt say anything. The whole time he was making me nervous and making me feel wierder by the minute. Then, as I was turning so that I may lie prone, so he could massage the back of my legs, HE FUCKING DROPPED THE DRAPING SHEET AND TOWEL, FOR ALL TO SEE MY ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I ALMOST DIED AT THAT VERY MOMENT. I WAS SOOOOOO EMBARASSED.From what I know; nobody except for this girl I hang out with saw, but I DO know that my professor saw the whole boob touching incident, and spoke to him about it. If he had seen my whole ass he would have said he saw what happened. I know he told him to "not touch the clients breasts" and advised my class mate that he needs to be much more "attentive" when it comes to draping clients. Im still embarassed about the incident and hope nobody else saw. So should I say something or let it go?  Is there something we should know?

Lumber

12-07-2006, 06:40 PM

Damn...I just had a good one.

Gaia

12-07-2006, 06:41 PM

they have trimesters instead of semesters because its a very compact course of study.

sr71blackbird

12-08-2006, 01:55 AM

I think you guys didnt really read the part where she says this class she was in was the "next to last class".  She is not weirded out by touching people, shes weirded out by being touched. I know it is something I might be embarressed by myself if it happened to me, but if all the other students were doing their own massage at the same time, maybe they didnt see it..Or, was this two at a time in front of the group?  Because if it was two by two on display, I can really see why your so upset! I am sure any of them that saw it, by this point, are professional enough not to see an undraped ass and feel anything other than the knowledge that this guy is a nervous wreck and cant handle it.  Im sure they didnt think you did anything wrong.  Who knows, the teacher might even throw you a few extra points for going through it!  No worries!

WhistlePig

12-08-2006, 04:11 AM

I go to a massage therapist every couple of weeks and believe me she has a
bunch of stories about creepy clients, especially ones wanting a "happy
ending" though she's not that kind of therapist. She had one story about a
woman wanting a foot massage but she showed up in flip-flops and her feet
were filthy and stinky. Be prepared for perverts and inconsiderate clients,
Gaia!

FUNKMAN

12-08-2006, 04:58 AM

i went for a massage at the Manalapan Spa. the woman asked me if i wanted a deep massage, it sounded good so i said okay. that turned out to be a mistake. she was digging the palm of her hand into my calves, biceps, and hamstrings to the point where it actually hurt a little. the thing is i thought i would look like a wuss if i asked her to ease up. so i grunted and groaned and took it like a man.when all was said and done i got no satisfaction out of it.   in the classic words of Avril Lavigne"so much for my happy ending"  - good tune

hunnerbun

12-08-2006, 05:32 AM

Oh Gaia...my sister had a very similar experience when she was studying to be a RMT.  It was her friend who was treating her and the friend hooked the sheet as she was massaging her arm and pulled it down and exposed my sister's boob.  When she came home from school that day she was mortified.  But she got over it and has been working on her own now for the past 2 yrs.  No really weird or creepy stories yet!

Skellington

12-08-2006, 09:18 AM

Guys are creepy, plain and simple.  If you have the d00d in your next class, inform your professor that you aren't to be in contact with him at all.  period.creepy guys shouldn't be massus' (sp?).  But in your biz, you'll have your share of creepy clients for sure...at  least you'll make many a man pop a chub.  I'd take that as a compliment.

Furtherman

12-08-2006, 09:28 AM

wbskellington2 wrote: Guys are creepy, plain and simple.  You who callin' plain?!

Skellington

12-08-2006, 11:44 AM

Furtherman wrote: wbskellington2 wrote: Guys are creepy, plain and simple.  You who callin' plain?!your mom.

Bob Impact

12-09-2006, 03:53 PM

wbskellington2 wrote: Furtherman wrote: wbskellington2 wrote: Guys are creepy, plain and simple. You who callin' plain?!your mom. oooohhhh, face!

Gaia

12-09-2006, 07:10 PM

God I love this place!!!! Yes, creepy boy's shouldnt rub people for a living. He's going to have a hard time getting clients when he's done, and I feel bad about that, no use in making it worse or harder for him. CREEEEPPPPYYY!!!!